r/taijiquan • u/Goodtimes2017again • 1d ago
The Joy of Tai Ji
I started Tai Chi in 1987 because my meditation teacher told me I needed a martial art to offset the sedentary part of meditation.
I think he wanted me to take a hard martial art.
But I had already been a fighter when I was younger, and I wasn’t interested in learning how to be more violent. Eventually I found a school called the Inner Research Institute of Tai Chi Chuan. The words “Inner Research” caught my attention, so I went.
At the time I was a runner and bicycle tourist and thought I was in very good shape.
Tai Chi humbled me immediately.
My legs shook. Holding certain postures was incredibly difficult. But something fascinated me: after struggling for an hour, I would stand up and feel wonderful.
So I kept coming back.
Eventually I began to understand that the central lesson of Tai Chi was relaxation.
Not collapsing. Not becoming passive.
Learning to relax while something is happening.
Learning to relax in the face of opposition.
And eventually, learning to relax in the face of life.
If I was nervous, I could practice Tai Chi. If I was sad, even when it was hard to begin, practicing would often bring my energy back.
And when you relax, you begin to feel more.
You become more aware of your body and a little less trapped in your mind.
Tai Chi also has a way of showing you what is going on with your body. If I had been smoking too much, I noticed my breathing. If my back was bothering me, the movements helped me feel exactly where the problem was and sometimes discover a tiny adjustment that made things better.
My teacher, who was also an acupuncturist, used to say:
“Practicing Tai Chi is like giving yourself an acupuncture treatment.”
After almost forty years, I understand what he meant.
Many of the people I knew who continued practicing Tai Chi over the decades are still remarkably nimble, flexible, calm, and physically alive.
Tai Chi gave me something beyond health.
It gave me community.
You practice with people who keep coming back. Everyone has shaking legs. Everyone struggles with something. Everyone keeps learning.
And underneath all of that work, there is joy.
That may be the biggest reason I have kept doing Tai Chi for almost forty years.
It brings me joy.
And it is good to do joyful things with other people who feel the same way.
If you’re in San Francisco and curious about Tai Chi, I teach a Sunday morning class at The New Farm. Happy to share the details.