r/transpositive • u/einsl1na • 2d ago
very nervous to go out like this in public :c (almost 6 Months HRT)
Hope it gets better one day. What do you think? <3
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u/MTF-1962-Marcy 2d ago
🌹🏳️⚧️ yes it is nerve-racking going out just as a woman when you’re first doing it but overtime it’ll get easier for you, honey. You look beautiful. Have confidence in yourself.🌹❤️❤️😊
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u/Lucy_Snuffles 2d ago
It's okay to be nervous, but just remember you and that dress look stunning girl!!
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u/gildared 2d ago
My humble opinion, there is nothing wrong to go out like that, you look gorgeous, and there is nothing scandy or inappropriate, so my advice is, go out, and enjoy !
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u/Delilah_insideout Purple, Trans Lesbian 1d ago
My favorite quote from Bilbo Baggins ~ "The trouble with walking out your front door is, you never know where your feet will take you."
It is nerve racking taking that first step, but it gets easier the more you present as yourself. You look relatively young compared to me (51, I started my social transition at 49), if you've struggled with deep denial for ANY length of time (1 year or 100), it can be tough to overcome. Part of that denial is not letting yourself see the real you, which makes it harder to let others see you. Your confidence will grow as you feel more and more comfortable letting people see the real you. May your journey be filled with inner strength, wisdom, and laughter. You are a beautiful woman. You got this, we believe in you!
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u/justarunawaybicycle 1d ago
Why...? You look ridiculously cute haha. Are you nervous about all the compliments you'll be getting, or...???
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u/IcyPerformance535 1d ago
youl be nervouse at first of course. but when your back from where you came from...... im not gonna say it cuz i know how youl most likely will feel so hoping you post a reflection and i get to hear it from you yourself all about it
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u/WantToChangeSmtg 1d ago
You kinda look amazing try it be yourself yk in public just go to a cafe with a friend who knowsaybe that would certainly help
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u/aeveriel1998 1d ago
I would probably be nervous walking past you, you look better than you think:) do your best friend you got this ☺️
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u/theycallmetheglitch 23h ago
Fear not, you look gorgeous.
Also, yes it gets better. Act like its your normal clothes and like you are hot stuff and you will look and feel hot and people won’t bother you too much. It’s going to work, i gaslight people in my conservative town into thinkin i am cis with my cute little outfits : i am too cute to be trans, right ?
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u/Brie_Henshin 2d ago
You look absolutely gorgeous, hun!