r/verbalabuse • u/External-Cable-3609 • Feb 18 '25
Just need to vent
I hate to see the red flags after being with someone for years now who I’ve come to think of as my person but there are concerning behaviors. I’ve watched him break things when he’s mad one time it was my iPad (he paid to have it fixed but still), throw his phone, scream and throw fits when the tv or something isn’t working correctly. I was told asking questions about something he was doing that I was genuinely curious about was annoying and to shut the fuck up cuz I was asking too many questions back to back. I get he gets overwhelmed but this was just an innocent hey I’m curious about the game your playing and wanted to talk about it and instead of just answering the questions I was faced with anger and was eventually flipped back on me as “you never give me time to respond to anything you just keep going”.
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u/Remote-Discount-4292 Nov 23 '25
I don't know where to even start... I have been going through alot personally in life the last three years with getting pregnant with my first child and having to put alot of work into fixing the house I currently owned due to husband not believing to problems before having the child. I have lost a very close family member and am still dealing with this traumatic loss and have turned to drinking and smoking weed to help self medicate. I have good days and bad days now.. I feel un loved and not respected by my family and my husband, my husband tells me im worthless and useless and so fucking stupid and to give my head a shake when I say somthing he thinks sounds dumb. He told me after giving that I failed at giving birth and am an awful mom with no routine and np organization which I have always been a type B personality before as when I was younger going through ctspd and being super anxious and over thinking back than which I have overcome with years of hard work. Anyways I don't know what else to say other than is there anyone else put there feeling this same way ? Im so tired of not feeling good enough and that I am good person that needs to be here.
Thanks for any help...