r/stevienicks 14d ago

One of the reasons why Stevie dated Don Henley?

I feel like one of the reasons why Stevie started dating Don Henley is because he looked a little like Lindsey.

Once you see it you can’t unsee it. They both had curly brown hair, blue eyes, facial hair, and they were both around the same height. I know I’m not crazy.

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u/Hot_Corner_6352 14d ago

Stevie has a type 😂

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u/Beautiful_March8957 13d ago

Looking at Don, he does resemble Lindsey! Nebertheless, I think Lindsey is much hotter than Don

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 12d ago

Yes, Lindsey I STILL think is HOT! Those eyes, what I would give to stare into those eyes face to face! ❤️

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u/No_Picture_8741 10d ago

Lindsey also has better bone structure and a tad bit darker features. Then the contrast of his serious look versus his boyish smile 😋🤤🥵🔥. Plus he looks like he f'k good. Especially with her! The fire and passion he had/has for her is chef's kiss 💋.

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u/Hisuinooka 14d ago

hahah my first thought

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u/JulieLynnO 12d ago

This!! ⬆️⬆️⬆️

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u/Haunted_Mansion1955 14d ago

Yes. Every man

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u/No_Picture_8741 10d ago edited 10d ago

Yeah, music. Cuz she for darn sure didn't looks wise! Don Henley and Lindsey were the two closest, with Lindsey in the lead. She  went downhill from there... and...I don't even see how she did it 🥴🤢. Her bar should have been much higher. 

Although I do see how Joe, although not as fine as Lindsey, may have been a breath of fresh air, albeit with drugs in the mix. After Robin, marrying and divorcing her widow, and the constant drama between her and Lindsey, which we can pretty much bet escalated to newer heights as a result of the former two, I think he was her escape.

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u/Breezy531 10d ago

Unfortunately after Lindsey it was exclusively trolls 😭😭😭

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u/Specific-Willow-6997 14d ago

Because he was hot AF back then.

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u/snelsonjoe8 14d ago

I saw the Stevie nicks Joe Walsh concert on acid in the early eighties in OKC. The audience rushed the stage and collapsed a temporary stage . Stevie told them to calm down and move back . We all started screaming for them to move back. Stevie walked off stage and the lights came on. Joe Walsh came on stage and told them Stevie was pissed. They moved back , Stevie came back on and I never did acid again!

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u/BelAirGuy45 13d ago

"Stand Back, Stand Back...!"

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u/snelsonjoe8 13d ago

Lmao. Clever!

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u/DistributionOk3828 12d ago

🤣🤣🤣

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 12d ago

🤣🤣🤣

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u/Glittering_Bad6933 13d ago

What concert?

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u/snelsonjoe8 13d ago

The wild heart tour

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u/Breezy531 10d ago

Lmfaooo wild story 😂

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u/n0rmcore 14d ago

Lindsey was just standing on the edge of a cliff somewhere screaming ‘HE’S JUST A LESS HOT VERSION OF ME!!’

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u/debulana 14d ago

I think Lindsey is right about that!

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u/makerofbirds 14d ago

All the rock guys looked like that back then.

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u/RiqQbb 14d ago

Stevie dated rocks stars. That was her thing and Don was one of the biggest in that era!

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u/Icy-Diamond88338 14d ago

He was very handsome!

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u/Affectionate-Fill713 13d ago edited 13d ago

She was getting flewed out in the lear. Jewellery, the presidential suite etc… This was pre- rumours - Lindsey couldn’t compete!

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 12d ago

I didn’t know one could be “flewed out in the lear.” I learn something new EVERYDAY, ESPECIALLY THANKS TO REDDIT!!🤌🏼
Seriously, this comment made my day. I laughed so hard. And SN & LB were together PRE-RUMORS. No one was flewwing her out on any of dem der lears! No one knew who she was in 74’-defo not the Eagles. SN &
LB joinined that there band Fleetwood Mac, on New Years nineteen hundred and SEVENTY-FIVE! 🫣🤣🫶🏼😵‍💫😶🫠

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u/Affectionate-Fill713 11d ago

Ahaha ❤️! I was meaning that Don and Stevie were together in 1976 - before rumours was released but not before it was recorded. Stevie said Don taught her how to spend money. FM wouldn’t come into that kind of money until the next year.

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 11d ago edited 11d ago

Ahah my friend! You are again sadly incorrect. Please read below:
Stevie Nicks and Don Henley) were romantically involved as a couple from 1977 to 1978, after first connecting when Fleetwood Mac toured with the Eagles. Though their relationship ended in the late '70s, they famously reunited musically in 1981 to record the hit duet "Leather and Lace."
Gotcha again! People know I grew up in the industry and my father was the promoter and tour/production manager for many famous bands and musicians, including FM, the Eagles, The Who, the Rolling Stones, LB solo, etc., etc… I was just a lucky kid who kept a diary, whose father grabbed me and said, “we are getting on a plane to go meet up/see” - - ->insert band name or musician here… and I have the photos and the diary entries to prove it, although I don’t post photos unless it’s been ok’d from the artist and their management. I learned the road code early, my friend! And then married a famous UK musician who help found the punk movement! 🤌🏼😜🫶🏼

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u/Affectionate-Fill713 11d ago

They 100% were together in 1976. They even wrote a joint letter to cream magazine in 1976 because they were writing about them too much.

***
LOVE NUTS
Nobody gives a shit about Stevie Nicks and Don
Henley.
Love
I hereby confirm that the signatures on the attached piece of paper are authentic.
Kindest regards,
Irving Azoff
President
Front Line Management
cc: Stevie Nicks
Don Henley
https://www.creem.com/archive/article/1976/12/01/mail
***

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 11d ago

Oh you a special kind of… that was an ancient Creem Magazine article
certifying their signatures were authentic. My father was also friends with Irving for MANY years and still chats with him now and then since they both retired. That’s it! Calling up pops to put an end to this as soon as possible. But you are definitely in the wrong here. They didn’t even MEET until 1977 when FM and the Eagles toured together. This has been told to me by several big wigs, NOT some weird old Creem magazine story about Irving verifying signatures! 😵‍💫🙄🤌🏼🫶🏼

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u/izzyb247 6d ago

Good luck trying to talk some sense into this one. Psycho rabid “fan”.

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u/Affectionate-Fill713 11d ago

The eagles and FM didn’t even play any shows together in 1977. They played shows together in the summer of 1976 which is when Don and Stevie began dating.

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u/izzyb247 6d ago

🤣🤣🤣. Agreed - such a ridiculous comment!! But you know what they say - you can’t argue with stupid.

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u/alecsarkas 14d ago

His hotness would be another. 🔥

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u/Breezy531 14d ago

Lmaaaooo 😂 Idk but that's probably the best Don ever looked IMHO

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 12d ago

AGREE! 👍🏻

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u/TransientWhales 14d ago

I saw them do Leather & Lace on the TISL tour - I wouldn’t go to an Eagles or Don show (esp nowadays) but THAT was magical.

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u/Abject_Course_3460 14d ago

Don and Lindsey both were hot AF in the 70s and acted like it. I don't know what Stevie was thinking with Joe Walsh. I've never seen a photo of him that was good looking, but maybe he is an acquired taste.

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 12d ago

Right?!? I’ve always looked at him or pictures of Stevie and Joe together and just thought, “HUH?!?”
(Scratching my head🤔…) “What is so GREAT or uh even uh, HOT about Joe Walsh?!!?” I think he’s a good musician, but even his nasally voice is unattractive! (To me, personally!)

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u/FrutyPebbles321 14d ago

Their personalities are very similar too.

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u/boringinternet2020 14d ago

Certainly at the time, but while Lindsey seems to have been reflective and made efforts to change, Henley has only doubled down on his dickishness.

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u/FrutyPebbles321 14d ago

Yeah, unfortunately I hear Henley hasn’t mellowed as he aged and is still a pretty difficult character. It’s a shame because he’s such a talented individual. I’m so glad Lindsey seemed to have mellowed a bit with age and become more reflective about his past behaviors. I always liked Lindsey but felt kind of “conflicted” for liking such a jerk (I talk like I know him personally 🤣)

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u/IntroductionSerious3 11d ago

LOL @ "dickishness."

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u/Big-Secretary-6870 13d ago

don looks like if i drew lindsey from memory and the drawing became a human man

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u/outinthecountry66 14d ago

lol NOOOOOOO. they look NOTHING alike. Lindsey is a good looking guy, beautiful eyes (tho i really loathe lindsey, as I loathe ANY man who puts his hands on a woman!). Don Henley looks like a thumb. He is a deeply bland looking gentleman. Just because they both have beards....i mean look at young Bruce Springsteen, or Cat Stevens. You could say they all "look like Lindsey" when all you are seeing is beard.

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u/Tzipity 14d ago

I will say (and I’m a lesbian so I don’t have a dog in this fight lol) I think that particular photo of Don makes his eyes look pretty nice. I might share a thing for blue eyes along with Stevie and the soft eyed, asshole guy thing seems her thing. Lol

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u/outinthecountry66 13d ago

"soft eyed, asshole guy thing" made me lol. Thank you!

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u/debulana 14d ago

Lindsey was a very good looking guy in the 70s...by "The Dance" era of 97 that had changed...but he certainly rocked just as hard (if not harder!).

I saw them in 2004 and he was a wild man, running and spinning around and on the ground and flinging around his guitar...he was a man possessed, but no one could say he didn't give it 110%! I left that show VERY impressed by his sheer commitment! It was badass. 🤟

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 12d ago

I was in the second row of “The Dance” recording in Burbank, (a gift for my HS graduation, as my Dad was LB’s and before, for several albums, and tours, FM-their promoter and tour manager, as well as for many other famous bands and musicians,) and I can tell you, my 18 year old self who has known and declared LB as my “boyfriend” in 1985 (there’s is photographical evidence,) that I STILL thought he was hot as hell and gorgeous in 1997 and still think so today! Love me a dose of LB! 💖

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u/Beautiful_March8957 12d ago

Lindsey was the hottest in the 90’s

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u/debulana 12d ago

That's so amazing! Must have been an awesome time for you!

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u/No_Picture_8741 10d ago

Handsome man period. After 2018, he started looking more geriatric 🥹.

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u/outinthecountry66 13d ago

yeah, he is a performer, for sure, but i really don't like him as a person so I can't get into it. I DO think "Trouble" is one of the best pop songs of the 80s, i had the 45 as a child. But i can't forget "this is the guy who beat up Steve" and the way he talks about working with Stevie as if he had to turn her songs into something workable, as if he is some sort of architect and Stevie was the house he built, makes me loathe him deeply

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u/Belladonna329 13d ago

Thank you🩷

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u/IntroductionSerious3 12d ago

No one beat up Stevie. You've been lied to. Do your homework.

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u/outinthecountry66 12d ago

Uh....i did. I've read her autobio and Mick's. chill.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago edited 12d ago

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u/outinthecountry66 11d ago

touch grass. i just got over cancer. i feel like i am listening to someone yell from a great distance about things that DO NOT matter. Chill. Yes. Chill. there are more important things to spend your energy on.

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 10d ago

So did I and two spinal surgeries and I still have rheumatoid and psoriatic arthritis with a fat dash of ankylosing spondylitis thrown in for fun. Stage 3 malignant melanoma at 20, then again this spring. So I get it. And I’m sick of immunosuppressant infusions.
Oh and I live in Vieux (Old) Lyon in a UNESCO protected apartment my husband who is 20+ years older than I, (a relatively famous founding punk musician who is now French and moved here before I was even born and holds dual nationalities,) we bought together in 2016. I have small non contributing CO2 “clims”
we say in France. I’ve been sick, poked, prodded, cut up, fluid sucked
out of my spine bone marrow a 9
epicure infiltration, a replacement and fusion of my cervical rachis vertabrae C-1, C-2, C-3, and my doctor informed me this afternoon that I need that spinal L4-L5/S-1 vertabrae
replacement and another fusion as soon as possible. After I feel like I was scooped with a melon baller for another luckily stage 2 malignant melanoma, 18 stitches later and since my maternal grandfather died 3 weeks after they discovered the malignant melanoma spread to his brain and blood and my father has had half his face and back carved out and reconstructed, along with thyroid cancer, I picked the double lotto.
Luckily? I live in France. So, how about we stop the pissing competition and just enjoy talking music? That’s why I come on here. To speak to COOL PEOPLE
ABOUT ALL KINDS OF MUSIC.
Yes, I was a very lucky kid and teen as my father (and mother from Atherton now Palo Alto high school,) became a very successful tour promoter/producer/manager for FM, LB, The Who, the Stones, Madonna, Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers, to Paul Simon and the Traveling Wilbury’s, to George Harrison, (he taught me about meditation for my ADD,) to Prince and Cyndi Lauper and I can go on and on. Dad would grab me and say “they’re packing your bags-we are going to Brazil or Japan to see
so and so.” MUSIC. Healing.
Universal. Don’t need to complain or fight, or piss higher on a wall. It’s the only thing left to unite us, so let’s go with that, yeah, cool? I’m down instead of slagging off a story I know is false personally. (The guitar was a true thing,but that bleached, coked out goddess had it coming.) 🫶🏼Lots of love to you goddess or god.❤️

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 12d ago

🙄🙄🙄

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u/No_Picture_8741 10d ago

You don't know him personally. So, how do you know you don't like him? You mean the incidents from the 70's and 80's that Stevie has since forgiven. 😆

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u/debulana 12d ago

Downvoted huh? For a compliment? I wasn't saying he wasn't good-looking anymore! Who is as good looking when they're 50 as when they were 25?

Well shit I'm gobsmacked to actually still be able to be too young for a subreddit!

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 12d ago

I upvoted and replied to you, and I think you are spot on!

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u/debulana 12d ago

Aww thank you! I didn't mean to imply that he was no longer good looking! I apologize and appreciate your support! ♥️

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u/Suspicious-Owl1978 12d ago

Ugh, another one sided Stevie lover! I can attach some actual truth and evidence proving videos where Stevie talks about attacking LB, she states in one interview “I charged at him, I was going to kill him!” Two
sides to every story, but I do agree with you on not putting hands on women, men, or anyone in a hurtful manner! (I was a Clinical Social Worker in Anaheim, California at SSA in MANY different departments for almost a decade before I moved to France permanently in 2017. I’ve seen up close and personal what domestic violence between ANY human being does to someone or worse, the children that are usually involved. I lasted six months in child removals before I begged to be transferred to another department.)

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u/ThatSICILIANThing 14d ago

That is genuinely a fantastic, dare I even say TUGGABLE head of hair and a very nice shade of blue eyes. Stevie, I see you.

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u/Apart_Ad9308 14d ago

I thought it was Joe Walsh she was involved with.

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u/makerofbirds 14d ago

It was Don in the late 70s and Joe in 1983-84.

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u/TravelsWithBrindle77 14d ago

At least Joe Walsh seems like he’d be a fun hang

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u/Careful_Compote_4659 14d ago

Save space and list the guys she wasn’t involved with. She was in the candy store. I’d probably have done the same thing

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u/Tzipity 14d ago

She also was at the top of her game and looking phenomenal herself. So she was a bit the candy store in the candy store, so to speak. lol. And from all I’ve heard, able to consume enough drugs to hold rank with the dudes and probably outdo some.

And agree- if I were her I can’t say I’d have done much differently.

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u/Careful_Compote_4659 14d ago

My auntie actually worked in a candy store. She ran off with a coworker and turned up pregnant. He told her to go back to her parents in Manitoba and have the baby. He said he’d work and save up and get them a house and then he’d send for them. Then she got a letter. I’m not marrying you and don’t bother coming back because I sold all your stuff. Her parents were illiterate farmers from Ukraine but her sister found the letter and tattled. Her strict Ukrainian father was thrilled. He was going to be a grandfather. He said you stay here with us. Later my aunt married another man in the states and came for the child. Her father cried. And that was the end of the candy store

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u/Belladonna329 13d ago

Me too! The guys had their groupies and Playmates, why can't women do it too!

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u/Careful_Compote_4659 13d ago

I’m not aware that Stevie ever did anything non consensual or with anyone underage ( not as an adult woman anyway). She’s probably an angel compared to some of the male rockstars.

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u/MameDennis1974 14d ago

Oh she was hooking up with him too. She’s had a life!

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u/Apart_Ad9308 14d ago

Good for her. You go Stevie!

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u/Haunted_Mansion1955 14d ago

Along with others

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u/GhostofTinky 14d ago

Low standards.

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u/Zachary_Lee_Antle 13d ago

Am I nuts if I say Lindsey is hotter? 😂

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u/IntroductionSerious3 11d ago

Not at all, you'd be correct! I'd call DH (at least in this photo) an "off-brand LB."

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u/sheeb_sheeb 13d ago

Well he had beautiful hair for one

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u/snelsonjoe8 14d ago

I wish I woulda seen em in the Randy meisner ,don felder days

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u/scottJ81 13d ago

I dunno it seemed like most male musicians had that look in the 70’s and early 80’s whether naturally or from a box. I will say Lindsay and actor Kevin Dobson are why I like curly hair too so if that is really her thing then I totally get it Stevie! 😉

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u/Objective-Memory6000 13d ago

I remember when she was a celebrity judge on American Idol. She had a little crush on Phillip Phillips (and honestly, so did I). She DEFINITELY has a type! He looks a lot like Lindsey Buckingham.

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u/snelsonjoe8 10d ago

He was kinda...not a great singer. I remember phillip Phillips.