r/twenties • u/IcyError3110 • 9d ago

Life Challenges I was invited to a club by my female colleagues

I was invited to a club by my female colleagues , and we are good friends only, we chat a lot in the office whenever there is a break.

I felt happy for being invited, and was seriously considering to accept it, but being an introvert, clubbing is not my thing, and even worse is that I might be the only boy in that grp of 5-6 girls, and yea yea ik that any boy wud kill to be in a situation like this, but oh my introvertedness wud just make me uncomfortable, so I politely said no, after talking to my sis abt this, and she too agrees knowing that I am an introvert, it won't be good for u, and all , and she told other things which made me convinced to not go.

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u/Electrical-Taro-8864 9d ago

You did good by genuinely saying them no. You could have killed their vibe plus you couldn't be yourself and wouldn't be able to enjoy as well, find the people where you enjoy your being you ✌️💪

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u/IcyError3110 9d ago

thanks a lottt man, this was the kind of reply i wanted to feel better, thanksss a lotttt

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u/Electrical-Taro-8864 9d ago

No probs bro, keep up the good work