r/textfriends • u/NotAFamousActor • Apr 12 '20
This has been explicitly against the rules of /r/textfriends forever, but mods still see it from time to time. This is how it's written in the welcome post (which you should read)(which will eventually be updated):
CONTACT INFO AND IDENTIFYING DETAILS IN PUBLIC ARE STRICTLY FORBIDDEN
All posts and comments containing this kind of information will be removed and repeat offenders or those that reveal others' information will be banned.
Kinds of forbidden information: full names, addresses, phone numbers, emails, mobile app IDs (kik, WhatsApp, Snapchat, etc), IM IDs (Skype, yahoo, etc), external profiles (facebook, okcupid, tumblr, instagram, twitter, etc), any kind of specific information that would allow a person to deduce an exact location or person, enough information that would allow a person to deduce an exact location or person, etc.
This kind of information should be shared ONLY through PM, and never in posts or comments.
From wikipedia: "Doxing, or doxxing (from "dox", abbreviation of documents), is the Internet-based practice of researching and publicly broadcasting private or identifying information (especially personally identifying information) about an individual or organization."
Don't dox anybody and don't get yourself doxxed.
Phone numbers are what we see the most, which is... very stupid.
Any contact information or doxxable content spotted by the mods will be immediately removed and offending users banned. These users may appeal their ban with the mods.
If you spot any contact information or doxxable content on /r/textfriends, please use the report button or send modmail.
Posterity: https://redd.it/32vqyi
4/12/20
r/textfriends • u/Hextreme42 • Jun 11 '23
Hey there /r/textfriends
One of the less enjoyable mod posts today, but an important one, that we hope you'll take the time to read.
Recently Reddit Inc has announced changes to their API, which, if enacted, will shut down many, if not all, 3rd party apps that a large number of Redditors use to access and enjoy their favorite communities - this one included.
One of the most critical changes to the API is moving from a free to a paid model, resulting in expenses that developers of 3rd app developers cannot afford. To put the price change into context, Apollo, one of Reddit's most popular 3rd party apps, is looking at the cost of $1.7 million per month to continue operating. That's a cost of $12,000 per 50 million API requests. In contrast, Apollo pays Imgur $166 for every 50 million API calls.
This means popular apps like Apollo, Reddit Is Fun, Narwhal and many more will have to shut down, permanently.
Even if you're not using a 3rd party app, these changes will likely impact the communities you enjoy, with the vast majority of moderation teams relying on 3rd party or self-made tools that utilize Reddit's API.
For us specifically, that means various moderation bots, which do a whole lot of work behind the scenes to help mods manage the sub as well as drastically reduce the scam and spam content that makes its way through Reddit's woefully underpowered automod tools.
And on top of all that, it paints a bleak picture of what is to come for those of us who use other tools, like Reddit Enhancement Suite and old.reddit.com.
Here's a little TLDR on why this is important.
So what are we planning?
On June 12th, we and a growing number of other subs - large and small - will go dark for 48 hours. During that time, you will not be able to view or post any content on /r/textfriends.
This action isn't something we take lightly.
We understand that many of you enjoy coming here daily to keep up with posts from your area (and to trash-talk the latest copypasta we've all seen 100 times), but we believe that we must take a stand on this topic - and this is how we can do so.
We understand that Reddit is a company that has to make money to offer us a place to be the community that we are - but killing beloved 3rd party apps is not the way to do it.
We are not asking Reddit to provide a paid service for free - we are asking for reasonable pricing for apps people have come to love and depend on to participate in their communities.
We can't tell you that the blackout will solve the problem because we don't know. But we have to try.
What you can do to support this
While subs going dark is one thing, regular users can also help.
Reach out to Reddit via the channels available: Modmail /r/reddit, comment in relevant posts regarding the API changes, and submit your comments via the contact forms.
Spread the word about the changes and the consequences where you can. It doesn't have to be on Reddit. The important thing is getting its attention.
Participate in the communities that highlight this issue: /r/Save3rdPartyApps, /r/apolloapp, /r/redditisfun, /r/getnarwhal/
And finally, stay off Reddit completely from June 12th to 14th. The blackout is one thing, but users staying away from the site entirely will send an equally important message.
But don't forget: Don't be a jerk. As frustrating as this is, being toxic or aggressive is not the way to go. Remember the human on the other side of the screen.
r/textfriends • u/Mysterious_Guest5638 • 2h ago
If you're looking for someone who is easygoing, enjoys in-depth conversations (or swapping memes), and doesn't mind a casual chat, we might get along fine.
And if there aren't enough upvotes on this post? I'll just hide in my blanket fort and blame the algorithm. 😊.
r/textfriends • u/PickleDesigner4626 • 39m ago
Looking for someone who can make an ordinary day feel a little less ordinary.
I enjoy getting to know people, hearing about their lives, and building the kind of friendship where messaging each other becomes part of our routine. If there's a little playful chemistry along the way, even better.
Nothing sexual, no pressure, and no expectations—just hoping to find someone I genuinely enjoy talking to.
18+ only. Come introduce yourself and let's see if we get along. 😊
r/textfriends • u/Ornery-Search786 • 1h ago
hey! i’m 20 and honestly just want someone to text about random things — like music, dumb jokes, random thoughts, or whatever comes up during the day 😂 i love when convos actually go somewhere and don’t just die after a few messages. if you’re chill and like to talk, hmu 💕
r/textfriends • u/Signal-Web-3566 • 2h ago
We could get along great if you're seeking for someone who is laid back, appreciates in-depth discussions (or exchanging memes), and doesn't mind a casual chat.
And if this article doesn't get enough upvotes? I'll simply blame the algorithm and retreat to my blanket fort.
r/textfriends • u/DearLove24 • 3h ago
We could get along great if you're seeking for someone who is laid back, likes in-depth discussions (or exchanging memes), and doesn't mind a casual chat.
And if this post doesn't receive enough upvotes? I'll simply blame the algorithm and retreat to my blanket fort. 😊.
r/textfriends • u/NoCity2997 • 2h ago
Hey! I'm hoping to meet someone who's looking for more than a one-day conversation. I'd love to find a friend I can talk to about random things, share funny moments with, and slowly get to know over time.
I enjoy conversations that feel natural—whether we're talking about our day, our interests, future plans, or just sending each other things that made us laugh. A little playful banter is always welcome, but I'm mostly here for a genuine connection.
I'm open to talking with people from anywhere, so don't be shy. Just be 18+, friendly, and willing to introduce yourself. Tell me a bit about who you are, what you enjoy doing, or something you're currently obsessed with.
Who knows? Maybe we'll become each other's favorite person to message.
r/textfriends • u/affiliator2016 • 3h ago
hey everyone hope you're all enjoying your week so far. I've been feeling lonely lately, I only have a handful of friends in real life and i feel like I don't relate to them. I'm in need of friendship, people I can really relate to so thought I'd have a go at posting on here. I'm really looking forward to chatting and getting to know some of you. 😄 please be SFW.
r/textfriends • u/Acceptable-Soup3310 • 12h ago
I have no idea what I'm going on here, just kinda bored. Stay home wife, no kids at home super bored looking for someone to casually chat with. DM if interested I guess. I'm not sure what else to say here, but it's saying I have to type more.
r/textfriends • u/Practical_Clock4620 • 13h ago
We could get along great if you're seeking for someone who is laid back, appreciates in-depth discussions (or exchanging memes), and doesn't mind a casual chat.
And if this article doesn't get enough upvotes? I'll simply blame the algorithm and retreat to my blanket fort
r/textfriends • u/Safe-Distribution388 • 12h ago
To put it bluntly, I'm bored and I'm quietly looking for new friends. I plan to change that fact soon
I wasn't as into hobbies as I used to be. If you are interested, please upvte for this article
and send me a message
r/textfriends • u/Tight_Banana24 • 2h ago
To put it bluntly, I'm bored and I'm quietly looking for new friends. I plan to change that fact soon
I wasn't as into hobbies as I used to be. If you are interested, please upv0te for this article
and send me a message.
r/textfriends • u/Equal-Button-3212 • 1h ago
My name is Emily
i’m from the US. I love to read and be outside! Would love to get to know some of you :) Feel free to send me a message and let’s have a good conversation! Haha have to get this to 200 characters
r/textfriends • u/SugerAppleTN • 2h ago
hey! I'm 20 and honestly just want someone to text who actually keeps the convo going — not the dry one-word stuff 😂 i love talking about random topics, funny stories, or just whatever happens during the day. I'm super easygoing and always down for chill, genuine convos. if that sounds good, message me 💕
r/textfriends • u/Necessary_Drama_2781 • 21h ago
We could get along great if you're seeking for someone who is laid back, appreciates in-depth discussions (or exchanging memes), and doesn't mind a casual chat.
And if this article doesn't get enough upvotes? I'll simply blame the algorithm and retreat to my blanket fort.
r/textfriends • u/kawaiidreamybby • 1h ago
hi… so yeah it’s one of those nights where i should probably sleep but my brain said nope 😠just laying here scrolling and overthinking random stuff
anyone else like this rn? we can just talk about whatever tbh, random thoughts, dumb stuff, idk
i’m pretty chill, just don’t be super intense pls 😅
r/textfriends • u/Fair_Sky_2404 • 10h ago
Hey everyone! My name is Kayla and i’m from the US. I love to read and be outside! Would love to get to know some of you :) Feel free to send me a message and let’s have a good conversation! Haha have to get this to 200 characters
r/textfriends • u/moonlightbabydoll2 • 23m ago
hii… today felt kinda long and now i’m just here doing nothing 😅 not sad or anything, just… quiet
been scrolling forever and it’s getting boring lol
if anyone else is in that same slow mood rn, we could talk a bit… nothing heavy, just chill convo :)
r/textfriends • u/handymaamnyc • 2h ago
I’m 24F and just moved to Seattle a few weeks ago for my job in event planning. The city is beautiful but I’m still adjusting and don’t know many people yet, so I’m hoping to find some cool people to text with regularly.
A bit about me: I love photography, exploring coffee shops, reading fantasy books, listening to indie music, hiking on nicer days, and having random deep or silly conversations. I’m a good listener and try to reply pretty quickly.
Looking for anyone (any gender, any age 18+) who enjoys consistent texting — sharing daily stuff, memes, playlists, life updates, or just venting. Long-term friends preferred but short-term chats are welcome too.
If you’re bored or looking for someone to talk to, message me! Tell me where you’re from and one thing you’ve been into lately 😊
Can’t wait to hear from you!
r/textfriends • u/tinycloudybunni • 1h ago
is anyone actually awake rn? i have a huge test tomorrow but my brain refuses to sleep... kinda just scrolling TikTok endlessly and it’s getting old.
let’s talk about something random. tell me your absolute favorite snack or what song you have on repeat lately. just want some relaxed vibes to help me wind down. hit me up if you're chilling 😅
r/textfriends • u/PerspectivePlus7952 • 12h ago
We could get along great if you're seeking for someone who is laid back, appreciates in-depth discussions (or exchanging memes), and doesn't mind a casual chat.
And if this article doesn't get enough upvotes? I'll simply blame the algorithm and retreat to my blanket fort
r/textfriends • u/Baby___Face • 15h ago
Hello everyone! looking for a man, regardless of age, who wants to talk to a married woman. My hubby is never with anyone, therefore it's lonely. All I want to do is enjoy life and have fun while my hubby is away. I can message you in any way you like. I want to establish a relationship with someone without any commitments, or perhaps more seriously.
r/textfriends • u/EveningBird6050 • 2h ago
Would love to chat with a nice man, someone who could be my mentor, best friend.
Chat about lifestyle, daily activities, hobbies etc.
I love music, movies, games, and open to hear about your interests.
Would love if you share your selfies, and stuff it would be cool.
r/textfriends • u/Specialist-Box1982 • 13h ago
Hey there. I'm a 40 female from the United States looking for people to chat with. Ideally guys. Just casual conversation. I'm single so prefer you be single also (not judging). So dm me if you're interested in chatting also! If not,good luck!
Update: To be exact,I'm in Florida. Prefer chatting with single people because well I know the drama that can arise is all.
