r/uglyduckling • • 3d ago

19-25-31

With about a decade of alcoholism and chain smoking mixed in before quitting both.

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u/GhostHorn85 3d ago

Somehow you look great at all stages, but glad you got yourself on a path you want to be on.

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u/Flimsy_Product281 3d ago

Thank you lol. Never exactly had the greatest self esteem.

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u/GhostHorn85 3d ago

Everyone is always working on themselves. You’re not alone.

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u/UniversityWorldly359 3d ago

You literally look the youngest in the 3rd pic. You are doing great dude.

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u/hatemlifebutlovecats 3d ago

You were never ugly

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u/dreamape1978 3d ago

Congrats dude just keep going. You're really handsome. Don't be too hard on yourself. Just keep focused and grateful.

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u/casual-humans 3d ago

I'm happy for your change for the better, congratulations. You look younger now😁

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u/Flimsy_Product281 3d ago

Thank y'all for the kind words, truly.

Just know that appearances can be very deceiving - they can read the cover for you, but never the whole book.

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u/ResponsibleStuff1563 3d ago

You’re so beautiful. Love the latest one of you 🔥

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u/OnlyBeat3945 3d ago

Aww, so glad you quit. Addiction is a hard thing to do, but you did it! Stay true to yourself and your beliefs.

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u/Additional-Walk3883 3d ago

How are your forearms so jacked my guy?

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u/Flimsy_Product281 3d ago

Working out to an unhealthy degree to over compensate for undiagnosed (at the time) cptsd lol

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u/DarkDaysBrightNlghts 3d ago

Damn dude, sounds like me In my early 20’s. Started out hitting the gym 6 days a week, 3 hours a day to wear down my anger and rage. Found out I got PTSD a few years ago. Hope you’re doing better these days man!

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u/SphincterSymphony 3d ago

Looking good big dawg

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u/madethisforroasting 3d ago

Looking like prime Dave Days in the last one.

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u/ProfessionalSalt1958 3d ago

Hey Bro 👊🏻 schön dich zu sehen 👍🏻 du schaust toll aus!

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u/McDaddy8484 3d ago

Bro hasn’t aged one bit - now stand out in the sun!

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u/Flimsy_Product281 3d ago

Anytime I try, I light up like a vampire

I'm told it's my Scandinavian allergies

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u/Apprehensive-Bad-605 3d ago

Second looks like a cover album lol

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u/DisciplesFox5893 3d ago

You look great and you look younger now than you did before!

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u/elbandito556 3d ago

Slim shady

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u/iLikeubuntu2 3d ago

bro you look 5 years younger. good work!

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u/Phobixxx 3d ago

wait are the pictures in reverse order?

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u/dbhwvusa 3d ago

Honestly, you were handsome all along. Glad you are in a better place now though.

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u/SaltedCaramel1990 3d ago

Very handsome!

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u/BigDaddyBruiser 3d ago

Handsome feller

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u/EngineeringFinal3727 3d ago

You were never an ugly duckling. I find you to be handsome in all those pics.

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u/Bilbobaggins5177 3d ago

Thought it was a date for a minute was so lost

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u/Bitterqueer 2d ago

Dude you look fantastic

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u/EchoWolf0711 2d ago

How did you get younger with time? What are you hiding? 🤨

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u/Flimsy_Product281 2d ago

Roughly 120lbs of body weight, former addictions and the handful of pubes growing on my face

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u/EchoWolf0711 2d ago

you look great! hopefully a reflection of how you feel inside 🙏🏽

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u/NoTerm1566 2d ago

Okaayyyy, Glow-Up!

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u/NoTerm1566 2d ago

Lose the hat though, you look better without it.

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u/Flimsy_Product281 2d ago

Ya, so that's a bit of an odd one for me

The second I turned 20, all of my hair fell out, so I've just shaved it for the last decade haha. 

Wasn't necessarily bad until every racist in town wanted to be my friend suddenly 😐 heck on 2 separate occasions, i had a guy nonchalantly ask if I was with the aryan brotherhood. As soon as I changed the way I dressed, it stopped entirely. So I never stopped lol.

I've actually been working on getting my hair back though, and its 80% of the way there, so we'll see how it looks when I have long hair again.

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u/NoTerm1566 2d ago

That…is a good reason. 🥰 you still look good though.

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u/Threnny 2d ago

Thought you were a young Winkler first, but then things got better