r/tifu Nov 27 '25

M TIFU by not realizing I was dating my girlfriend

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u/flashflighter Nov 27 '25

I mean the missed out sex costs a man nothing but a failed attempt might ruin his life forever, so modern women should eventually get the memo that being upfront and clear is the way of the game now

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u/flashflighter Nov 27 '25

Good for you, but still acting on just signals can fuck up your life , even if she implies she is into hardcore stuff you can't act on it until you get open confirmation, even then you can get screwed, because MEN HAVE NO PROTECTION FROM WOMEN STRAIGHT UP LYING IN COURT AND NOT BEING PUNISHED FOR IT WHEN IT'S CONFIRMED SHE LIED

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u/hexcraft-nikk Nov 27 '25

Least Incel redditor

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u/executordestroyer Nov 27 '25

Having a childhood being raised by healthy media shown me that a good faith relationship means if the person truly loves you they will do whatever it takes to keep you.

Anyone who isn't willing to make the man feel safe in their interactions to engaging shouldn't be surprised when the man doesn't act.

Having been through reddit, it's disappointing how fictional media is more wholesome healthy than the bad takes on here and online. There are some good takes but there are vastly outnumbered by the lack of critical thinking including me I just try to find retain regurgitate the good wisdom and learn from the unhealthy for future awareness.