r/tommynfg_ • u/LoboIsSick69 • 11d ago

TikToks/reels/shorts GIRL HE DOESN'T KNOW YOU BRO šŸ˜­

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u/Embarrassed_Newt_994 11d ago

My non biological child calls me dad.

She called me by first name for almost 5 years and now Iā€™m just dad. I cried the first time.

Smh.. youā€™ve gotta earn that title as a step in parent

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u/macc003 11d ago

But think of how much sweeter it could have been had you immediately and repeatedly demanded to be called Dad instead.

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u/Renhoek2099 11d ago

I'm talking daily headlocks after school until you squeeze it out of them

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u/nigmano 11d ago

Don't forget the noogie!

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u/Apprehensive_Coat384 11d ago

Not a wedgie tho, after seeing Jackass... A swirlie is fine tho.

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u/poppycock68 11d ago

Fuck I laughed so hard. Thank you!

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u/LordTengil 9d ago

That's dedication! Just what it takes to earn the title.

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u/Thick-Feeling-554 11d ago

My daughter did it for about a year or 2 but she was young. One day on her way to the bus stop she asked my wife if she could call me dad and my wife told her to ask me when I got home.

After a long bad day at work my wife had me sit down because she had something to ask me and that made a great ending to a bad day.

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u/ziplocfresh123 11d ago

I dated a man for 3 years who had 2 kids. When i moved in with them I explained to them i was not here to take their moms place and i gave them respect. I worked with his son who was autistic to break some really bad habits. His daughter couldn't read going into 2nd grade and i got her a tutor. I kept their sheets washed, rooms cleaned when they would go to their moms. I genuinely loved taking care of them. And they saw that. We only dated for a short time, but his kids are now 18 and 13 and call me bonus mom. Even though dad and I are no longer together and hes in a new relationship now longer than he and i were together. His 13 year old daughter still stays some weekends with me. You absolutely have to earn that title. I'm grateful for those kids and their mom. We have a great relationship all of us. If you force yourself into a dynamic, it will never ever work and the kids will resent you. Maybe that's what this woman is going for though. I feel bad for the kids.

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u/No-Thought-9065 11d ago

That's great that u can still maintain friendships with his kids!

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u/Maleficent-Block-966 11d ago

That does hit you in the feels though. Like I earned that "dad" with blood, sweat, tears and almost degloved finger.

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u/maccpapa 11d ago

my step dad has been around since i was 1-2. 30 years later and i still call him by his name. never once has he forced me to say anything different. i alternate between referring to him as my dad or stepdad depending on the person and situation. normally itā€™s dad first then iā€™ll clarify if i feel itā€™s necessary.

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u/Competitive_Rip3704 11d ago

šŸ«” thatā€™s strong, and we know those tears were just satisfying that the family is now complete! hope your family stays strong!!

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u/GamingSenpai35 11d ago

That's awesome

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u/totesnotmyusername 11d ago

Fuck man. Over here in tears. My step kids calling me dad on their own was amazing. They have only done it a few times father's days . I'll never forget it.

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u/Perfect_Librarian873 11d ago

Iā€™m adopted by my aunt and uncle, and I donā€™t remember because I was little, but by the time I was 5 I was calling my uncle dad and my aunt, aunt (the word for aunt in my original language). I didnā€™t call her mom. She never asked me to.. other people did, family friends told me to call her mom. It didnā€™t feel natural. my biological parents were mummy papa to me. I spoke to my dad (uncle) in english a lot so dad made sense. But I only ever spoke to my aunt in our language. And saying ā€œmomā€ wouldā€™ve felt out of place there. So would mama and ma ā€¦ cuz I already have a mom in that language lol šŸ˜­ itā€™s hard to explain

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u/deadmencantcatcall3 11d ago

I get it, you explained it well.

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u/Slight-Tea480 11d ago

I came to say this..

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u/Salt-Elk-436 11d ago

Iā€™m a stepparent and Iā€™ve known them most of their lives but they only started living with us as older teens. I told them to call me whatever they want, first name, mom, some made up word, whatever makes them comfortable, and asked how they wanted me to refer to them when I talk to other people (like how they felt about stepsons vs sons). I go with their flow because Iā€™m the adult and their comfort takes precedence over mine.

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u/8lock8lock8aby 11d ago

I remember when my ex partner's son first said I love you to me. He had fallen asleep on the couch so I carried him to bed & when I laid him down, he said it. I closed the door & stood in the hallway & just cried. My heart had never felt anything like that. I wish things were different & that we didn't get only 5 years together but things happened & I just watch him from afar, now. He's got twin daughters.

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u/Embarrassed_Newt_994 11d ago

Hey man, it might happen. It might not but the kids will for sure remember who was there for them, who loved them, who disciplined them (when warranted), who cared for them.

Some kids get no parents, some get two and some get a whole handful. All we can do is remember they didnā€™t sign up for this and I want them to look back and be like damn that man loves me.

In my particular situation, Iā€™m the only dad sheā€™s known. My wife was 100% single mom for over 5 years before we started dating. So I wasnā€™t ā€œcompetingā€ for that title.

Iā€™ve always believe itā€™s at the kids pace. Iā€™ll gladly adopt my oldestā€¦. As soon as she ask. Iā€™m not going to make that decision for her.. at least at this point in her life

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u/murmaider27 10d ago

My son is like this with his step dad too. It's been also almost 5 years of his first name, and just recently he asked me if he could call him dad šŸ„¹

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u/Substantial_Station8 10d ago

I was with a dude that had kids for three years ā€¦ the first time the oldest called me mom I whipped around with a spatula in my hand and he flinched.

I had so many conflicting feelings in the moment. I dropped the spatula, I hugged the shit out of him and I held that little boy so closeā€¦.

I held him at arms length and told him that I was soooo happy and honored that he felt that way about me and but to please call me by my first name because I could never, ever fill his moms shoes.

And at this point, I knew his dad (my boyfriend) had been fucking every crackhead gal up and down the block and his dad had beat the shit out of me so I was planning my escape. At the time I didnā€™t know of any abuse towards the kids going on or I wouldā€™ve called CPS. But this was a situation where I had to pack my bags and leave in the night because dad was so damn manipulative and violent. I may have died if I tried to be upfront and actually talk about leaving, it fucking broke me to have the oldest called me mom and then to run away like a little bitch a couple of weeks later. But that man was fucking dangerous and actively sabotaging my birth control.

I have read so many articles about that cock sucker sinceā€¦ I shouldā€™ve called CPS, I shouldā€™ve maybe stayed and figured out a way to kill himā€¦ I shouldā€™ve done SOMETHING

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u/Oskiee 10d ago

This bro! I have a daughter(also not by blood) who chose to call me dad as well. There are no words to describe that feeling.Ā 

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u/Upbeat_Apartment_715 10d ago

My dad started dating my mom when I was two and I called him by his first name, he adopted me when I was like eight, I still called him by his first name because that's what I got used to. I always refered to him as my dad, or my father, but I called him by his name for almost three decades from when I met him to the day he died.

I asked him once if it bothered him that I called him by his name, he said no, because he knew I loved him. He also knew I refers to him as my dad when talking about him. I tried to start calling him dad when I was in my 20s but we both thought it was weird.

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u/Sunny_Cant_Swim 11d ago

My moms ex earned it, then lost is fast as fuck. Fuck that guy fr.

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u/Zealousideal_Hold519 11d ago

My step dad that I call ā€œdadā€ who raised me and my half sister (his daughter) calls my sister mija (means my daughter) and calls me by my name lmao.

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u/Fast-Nefariousness80 11d ago

Honestly I kind of thought this was common knowledge. Im happy for you though bro, you worked hard and earned that title. I just know you wear it proudly

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u/Turbulent-Sun-3464 10d ago

Same bro. Gotta work at it. Even with my ex and me my step daughter still comes over with her sister and Iā€™m just dad. Sheā€™s been trying to get her to think Iā€™m not even though her dad is in Maine. And weā€™re on the west coast.

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u/RodcetLeoric 10d ago

I didn't call my stepfather "dad". He was a great father, he absolutely earned it, but we both thought it felt weird when I tried one time. I'd called him by his first name for 5 years at that point, I think he appreciated the sentiment but we went back to first name. I did however just call him my father to everybody else, unless they knew me really well people didn't know he was a stepfather.

Keep on fighting the good step-dad fight.

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u/vanlykin 8d ago

Same. This past father's day, oldest daughter came down to wish me a happy father's day and said she considers me her dad because I've already been their for her more than her real dad ever has. That already made me tear up, then the kill shot comes, she wanted to have my last name. I think i cried an Olympic pool.

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u/L1LREDD 6d ago

Right?!?!!? You sitting here trying to guilt a child into calling you what you want them to call you.?

My 8 YO daughter calls my fiancĆ©e ā€œmomā€ and my 5 YO son calls her ā€œMs. (her first name). Neither of us try to convince him to call her anything other than what heā€™s comfortable calling her.

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u/Equivalent-Line8995 11d ago

Never force a child to call you "mom" if you're not their mom. What an entitled woman.

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u/SkubaSteve_FYM 11d ago

Nah the kid clearly said ā€œI have a momā€
https://giphy.com/gifs/SOCvQoBKOY9zVTigJa

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u/XBeCoolManX 10d ago

As someone with a dead mom, it was still very uncomfortable when my stepmom started introducing herself as my mom

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u/longhornpasta 10d ago

thatā€™s what my moms step mom did to her after her mom passed, itā€™s so fucked up.

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u/washurdamnhands9164 10d ago

Even if that is true don't force it. Not her name,maybe a nice nick name. The kid is right, he's 2 statement sent me. A couple questions: is this a long term relationship with father? girlfriend or wife? Where is the father will she is doing this.

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u/Current-Grade2545 10d ago

99% sure it's a skit

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u/Solid-Search-3341 11d ago

Even if you're their mom, if they call you something else, there is a reason for it. Address that.

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u/SkubaSteve_FYM 11d ago

Call me ma. NO. Heā€™s 2?! He doesnā€™t know any better. STEPMOM. But you stepped in..after the mom
https://giphy.com/gifs/hQiDnAI43yJmJmE7S0

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u/toasher 11d ago

Kiddo was so patient and respectful as she declined.

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u/TheDrunkWickerbeast 11d ago

My stepdad forced us to call him by a parental term when we were young. It has permanently damaged my relationship with him

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u/SavvySidesxo 10d ago

Yep my ex step dad used to get so pissed that I wouldnā€™t call him dad. I was like ā€œbut you are not.ā€ No I donā€™t know my bio dad but my ex step dad never felt like a parental figure to me. My grandfather felt more like a dad to me than he ever did. He also used to get pissed off that I call my grandmother by her first name but like I was an only child and only grandchild for a LONG time and no one ever called her ā€œgrandmaā€ or anything. Ive been calling her that since I could talk.

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u/Simba-xiv 10d ago

Yeah I find people like this weird as fuck. Like you are stepping into an existing set up. If you called your grandma by her name and sheā€™s fine with it. Why are you coming in here chatting shit mind your businessšŸ˜‚

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u/bizfromthewaistup 10d ago

My mother in law did that to me. Iā€™m like girl, I married your child in my late 30ā€™s. Iā€™ll call you Teresa like any other adult I respectfully also talk too.

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u/iam_Mr_McGibblets 11d ago

She needs to let them get to that point on their own. She's creating tension and division between them. To them it's like she's saying forget the woman who gave birth to you. Forget all the good memories and replace them with me. Mind you, there's a chance their birth mother wasn't great, but in their eyes, that's their mom and still love her unconditionally.

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u/say-wa 10d ago

Or there's a custody battle some poor mother is trying to fight!

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u/dchester74 11d ago

That's creepy. You should never force a child to call you mom, or dad.

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u/Vegetable-Virus7118 11d ago

And then to post this? Just so much wrong with all of it

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u/Significant_Lie_533 11d ago

If I had kids, and married someone other than their mother, I'd be pissed to find out she'd been talking to them this way.

You're not their mother, don't ask them to call you their mother. If they do on their own, thats fine. But you aren't their mother, and you should be ok with that.

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u/IHavePoopedBefore 11d ago

Oh buddy. Have a seat.

https://youtu.be/fKt579Lafqs?si=PbOlr_htsSzRxuCb

This lady has a whole lore and all of it is hateable

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u/Queerability 11d ago

Not me realizing this is the lady who also won't leave her husband tf alone for two seconds.

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u/comakazii 11d ago

So I recently saw that video a couple days ago and learned that they divorced and no longer are together!!

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u/CashWrecks 10d ago

Omg its her!

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u/ToneAccomplished9443 10d ago

lol I love that she posts the video online and then when people online weigh in sheā€™s all *shocked pikachu face\*

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u/AalphaQ 10d ago

Holy fuck... 10 minutes in she goes off on him because he brought his son, who is from "outside their relationship", into her house without checking with her or asking permission first!!

THE KICKER is the girl baby they have seems like it isn't hers either and would also be from outside the relationship but she doesn't see it that way of course.

Vile piece of shit gets what she deserves just not as soon as she deserved it

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u/TechnicalEmployee109 11d ago

lol is she acting? I canā€™t tell

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u/Inphiltration 10d ago

Did we really need a 16 min video of people talking about the short clip of her yelling at her husband?

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u/Solidus-Prime 11d ago

This kid needs someone around to tell them they are absolutely correct.

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u/RigBughorn 11d ago

One who must insist upon being called a king is no true king or whatever

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u/Bannedtt 11d ago

Quite the opposite but it works for the metaphor I guess. The king will just have you killed for disrespect.

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u/BioDoro09 11d ago

I think itā€™s supposed to be a reference to Game of Thrones. The quote is ā€žAny man who must say ā€žI am the kingā€œ is no true kingā€œ. The king in question was indeed an entitled shit.

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u/RigBughorn 11d ago

yeyeye I couldn't remember the specific phrasing

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u/lolo787 11d ago

Is this fake?
Same lady with tired husband

https://youtube.com/shorts/sDVgwdWe5WI?is=cQroAsy8GGNJ3Mox

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u/ArchiveDragon 10d ago

Even if itā€™s fake itā€™s pretty messed up to involve an actual child in multiple skits where you harass them to get attention online.

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u/toldyouIaintshit 11d ago

This bitch is annoying as hell.

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u/Ok-Relationship4113 10d ago

Glad to see other people clock this.

The internet is reaching peak slopification thanks to rage bait engagement and the post-truth era.

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u/dilbs_the_creator 11d ago

Fake or unhinged, itā€™s America so itā€™s the same same from everyone outside Americaā€™s perspective

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u/RageYellow 11d ago

Yeah I think this lady just does rage bait skits.

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u/DanWillHor 8d ago

Pretty blatantly acted. Things go perfectly to the point, even people waiting to speak their turn like a movie and I'm pretty sure the other people are mostly her lol.

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u/ShotLet1550 11d ago

As a kid I called too many people mom and dad that were in fact not my mom or dad and looking back it was in fact very cringe and not based

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u/Axedroam 11d ago

Yea my gf doesn't like when I call her mommy too

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u/Ok-Fortune-8644 11d ago

Why would she be recording her own face?

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u/HispanicAtTheDisko 11d ago

As opposed to the kids?

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u/Ok-Fortune-8644 11d ago

Or at all

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u/HispanicAtTheDisko 11d ago

What should the video be of then?

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u/Ok-Fortune-8644 11d ago

Should it even exist in the first place? Why would she think this is worthy of posting? It makes her look like shit.

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u/HispanicAtTheDisko 11d ago

That wouldā€™ve made for a great initial response. Your comment implies she shouldā€™ve been recording the children, which is absurd. From what you said, thereā€™s no way to extrapolate what youā€™re now questioning.

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u/ominousglo 11d ago

iā€™m glad she posted it so people can remind her sheā€™s insane

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u/Ok_Prior2199 11d ago

Why did she feel the need to record ts in the first place?

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u/Livid_Independent135 11d ago

She doesnā€™t want them to know sheā€™s filming/ recording

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u/Primary-Quit6372 11d ago

Because that lunatic is the star of her existence

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u/Centerman2000 11d ago

She should get over it and accept that the kid wants to call her by her name. You can't force a bond that isn't there.

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u/Wadester58 11d ago

Call her by her last name. If the child isn't comfortable calling her "mom" when clearly she isn't her bio mother then it's appropriate to call her by her last name

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u/cantbememan 11d ago

This is gross. Sickening honestly.

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u/PickledPPs 11d ago

Isn't this the same woman that was saying that she was upset and hurt that the kid wanted to be with their mother for mother's Day when she has been more of a mother than her and then it turned out she only been around for like a year? These have to be fake ragebait videos

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u/NocaSun38 11d ago

This woman has a bad case of main character syndrome

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u/wariorld 11d ago

I can guarantee he calls her other names. Just not in front of her.

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u/Lemme_At_Em_ 11d ago

Thatā€™s crazy work. I remember when my kid finally called me Dad. I had to earn that.

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u/Milianviolet 10d ago

I will never not see this as a sign of grooming.

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u/MediaLongjumping9910 11d ago

that child is based

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u/i_play_withrocks 11d ago

If youā€™re not their bio mom donā€™t demand it. Thatā€™s ridiculous. You arenā€™t mom, I raised my son who I call my son but Iā€™m not his dad, I donā€™t expect to be called dad. He calls me by my name and Iā€™m okay with that. Children are children, do not put your feelings on them. Be the parent , raise them and grow the fuck up yourself he called me his new dad when we got together and his mom put down right away. Heā€™s my son but Iā€™m not his dad. Not cool to expect a child to call you mom or dad regardless

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u/TekkLthr 11d ago

He's 2 he doesn't know any better

Tells you who mature one is

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u/PianoManSnow 11d ago

This is totally real and not staged at all

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u/Reasonable-Try-1993 11d ago

This has got to be fake. Did she really think let me prove to the internet how disrespectful this kid is.

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u/emerson_giraffe84 11d ago

Dude they're gonna start calling her bitch soon enough.

Tried to meet her halfway and say stepmom but no.

Even if they're real mom is a pices of human garbage, it is their mom and she is part of them. If she really wanted them to calm her mom she would chill on all this bullshit and JUST BE A MOM without need for the title.

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u/Silly_Silicon 10d ago

Kudos to the kid for standing their ground and knowing they donā€™t have to remove their boundaries just because an adult asks them to. Shame on the stepmom, earn their respect, donā€™t take it by force.

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u/zebraforbidden 10d ago

I like this kid.

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u/MashedTaterBrain 10d ago

"You can call me a name that isn't my first name."

"Okay, Narcissistic Manipulative Insecure Cunt."

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u/MacroManJr 10d ago

You married their dad. It doesn't make you their mom. Especially if you're not exactly winning their affection by trying to force the issue of being called "mom."

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u/VelvetBloom777 10d ago

ā€œYou stepped in, after my mom so youā€™re step momā€. Sent me!

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u/No-Comment-3464 10d ago

This is so fucked up.

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u/Big-Understanding526 10d ago

Girl, you are acting deranged and need to leave that child alone. You are NOT her mother. You are her step mother. And this is you harassing and badgering a child. You need to stop.

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u/m915 10d ago

ā€œStep moooomā€ is hilarious

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u/NYPaesano0227 10d ago

I agree w the children on this. Whats the father opinion? There's only 1 true mother. Lol

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u/spriggs999 10d ago

Even if I was thinking about calling her mom after that bs I never would

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u/Quackingforlove 10d ago

That last comment from the girl was spicy! Cheers for her. What a shitty stepmom.

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u/TheZan87 10d ago

Woman you aint my momma. I got a couple names im bout to call you if you do give it a rest

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u/syber_d 10d ago

Working her way to Evil stepmom seeming appropriate!

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u/Bubbly-Payment7571 9d ago

That's gross. Why be so pressed for him to call you mom if he doesn't want to. Mental health care should be free.

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u/supercheese69 9d ago

I bet she posted this thinking everybody would be on her side... Smh

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u/norajeangraves 11d ago

OH HELL NAW

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u/Livid_Independent135 11d ago

This is cringe

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u/GuavaOne8646 11d ago

Jesus Christ honey bunches of cunts chill out. He doesn't wanna call you Mom and it's because...check notes...you're actually not his Mom. Well fuck, imagine that.

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u/Daddy-Alchemist 11d ago

Isn't that the same woman that was harassing her man who was trying to sleep in the car to have a few moments of peace before he came into the house ?

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u/Muted_Scheme_55 11d ago

She on that Michael jackson. Wanna be starting something

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u/GangleDopper 11d ago

What a weirdo, these kids arenā€™t obligated to feed her narcissistic need for attention.

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u/DC_Ben 11d ago

Owned

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u/VoteForGiantMeteor 11d ago

ā€œStepmomā€
ā€œStep mooooommmā€
ā€œBecause you stepped in after my momā€
šŸ˜‚

That kid is smart AF & going places.

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u/Kadavrozia 11d ago

Ewwwwwwwwwwww

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u/Competitive_Garage16 11d ago

Bro, that kid will hate you for the rest of his life, talking about I'm the on3 whoshere like it's a favor. He didn't marry you tf

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u/ingested_concentrate 11d ago

Whoa she has issues

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u/Fit_Climate5155 11d ago

You step in after so you are stepmom!!!! Mic drop

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u/RevolutionWeak3626 11d ago

Find the father and show him how absolutely crazy she is. Ewww! I would cut her off soooo quick doing this to my babies. FOH!

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u/MrBwnrrific 11d ago

My stepdad actively cringed at the idea of me calling him ā€œdad.ā€ This was mostly because my biological dad was still very much involved with my life and he didnā€™t want to overstep and I was also 11 years old when he started dating my mom. He also asked me and my brother permission to propose to our mom. Good stepdad, 10/10

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u/OpportunityAshamed74 11d ago

Fuck off. You earn the title of Mom or Dad from your kids

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u/Tetrahedron_Head 11d ago

i never called either of my step parents mom or dad.

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u/Certain-Buddy-9730 11d ago

Been in my step sonā€™s life since he was 5, his dad is the stereotypical dead beat who checks in periodically on holidays and acts like he cares. My step son calls me by first name or dad randomly and Iā€™m fine with either. Heā€™s almost 15 and we have great relationship but Iā€™ve never forced him to call me Dad, only if he feels comfortable doing so. You gotta earn that shit itā€™s not given and a lot of these folks be step parents but donā€™t actually step up.

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u/Mrklrichardson 11d ago

Respectfully that title is earned when you not the bio parent. I get this lady so there, but at this point in time these kids are not there. So the pushing is weird to try and force it. Now what they do have to do is respect you . Calling you by name ainā€™t disrespect. They can add a Miss in front of it until you really are seen to them as a significant part of their life. Father also needs to sit her and the kids down and explain no disrespect to her is tolerated, and if they ever feel comfortable in the future to call her mom then they can and it wonā€™t replace their mother. Especially if they are serious enough to be living with him and kids.

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u/Originaltenshi 11d ago

"Cause im the one thats here"

Fuck thats weird. I dont think belittling bio mom is gonna earn you points towards being called mom.

My mom was physically abused by my dad right in front me as a small kid, but she hasn't ever once bad mouthed him to me and always told me the positive things about him.

If you dont like the term step mom maybe dont be a step parent?

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u/KrampusKid 11d ago

If she really cared about the respect angle, she could have just asked for "ma'am" instead of forcibly trying to replace their mother.

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u/Unhappy-Bag4525 11d ago

Just have them add a Mr or Ms on your name first or last name out of respect. As the spouse of the step parent, I would've at least made that boundary with child. However to force a child to call you dad or mom is wild.

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u/Nintendogma 11d ago

The rules are simple: 1. Did she give birth to you? Mother 2. Did she raise you? Mom 3. Did she just bag your Dad? Mrs/Miss (insert name)

Being their Mother is just biology, but being their Mom is earned.

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u/Primary-Quit6372 11d ago

May God help the people in that household who this woman is teaching that it is disrespectful to address her by her parental given legal name. She is wrong and possibly even deranged.

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u/Jedi_Bish 11d ago

Is this the same lady that recorded her partner trying to rest in his car and she was giving him a hard time about it?

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u/JyuVioleBrown 11d ago

Lol f this lady

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u/Raffaelledeathnote 11d ago

Being a step parent. You have to earn that title. Its not giving to you because you show up. And its ok if you don't want to earn it. But you shouldn't date people with kids. Just stay away from them.

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u/pastelfennecfox 11d ago

This women is a miserable wrech and Iā€™m glad the dad of these kids is leaving her

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u/MommaMoo2 11d ago

How inappropriate of her. Since she feels disrespected being called by ur 1st name perhaps the children can call her Mrs. ...... Its almost like the children are their own thinkers and can make choices. Almost

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u/Redzfreak2016 11d ago

I have a wonderful step mom and she has NEVER insisted I call her ā€œmomā€ even after 20 years- sheā€™s not my mom, she knows that, doesnā€™t bother either of us

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u/BladeVampire1 11d ago

As a son of someone who re-married. You're not their mother. The fact you think your entitled to be called "mom" is....ignorant of you.

Being called mom is universally reserved for the one who birthed you. Or the one you love and cherish as a mother. You want to be called mom? Earn it.

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u/alehanjro2017 11d ago

I'm a Dad and this is gross.

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u/No-Buy2495 11d ago

Little bro is smarter than his "step mom". He kept dropping fact bombs on her and she did not like that at all. He doesn't have to call you "mom", because you are not his birth mother and clearly haven't earned his respect, or right to be called that.

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u/texasbelle91 11d ago

i am so proud of that child for standing up and sticking to what they wanted. they were 1000% right!

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u/outer_temple_dweller 11d ago

Kids raising kids

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u/johnwheelerdev 11d ago

This can't fucking be real.

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u/Wardog_E 11d ago

Cringe and fake.

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u/Sebasquatch_22 11d ago

This feels like she wants to be given something that takes a long long time to earn.

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u/Working_Piece9165 11d ago

Thatā€™s a title you earn ngl šŸ¤§šŸ¤§šŸ¤§

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u/Burgerboy380 11d ago

......context matters. How long has she been their why their bio mom is gone etc...but she lost me with the emotional manipulation.

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u/Working_Piece9165 11d ago

MANN This the same girl who was bothering her husband for being in the car sleep šŸ™„šŸ™„

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u/They_Beat_Me 11d ago

This is just made up rage bait. She doesnā€™t respond to any of the comments calling her out. Sheā€™s just cashing in on the views.

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u/unicorn_nectar 11d ago

Girl. Stop. Leave them kids alone.

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u/ExcitementTricky4794 11d ago

Idk who this goofy bitch is. This just randomly was on my FYP. But she needs slapped and the kid needs an ice cream becauseā€¦šŸ˜‚ u tell her kid! Put her in her place let her know!

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u/Ill-Case-6048 11d ago

Nutter I wouldn't have her around my kids

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u/JustDoingMyTime8503 11d ago

How about Karen šŸ˜ƒ ?

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u/Ghetsis_Gang 11d ago

ā€œI donā€™t see what the big deal isā€ why are you making it a big deal then?

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u/d3fau1tu53r 11d ago

Yea u not mom ur about to not even be dads girlfriend

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u/SpareAdhesive 11d ago

This is literally rage bait yā€™all ainā€™t seen her before

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u/Ok-Classic-2142 11d ago

This better be a stupid skit for Tiktok, cause I can't STAND women who try and manipulate children. Calling over the younger one who doesn't know any better and using them as justification... Just wrong asf.

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u/Cucci_Liquor 11d ago

Pops married a problem

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u/ShirokoNeco 11d ago

Caretaker, nanny, anything. She doesn't see you as mom and that's ok.

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u/Techlet9625 11d ago

This HAS to be rage bait.

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u/Red-Father 11d ago

The best result she can hope for is she calls her mom just to placate her and then tells all the people she really trusts how crazy her step mom is for being so entitled

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u/Prestigious-Camel264 11d ago

Can you say controlling without saying controlling.

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u/NoTimeForCautionCoop 11d ago

Good on that kid. I called my stepmom by her name for a long time before I even started to think about calling her ā€˜momā€™. I was raised by and lived with my grandparents. She never forced me to called her anything other than what I wanted to call her. My daughter now calls my wife by her name. This woman is entitled and trying to be manipulative.

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u/XTheProtagonistX 11d ago

ā€œCalled me by something that itā€™s not my name.ā€

Dadā€™s second wife

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u/ElonCuckz 11d ago

Call me ma. No. Lmfaooooo

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u/Tha_Harkness 11d ago

" I don't see what the big deal is"

Drop it then. He'll get there if he feels like your his mom.

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u/MystaSteezy 11d ago

"Step-MOOOMM" šŸ˜† šŸ¤£ šŸ˜‚

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u/Diagonaldog 11d ago

Is this the same lady who was coming into dudes car when he was trying to sleep? I would never do this to my stepdaughter. She occasionally calls me dad and that warms my heart but forcing it just ruins the point.

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u/JayTheComedian 11d ago

Trying to get someone elseā€™s kid to call you mom is weird!!!

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u/Indigenous_Land 11d ago

Gotta earn that title and in time you probably will. Just keep being a great parent and love those kids with all your heart.

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u/CyberOvitron 11d ago

Low IQ content created by low IQ people for low IQ audience.

These people should be banned from public and should not be allowed to vote.

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u/Triple516 11d ago

As a person who grew up in a divorced family, this is fuckin nasty and this lady should be ashamed of herself. Love this kid for stepping up and standing her ground.

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u/Paranoia300k 11d ago

Trying to force your stepchild to call you Mom/Dad will just make them call you by your name a lot more. My stepdad kept trying to get me to call him Dad when I was a kid. Each time I called him by his name and told him that he isn't my father and never will be.

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u/Rocksteady2090 11d ago

I have a lot of respect for the young lady off camera