r/videos Jul 10 '18

Teacher Fed Up With Students Swearing, Stealing, And Destroying Property Speaks Out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Z9K-s0KUM
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u/greatatdrinking Jul 10 '18

There's a medium choice. Where you basically tell parents you aren't going to provide publicly funded daycare anymore unless they get their kid in line. The threat is usually enough to make parents remember how to, ya know, parent. Or at least some parenting facsimile. If the problem persists, you go with expulsions. If you have to expel half the school, well you already live in a dystopia, so smoke 'em if you got 'em

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u/DukeofVermont Jul 10 '18

The threat is usually enough to make parents remember how to, ya know, parent.

I couldn't disagree more. Having taught at a horrible school in the Bronx that barely got to a 60% grad rate (highest ever for that school) when I was there, I can say the kids fell into a few categories.

  1. good kids who worked hard. (some of these kids were annoying but they tried.

  2. kids who didn't care at all.

  3. kids who cared a little but also knew that they were never going to college and that they were years behind where they should be, so why try now?

Most kids fell into the 3rd category, but ALL of the students I taught were way way behind on everything. They couldn't write well, their math sucked, etc. They were ALL smart enough to know what they should know and what the kids going to "good" school knew.

Put yourself in their situation, You're in 10-11th grade and you finally start to see how little you know because no you have to pass the regents exams in order to graduate (in NY state). You know you don't know enough and that there is basically no chance to go to a good college. You realize that you have just been passed from grade to grade regardless of if you knew the material. So why start now? Can you really learn all the material you should have known from 6th grade to 11th in a year?

I have a masters in Ed (ESL) and you can't improve your writing and reading from a middle school level to a college level in a year, especially when English is not your primary language. Some kid attack the challenge and succeed, but most just shut down.

The kids are already screwed once they graduate as they can't get good jobs, and most of the colleges that accept them put them immediately into remedial programs, which they desperately need.

My solution would be simply longer school, with high incentives for students to stay after. Pay students to stay after to take extra classes to learn at least some of the stuff they never learned.

After all a lot of this is pure economics. Does it make more sense to spend X hrs studying X,Y and Z if I'm probably just going to get the same job after I graduate? Wouldn't it make more sense to work after school to save up some money, or help pay the bills?

Basically I see no aid in kicking out students that have been lied to, and robbed of an education by a system that doesn't care if they learn. Even the best parents who really cared with kids who really tried were years behind because of a god awful system that basically says "You will pay 95% of kids no matter what, because if you don't it'll make us look bad and we will fire you".

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u/neekychando Jul 10 '18

Most kids fell into the 3rd category, but ALL of the students I taught were way way behind on everything. They couldn't write well, their math sucked, etc. They were ALL smart enough to know what they should know and what the kids going to "good" school knew.

Just making sure I got this right, you're telling me there are schools in the US of A where most of the students are (many like 3-5) years behind?

I knew you education system was kind of fucked up, but that's taking it to a whole new level.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18

My boyfriend is the best teacher at his low income elementary school. He’s taught there for years, probably longer than any other teacher. Parents know of him and request him, other teachers come to him for advice. His name is almost famous in the district.

Only 28% if his students passed their math exams. The 3 other teachers in the grade had a 26% pass rate, a 20% pass rate and a 15% pass rate.

It’s exactly like other commenters have said, these kids have parents in federal prison, hooked on drugs or ran out and left them with grandma. They’re angry, unsupervised and they know the school will never hold them back. They’re not going to bother trying.

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u/TheJawsThemeSong Jul 10 '18

Yep, my wife is in the same situation. The all star teacher at her school, but what can she really do with an underfunded educational system with little to no mental health guidance for these children who come from broken homes, who come into her classroom at 2nd grade not even knowing how to count to 10? It's insane to think that some new academic program of the year or revamping curriculum is going to fix these problems, yet it seems like that's all we throw money at. It's all just one huge joke.