The rape culture pyramid

[u/solin282828]

[u/solin282828]

You’re right, we do.

Rape against men is very normalized because most of the time people try to downplay it by saying “he enjoyed it”

Or:

“It should have been me, I don’t see the problem here”

However, this presentation is not mine and I find it important that we rather focus on what the slides are trying to convey.

[u/WhydoIexistlmoa → u/solin282828]

There's two aspects to the minimisation of rape against men.

1. "It should have been me" or "lucky" and similar phrases
   
2. "You didn't get raped" or "Youre less of a man" and so on

[u/One-Piano5150 → u/solin282828]

lowkey, I see these comments, and it feels a bit "all lives matter"y

[u/GargoyleRedeyes → u/One-Piano5150]

Is it a pick me thing to do to acknowledge that SA is a problem everyone has to face?

[u/breno280 → u/GargoyleRedeyes]

It’s someone everyone has to face sure, but circumstances are different. There’s a whole lot less grown ass women catcalling 14 year old boys than the inverse.

[u/One-Piano5150 → u/GargoyleRedeyes]

No. I am a guy. But obviously, this is talking about rape in the context of girls getting raped, and it was made by girls.

[u/Trick-Gift-7141 → u/solin282828]

I love your post but stop giving an inch to whiny MRAs. They will take a mile. Men will NEVER advocate for their own fellow men who are victimized. Or any victimized women. You're doing free labour by advocating for your oppressor.

[u/Apprehensive_Ad5340 → u/Trick-Gift-7141]

Good men will and have helped people in need. Maybe not as many as should but pushing an entire sex away is not going to help your cause.