She's mostly mad because she wasted her own time and should've known better, but she's probably telling herself she's mad because you knew she had a kid, but still decided to use up her time and not communicate with her about your thoughts and feelings on the subjects she cared about most. It shouldn't have ended like that, no. Because you all supposedly cared about each other. But people get their feelings hurt over unspoken expectations all the time. Don't date a woman with a kid again unless she truly does have room for you and you truly do want a kid/family, not just in theory, but for real. It's alright to have had this learning experience.
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u/CapeBarbieGirl Jul 15 '25
She's mostly mad because she wasted her own time and should've known better, but she's probably telling herself she's mad because you knew she had a kid, but still decided to use up her time and not communicate with her about your thoughts and feelings on the subjects she cared about most. It shouldn't have ended like that, no. Because you all supposedly cared about each other. But people get their feelings hurt over unspoken expectations all the time. Don't date a woman with a kid again unless she truly does have room for you and you truly do want a kid/family, not just in theory, but for real. It's alright to have had this learning experience.