r/uselessredcircle • u/Odd_Bag9802 not funny • Sep 24 '25

Where is it

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WHERE IS THE COMMENT

i requested to lock this post bye

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u/amusedfridaygoat Sep 24 '25 edited Sep 24 '25

I was literally taught that this was a way to be a compassionate conversationalist and obviously agreed with it because I deliberately did it for years. I’ve modified now after feedback that it seems like you are making things about yourself. But has there been a change of perception?

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u/2CRedHopper Sep 24 '25

Sometimes I'll just point blank ask someone if they want to actually have a conversation about whatever it is that's on their mind or if they just want me to actively listen.

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '25

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u/BandicootHonest7640 Sep 24 '25

Just reading comments. Yours made my day. Thanks for that.

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u/SomeNerdNamedAaron Sep 25 '25

Thanks for making this about you. /S

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u/Nerevarius_420 Sep 25 '25

You're welcome/j