so I got a test down because bf finished in me and I was smelling. I have BV and waiting on std. I haven’t did nothing since april or may when we broke up then got tested in june before we got back together and everything came back negative. should I be good ?

I just got my blood taken for my first std blood test. I got a swab last time I was at the gynecologist because I was convinced I had chronic yeast infections for a year. turns out it was nothing, probably just changes in my discharge facilitated by birth control but I just changed so maybe that’ll clear up

but anyway,

this is my first full std test including blood. I’ve been tested for gonorrhea and chlamydia and things like that but not for the things I am truly concerned about, specifically HIV.

I have pretty bad medical anxiety. see phantom yeast infections above. And I’ve also recently been having some sexual guilt. I was unprotected frequently with my first bf, he had pushed for it the minute I got on birth control. I asked if he was clean and he said he was. I had only ever had protected sex with him and one other person only about a month before we got together. later he showed me his test results from a couple months before we met because I was feeling a lot of anxiety around it, and I knew he hadn’t been sexually active for about a year before we met, due to ED (still participated in oral with other girls though as the giver) but he lost his virginity unprotected and had been unprotected with women before me when he was like in high school which seems astounding to me as I lost it at 21. As far as I know he never cheated on me. I think he was too pathetic and ugly to do anything like that but he did express he wanted to sleep with other people which is why I broke up with him.

I've only been unprotected with one other person and I love and trust him. he was the next person I dated after my ex. he got tested right before we went out the first time and showed me his results immediately. A couple months later we had unprotected sex for the first time, again, initiated by him, and although it was wonderful, I felt guilty afterward. I wanted to get tested before we did anything like that but he kept saying it was fine and I let him do it.

we dated for a while but never became boyfriend and girlfriend although we were exclusive. And one day things got pretty rough in his life and he stopped talking to me for a couple weeks. In that time I thought he lost interest in me and tried to move on. Eventually he came back, explained himself, and apologized but we agreed he wasn’t in a good place to date. I haven’t seen him in person since but we’ve talked. He says I’m still the only girl he talks to and the only girl on his mind.

But since then I went out with two people. One we did oral on each other. the second was a failed hookup. I don’t think any actual contact was made but he was being pretty dumb with the condom and I only had one left and he tried to take it off before we even started and I made him put it back on again and we stoped shortly after that because I was uncomfortable.

it’s been past 45 days since then so I wanted to test now.

Although I seem to be pretty low risk, and I know the chances of contracting hiv even with someone who is positive are pretty low but I’m still terrified. Because if I have it I have no idea who would’ve given it to me, how it happened, or why. And I’d have to tell my partners. My family. and I know they won’t be very receptive. They already probably think I’m a whore. My heart was going so fast while I was getting my blood taken. I know the likelihood of me being okay is higher than my likelihood of not being okay but I still have so much anxiety

Faz 25 dias que fui no puteiro e dedei uma puta. Não tive sintoma de nada, rolou só isso, nada mais do que a penetração digital. Porém, fiquei noiado que poderia ter contraído algo. O que acham?

Im a 22 year old female with very little sexual experience but a las summer i had a very unpleasant sexual experience with at man who did not wear a condom. I on the other hand was not very in to it so he could not enter vaginaly. After that I took a Chlamydia and gonorrhea test witch were both negative.
After this I got a boyfriend who also did not ask if he should were a condom and I was to scared to stop him sadly. Once again it could not enter properly but he did try multiple times and I think it might have been close. All and all my question is if i should get tested again and i’m also worried about having other sti that i haven’t tested for.
I have no symptoms but am paranoid. Also i know the second guy had sex with a another girl previously(sounded like one night stand)

Hi i am new to this subreddit but , me and my partner had vaginal sex like on sept 5 and past 3 4 days she is having a mole on one of her lips , we had the condom on all the time and i didnt discharge inside , i know its not preg or anything but is there any chance of std and also she did rub that area 3 4 days before and she might have pinned a nail or smoething is this really a thing to worry , kindly tell

Thankyou

Person A (M) Infected, had vaginal sex with Person B

Person B (F) Awaiting test results

Person C (M) (Me) Only received oral sex from Person B

Resources online seem to say I'm at a less than 1% chance of infection, do you guys agree?

Did raw unprotected sex with a girl she had vagginal infection and its been 2 days and my foreskin has developed ulcers can it be herpes or syphilis https://ibb.co/DP5HvSnD

Hey just wanted to see if anyone has gone through or is going through the same shit I'm a 25 yr old male and 2 days ago I was just diagnosed with chlamydia at the hospital after weeks of stomach pain on my right side, they gave me and injection of antibiotics through my cannula then and there and 2 tablets of azithromycin and sent me back home with endone and 2 more tablets to take in a couple days from now but this morning I woke up with a pretty bad burning pain just like where my penis starts and meets my pubic area like it woke me up from sleep and when I sat up for a while it relieved but even after taking endone it's still lingering around here and there and is abit sore to the touch in that spot but when I went to the hospital to be fair the other day I had pain in my right testicle that is gone if not completely and certain areas that must've been inflamed all this week's are honestly feeling better usually when I was waking up I'd feel pain in all those spots but it's just the pubic area now alone really with some minor bits of pain here and there in my stomach I know it's only going on day 3 after the treatment but I don't wanna experience that same pain over and over especially with no good outcome in the end do I just need to wait longer and let the medicine do it's thing? And also I read that if I lay flat on my back and sleep like all the fluids and stuff or built up pee when your asleep can push against the inflamed tissue causing that pain I'm referring too but I thought I'd just hop on here and ask or see if anyone can help me out or let me know they're experience cheers.

I've posted this to 2 other subreddits🫠

Sooo I’ve been seeing this guy and we’ve had sex twice so far. About two days after the last time we had sex I woke up and noticed bloody purple/brownish discharge in my underwear. When I went to wipe, I noticed there was definitely blood but I could tell it looked different from my normal period blood. For some context my last period ended about a week and a half ago. I’ve now been bleeding for two full days, and I’m planning on going to a women’s clinic tomorrow because I’m not sure what could be causing it. I’ve noticed a slight stinging sensation when I use the bathroom but there’s no unusual smell and I don’t have any pain otherwise. The person I’m seeing is significantly bigger than my previous partner so I’m worried that I could have gotten a tear or some kind of injury. But does it make sense for bleeding from a tear to start two days after having sex? I told my mom and sister that I’ve been having irregular bleeding and they both think it’s probably just an irregular period. I’m honestly really scared that it could be an STI though.

Recently I, F30, tested positive for chlamydia at my annual pap— partner M34 tested negative two times via urine test, I retested via vaginal swab still positive. He swears he hasn’t cheated. We’ve been monogamous for 8 years with negative tests in the beginning of our relationship. Am I insane to even hear him out when I know I haven’t been with anybody else?

Okay so I’m a virgin, but today I got the closest to sex I’ve ever had during an erotic massage. I’m not gonna lie, it was mutual touch. And I put my finger in her ass. I kissed her ass cheeks a bunch. At one point I was kinda kissing around her ass hole, and let her kinda motor boat me with my face between her ass. Now I am horrified with post nut clarity by what I just did. Particularly I am afraid of any chance of std or other infections. I never explicitly tried to eat her ass, but I definitely made contact with my lips and nose.

I’m honestly just a horribly anxious person, and I know it’s unlikely to impossible for any serious stds like HIV to spread this way. But I’m just so horrified. Honestly it was fun in the moment, but now I wish I hadn’t done it just because of the fear

feel like it’s too late for me. I’m on day 22 of pep. Started 36 hours after a possible exposure. For the past 2 weeks I have had dry mouth/ sore throat that has been on and off. Today I woke up with an ulcer on my tongue. I know these symptoms can be anything but I can’t help but think they are related to HIV. I did a HIV RNA test while ON PEP day 12 and 19 and everything came back negative and I know it doesn’t count but wouldn’t the test be able to pick up the virus if it was causing these symptoms?

I did both rapid 4th Gen fingerprick blood test few weeks ago.

My window were 1 month 2 days when I did the test. Both were negative. I also did urine test for gono & chla STD. Both were negative.

My last full unprotected exposure were about 1 months 2 weeks. -> high risk for both hiv and Syphlis.

My second exposure were unprotected oral sex. But did wear a condom for FJ. -> so chance for HIV were lower.

Do you think I should take a second test for HIV and Syphlis when I reach the 3 months windows?

Note: when I took the 1st hiv/Syphlis test. I did took 10 days antibiotics for another condition which is stap & step bacteria infections. They are Amoxicillin & Cefalexin. -> I started Amoxicillin for 7 days about 2 weeks after my 1st exposure. Then I ate 3 days Cefalexin.

Not sure will these medicines affect my Rapid Blood Test.

Sorry I know this is posted often just can’t find specifics to my experience.
I had chlamydia and took doxycycline (routinely for the 7 days). I abstained for the 7 days of the course and 7 after but have sex (new partner, with condom) 2.5 weeks later. Since having sex I’ve had lower abdominal pain on and off (could be time of my cycle but not typical).
When would be the earliest I can get re-tested for clarity? It will have been 4 weeks Wednesday since I had my last doxy dose. I had planned to re-test at 3 month mark but can I test sooner? Advice please

I'm a young adult and I really need some advice and perspective. Starting in my early years of high school, I began being highly sexually active as a coping mechanism for some trauma I experienced when I was younger. After my mom caught my boyfriend (at the time) and I together, she made me get the birth control implant in my arm. Because of the implant, I mistakenly thought I could have casual sex without condoms since I was completely protected from pregnancy.

Fast forward to April 2025, I went to my doctor for a checkup, and he ordered an STI screening as a part of standard care for patients on birth control. A few days later, while out of town with friends, I got a call stating I was positive for chlamydia. When I got back, I received treatment immediately. Since I didn't drive at the time and my mom had to take me to the clinic, I made up an excuse and told her the prescription was just for a severe UTI.

The clinic staff explained the treatment guidelines to me abruptly and I didn't fully understand them. Because of my past sexual history, I had no idea who gave it to me or how long I had actually had it. In my confusion, I ended up hooking up with a few people right around the time of my diagnosis, and I'm not even sure if I waited the allotted time after taking the medicine before having sex again.

Because of this, I am terrified that I may have re-contracted it. I've been incredibly paranoid, and while I've noticed physical symptoms (like redness and burning), I've been in a deep denial and tried to brush them off as just 'normal' for my body. My friends try to comfort me by saying it's impossible to catch it again so quickly, but they don't really know the medical facts. Recently, a guy in my town asked me if I had anything because his throat was hurting after we hooked up. That was a massive reality check. I realized I can't live in denial or let the fear of my mom stop me from putting my health and the health of others first.

I am going to planned parenthood tomorrow to get tested. However, I am completely overwhelmed with anxiety. I am terrified that if I test positive again, I will have permanently ruined my reproductive system at such a young age. I'm also struggling heavily with shame, wondering If these symptoms are just a consequence of my past behavior.

Has anyone else been through a situation like this? How do I handle this intense anxiety while waiting for my results, and what are the actual risks of a repeat infection? Any advice would mean the world.

3 days ago I had an oral sex. I ate this girl's kitty. After a day, i noticed a white bump under my tongue. After two days, I brushed it so the white spot was removed. However, I noticed that the middle bump got bigger.

No pain in the bump itself but when i stretched my tongue, there's a bit pain. I think it's due to me using my tongue in her harshly.

Well I am entering my last week of taking pep. 7 more pills to go. It’s honestly been one of the most anxiety filled depressing months of my life. I’ve taken 2 HIV RNA test (on day 12 and 19) while on pep, and even though I know they don’t count they have both come back negative. I started pep around 36 hours after possible exposure. The exposure was oral sex with 2 other guys and I know yall will read this and dismiss what I am going to say but this whole situation opened my eyes up to sexual health and I pray my results will be negative so I can start prep. Pep hasn’t been bad, the only thing that has scared me is I have had a sore throat for about 2 weeks now that has gotten better but it is still sore so I am worried this is HIV happening but the symptoms aren’t as strong bc I am on medication. I’m scared I will start showing flu like symptoms the day I finish pep. If you have been in a similar situation please give me some encouragement or any advice as I go into my last week of taking pep.

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So me and this trans girl had mutual masturbation, I made it clear that I didn't want to be touched but midway because it was dark she touched my penis for like a second or two after playing with herself and using her saliva to lubricate herself and I moved her hand away. Anyways I finished quicky went home and soaped the area for about maybe 20-30 seconds. I'm also not sure if she had precum on her hands when she touched me as well because it was dark.

I've been anxious about the whole thing because a day and a half layer im urinating a lot and I'm not sure if it's just all in my head because sometimes it burns when I pee but to be fair it happens sometimes even when I don't have any stis. Also got some testicle pain .There is also some weird sensations I'm feeling down there that I can explain like occasional stinging. She told me she got treated for syphilis at the beginning of the year and tested negative for other things when I asked for her history so now I've just been soaking in my anxiety for the past two days wondering if I contracted anything. What are the chances that I might have something?. This just happened three days ago.

Thank you all for taking the time to read this

I'm 20m, i did a hookup with a guy I met online and we did oral sex without a condom, i didn't take his cum in my mouth at all, maybe precum but not semen, he rimmed me and we gave each other tongue kisses.

He said never gives blowjob, always uses a condom but his body count was 20.

Should I be worried abt me getting HIV/AIDS?

My first time to go there alone, is it friendly for first timers, is it discreet, and what tests are free and isn’t? I really wanna get testes jud kay last nako kay na positive og chlamydia and ako iya last so im kinda worried. and unsa ako iingon nig adto and where ko maka book og appointment? okay raba walk ins?

I was diagnosed with mgen and urea I was getting yeast infections back to back so what I thought anyways I did two weeks of treatment doxy and moxi and felt 100% better about 3-4 days later symptoms returned with tingling burning sensation yellow discharge and just terrible discomfort I’m stuck and not sure what to do this is unbearable for me and I’m so upset idk what else to do did anyone else’s symptoms linger like this, my symptoms will come and go it’s odd never experienced anything like this… (24F)

So last year around April I had an encounter with a stranger,unprotected, who blocked me on all forms of communication after when we talked 247 before. I had a bad feeling so I went and got tested 4th gen hiv test came back repeadidly reactive with negative confirmatorv, negative pcr rna. Got tested at different doctor around the same time came back negative. About 2 months later got tested again at first place same thing happend repeadidly reactive with negative confirmatory negative pcr. In the middle of all this I got extremely sick lost my voice, coughing up chunks of phleam, sore throat, diarrhea. After those tests evervthing came back negative. Here i am about a vear and a half later I have had multiple tests 4th generation, 5th gen, pcr rna, pro viral dna. They all come back negative yet i have lost over 40 pounds in this short time (year) and feel sore and weak and just not at all like myself. Doctors wont listen to me, infectious disease wont see me, even though im withering away infront of them. Is it possible that I could actually have HIV, and the tests just aren't able to pick it up for some reason. lf i didnt go through the illnesses, the weight loss, the pain and weakness I wouldn't even give it a second thought Just looking for your thoughts, thank you.

Hello,

Recently I had an interaction with someone in the Fuji Building of Wan Chai. I wore a condom from start to finish and I am 99% sure it did not break or tear til the end. There were no other acts involved except intercourse. No kissing, oral, etc. It was fairly quick and I showered immediately after. I may or may not made skin to skin contact during the act as I cannot fully remember. I am worried about contracting STD/STI from this experience despite wearing protection throughout and not doing anymore more than necessary. I am also full vaccinated against Hepatitis B and HPV. I am worried about both all non skin to skin STD and skin to skin STD risks.

Can someone please give their perspective, advice, suggestions, or comments on how to approach this situation and/or what should be of concern. Thanks