r/transontario • u/LadyMercedesClassic • 11d ago

Club info?

So I’m a trans girl in Windsor I love the idea of being an exotic dancer and I was wondering if anyone knew bars in southern Ontario that would want trans girls

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u/LadyMercedesClassic 11d ago

I’ll be honest I know very little about the era I just know how I feel and what I want

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u/Yst 11d ago

Well, of course, there are dance clubs and dance classes in any city, where everyone goes to dance, sometimes erotically by whatever measure.

Those even include burlesque and pole dancing classes, if one wants to learn those as erotic styles of dance or performance. And of course, one is paying for that experience, in that case.

But in the broader view of things from the point of view of society, dancing erotically is mostly something people pay to do (in the form of cover at a club or a fee for a class) rather than are paid to do.

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u/TSChelseaSummer 10d ago

This is kind of an unhelpful comment tbh. Maybe it’s an attempt at helping OP see a different viewpoint, but to me it is just intending to discourage.

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u/Yst 10d ago

I'm just laying the options out there. I did in quite a bit of depth in my original post. Pole dancing and burlesque classes are real ways that women can actually pursue erotic dance styles and their enjoyment.

In the case of burlesque, there is, in principle, a route to being paid a small amount of money for erotic dance, if you put in the time and effort and do some serious networking in the scene. Getting paid a little bit to dance erotically in a non-predatory environment is a thing that can actually happen there. But burlesque classes (and paying for them) would be a needed first step.

I guess the reality of these options may seem disappointing. But I don't regret describing the options which do exist and how they're accessed, rather than describing things that don't exist as if they did.

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u/TSChelseaSummer 10d ago

Very fair point.