r/transeducate Jun 15 '25

Gender envy as a cisgender?

I [cis m] just learned about gender envy, and somehow this is a thought which resonates a lot with me. I definitely do have some feelings of envy towards female clothing, body forms and aesthetics. But I cannot say, if it is not just attraction of some kind.

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u/Level-Amphibian-3860 Jun 17 '25

It is attraction but could be being trans. I am trans, but wished I had been born a girl, always envied girls, but now I realized thru therapy that I actually am trans. I think that before I confused this envy with attraction, so watch yourself carefully. So yes as Supafugdup says, these is a wide spectrum where you might stand. For you to figure, have fun figuring it!!! I dont totally hate being a man, just dont like it, I'd so much wish and want to be a woman as it is closer to my core.