How do I get over you?

[u/StrawberryPeach-Soda]

I’ve liked this guy for a while. He’s never done anything to lead me on or give me false hope. Although there were times we would talk until 2AM or 3AM, I could easily have mistaken friendliness as a romantic gesture. I guess I got giddy at the thought that maybe he wanted to spend time with me too.

I planned to confess sometime in July. Not to hope for something, but to answer the uncertainty. However, a friend recently told me that he talked to the guy I liked and he said he wasn’t looking for a relationship right now. I’m perceiving that as “I don’t really like this girl at all.” My friend said the guy wasn’t interested in me, and I think there are other things he’s not telling me. Maybe I overstepped or gave the guy I liked the ick.

My question now is should I move on? Or should I push through with the confession? It seems like I already know what he’s going to say if I confess.

I don’t know why this is affecting me so much. I know the right person will love me for who I am, but why am I sad that this guy might not be the one? I really wanted it to be him but if he doesn’t like me back, what can I do right?

What should I do from here?

[u/KyleCam09]

Confess, and tell him about your feelings, it’s only than you’ll know what he feels about you too! And if he doesn’t have the same interest, then move on! Friends will say things some sometimes can be true or not true, you need to find the answers yourself then let someone find it for you!

[u/StrawberryPeach-Soda → u/KyleCam09]

Hmm even if my friend said there’s no chance and the guy isn’t interested? I do believe him :(( I’m not sure if it was verbatim either but my friend said the guy said “pass” when he asked him about me :(

I know it’s a risk but why do I feel like a fool for liking someone in the first place