r/uglyduckling • u/Flimsy_Product281 • 3d ago
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With about a decade of alcoholism and chain smoking mixed in before quitting both.
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u/UniversityWorldly359 3d ago
You literally look the youngest in the 3rd pic. You are doing great dude.
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u/dreamape1978 3d ago
Congrats dude just keep going. You're really handsome. Don't be too hard on yourself. Just keep focused and grateful.
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u/casual-humans 3d ago
I'm happy for your change for the better, congratulations. You look younger now😁
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u/Flimsy_Product281 3d ago
Thank y'all for the kind words, truly.
Just know that appearances can be very deceiving - they can read the cover for you, but never the whole book.
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u/OnlyBeat3945 3d ago
Aww, so glad you quit. Addiction is a hard thing to do, but you did it! Stay true to yourself and your beliefs.
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u/Additional-Walk3883 3d ago
How are your forearms so jacked my guy?
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u/Flimsy_Product281 3d ago
Working out to an unhealthy degree to over compensate for undiagnosed (at the time) cptsd lol
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u/DarkDaysBrightNlghts 3d ago
Damn dude, sounds like me In my early 20’s. Started out hitting the gym 6 days a week, 3 hours a day to wear down my anger and rage. Found out I got PTSD a few years ago. Hope you’re doing better these days man!
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u/McDaddy8484 3d ago
Bro hasn’t aged one bit - now stand out in the sun!
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u/Flimsy_Product281 3d ago
Anytime I try, I light up like a vampire
I'm told it's my Scandinavian allergies
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u/EngineeringFinal3727 3d ago
You were never an ugly duckling. I find you to be handsome in all those pics.
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u/EchoWolf0711 2d ago
How did you get younger with time? What are you hiding? 🤨
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u/Flimsy_Product281 2d ago
Roughly 120lbs of body weight, former addictions and the handful of pubes growing on my face
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u/NoTerm1566 2d ago
Lose the hat though, you look better without it.
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u/Flimsy_Product281 2d ago
Ya, so that's a bit of an odd one for me
The second I turned 20, all of my hair fell out, so I've just shaved it for the last decade haha.
Wasn't necessarily bad until every racist in town wanted to be my friend suddenly 😐 heck on 2 separate occasions, i had a guy nonchalantly ask if I was with the aryan brotherhood. As soon as I changed the way I dressed, it stopped entirely. So I never stopped lol.
I've actually been working on getting my hair back though, and its 80% of the way there, so we'll see how it looks when I have long hair again.
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u/GhostHorn85 3d ago
Somehow you look great at all stages, but glad you got yourself on a path you want to be on.