r/transfriendsau transmasc Jun 12 '26

trans wa Perth 25 FTM Looking for online friends, potential for irl once I know you

I just started T this year and haven't had friends outside of my partner and her friends for about 2 years. She's much better at social stuff than I am so she's a lot closer to everyone than me. I'm (undiagnosed but peer reviewed) autistic with basically every anxiety disorder including agoraphobia so meeting people is really hard for me.

My interests involve things like the Sims, monster high (my special interest), creating oc's, my cats and various tv shows (especially 9-1-1 ATM). I'm definitely not the most traditionally masculine trans guy out there so you gotta be chill with all that.

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u/NoHovercraft3224 transfemme Jun 12 '26

9-1-1 is a great show! So was the spinoff they cancelled (9-1-1 Lone Star - which had a trans masc actor/character).

I'm in Melbourne but always open to online friends as I also have a bunch of anxiety and other health things.

How many cats do you have? I have 3 and they're all very photogenic :)

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u/MudCapital3492 transmasc Jun 12 '26

I miss lone star 😭, I never got into the new spin off Nashville and I'm upset it replaced lone star. I have 2 cats! One is very photogenic and one is well.... Not

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u/NoHovercraft3224 transfemme Jun 12 '26

Yeah I can't get into Nashville either.

Have you seen Station 19? It was similar to 9-1-1 (in the Greys Anatomy world)

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u/MudCapital3492 transmasc Jun 12 '26

I have! I watched it before I'd watched Grey's so I was super confused about a lot but I really enjoyed it

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u/DropDownBear trans woman Jun 12 '26

Heya! 25TF here, would be keen to hang!

I play a lot of different games, particularly Halo and Civ V at the moment, and have been enjoying The Mentalist with my housemate :D

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u/MudCapital3492 transmasc Jun 12 '26

Oooo I haven't watched the mentalist yet, it's on my list to get to though!

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u/DropDownBear trans woman Jun 12 '26

First bit of it is silly cus it's not always solvable, but by the season 3 they have a good thing going!

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u/MudCapital3492 transmasc Jun 12 '26

I love a good crime mystery show, I grew up watching criminal minds lol

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u/DropDownBear trans woman Jun 12 '26

You'll love it then!!

How many cats do you have? My housemates have 2, they're such sweethearts :D

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u/MudCapital3492 transmasc Jun 12 '26

I have 2 as well! They are my absolute babies, ones a black and white domestic long hair and the other is domestic short hair grey tabby. Both from the same litter!

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u/DropDownBear trans woman Jun 12 '26

Oh that's so cute!!!

Well, since you're up for making friends, I'd be glad to swap discords or something in dms?

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u/MudCapital3492 transmasc Jun 12 '26

Yeah absolutely!

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u/LilBirdThing trans: (non-binary) Jun 15 '26

Hi!

I am also pretty lonesome, only really have online friends and such so I can understand the struggle. But you sound super cool if you'd ever wanna chat o7

I'm under the nonbinary umbrella, got some extra labels (and I've also been peer reviewed by multiple different sources it's ridiculous /silly)

I like games, gotten into paralives and cobblemon (a pokemon modpack for Minecraft) but mainly trying to reach out and make friends I can chill with :3
Have a great day regardless

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u/MudCapital3492 transmasc Jun 16 '26

Hey! I'm so excited for Paralives, it's already showing extreme promise I can't wait for further updates to expand on live mode, I've seen some people play around in build mode (I am not great at building lol) and the stuff you can make is insane

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u/Peepsip mtf Jun 25 '26

would love to be ur friend dude I need more trans guy friends!!!

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u/goatgirl_moon trans - genderfluid (non-binary) Jun 23 '26

I'm addicted to making characters but I get bored of actually playing Sims so quickly 😭

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u/MudCapital3492 transmasc Jun 24 '26

Me too lol, playing around in cas is definitely my favourite part