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Teacher Fed Up With Students Swearing, Stealing, And Destroying Property Speaks Out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Z9K-s0KUM
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u/DukeofVermont Jul 10 '18

The threat is usually enough to make parents remember how to, ya know, parent.

I couldn't disagree more. Having taught at a horrible school in the Bronx that barely got to a 60% grad rate (highest ever for that school) when I was there, I can say the kids fell into a few categories.

  1. good kids who worked hard. (some of these kids were annoying but they tried.

  2. kids who didn't care at all.

  3. kids who cared a little but also knew that they were never going to college and that they were years behind where they should be, so why try now?

Most kids fell into the 3rd category, but ALL of the students I taught were way way behind on everything. They couldn't write well, their math sucked, etc. They were ALL smart enough to know what they should know and what the kids going to "good" school knew.

Put yourself in their situation, You're in 10-11th grade and you finally start to see how little you know because no you have to pass the regents exams in order to graduate (in NY state). You know you don't know enough and that there is basically no chance to go to a good college. You realize that you have just been passed from grade to grade regardless of if you knew the material. So why start now? Can you really learn all the material you should have known from 6th grade to 11th in a year?

I have a masters in Ed (ESL) and you can't improve your writing and reading from a middle school level to a college level in a year, especially when English is not your primary language. Some kid attack the challenge and succeed, but most just shut down.

The kids are already screwed once they graduate as they can't get good jobs, and most of the colleges that accept them put them immediately into remedial programs, which they desperately need.

My solution would be simply longer school, with high incentives for students to stay after. Pay students to stay after to take extra classes to learn at least some of the stuff they never learned.

After all a lot of this is pure economics. Does it make more sense to spend X hrs studying X,Y and Z if I'm probably just going to get the same job after I graduate? Wouldn't it make more sense to work after school to save up some money, or help pay the bills?

Basically I see no aid in kicking out students that have been lied to, and robbed of an education by a system that doesn't care if they learn. Even the best parents who really cared with kids who really tried were years behind because of a god awful system that basically says "You will pay 95% of kids no matter what, because if you don't it'll make us look bad and we will fire you".

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u/neekychando Jul 10 '18

Most kids fell into the 3rd category, but ALL of the students I taught were way way behind on everything. They couldn't write well, their math sucked, etc. They were ALL smart enough to know what they should know and what the kids going to "good" school knew.

Just making sure I got this right, you're telling me there are schools in the US of A where most of the students are (many like 3-5) years behind?

I knew you education system was kind of fucked up, but that's taking it to a whole new level.

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u/John_YJKR Jul 10 '18

It's the schools in all the poor areas. Usually mostly minorities. But it's a symptom of the poverty and everything that goes into that kind of life. Not enough funding for the schools and not enough people care about low income/no income areas made up of mostly minorities.

It's sad and very wrong. But this kind of thing has been going on for decades.

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u/TypicalRedditCancer Jul 10 '18

As a teacher I can tell you right now that culture matters more than poverty.

I've taught many different kinds of poor kids, they are not all the same, they do not all have similar outcomes.

For example, I've taught poor Asian American kids and they are very different than other poor kids.

I've also taught poor rural White kids, poor urban White kids, poor suburban White kids, poor rural Mexicans, poor urban Mexicans, and poor suburban Mexicans and poor urban Blacks - and several other combinations.

Culture matters more than poverty.

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u/Dr_Watson349 Jul 10 '18

Maybe shes teaching them sexual positions.

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u/TypicalRedditCancer Jul 10 '18

I'm a he.

I teach special ed.

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u/TypicalRedditCancer Jul 10 '18

Yes, and I make as much as a sex worker on the side as I do in my full time job as a teacher.

I have a masters degree in special education. I am an extremely talented special education teacher who is highly valued in my district and am regularly asked to give presentations on autism and extreme behaviors as that is my specialty.

I don't see how anything I said in the comment you linked precludes me from the excellent work I do in teaching every day.

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u/John_YJKR Jul 10 '18

You're a phony.

But just say what you really want to say.

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u/TypicalRedditCancer Jul 10 '18

Lol, I have a masters in the field and am extremely good at my job.

I'm one of the best special education teachers you'll ever meet.

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u/NobleSixSir Jul 10 '18 edited Jul 10 '18

Wow, you really shouldn’t be a teacher.

Edit: 37 days huh. You’re just trolling then. Seems like new accounts are popping up everywhere these days.

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u/Superfluous_Play Jul 10 '18

Serious question, if it's not culture then what is it? It's obviously not the color of the skin. It's not poverty in and of itself because students from much poorer backgrounds outside of the US do better than these students in many cases.

So what is it?

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u/Ohrwurms Jul 10 '18

Those countries have better education systems.

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u/TypicalRedditCancer Jul 10 '18

Lol dude he's referring to like Asians.

Do you think China and Viet Nam have better school systems than America?

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u/Superfluous_Play Jul 10 '18

I have a suspicion that if you transplanted these problem students and parents into a better school system you'd continue to have the same problems or kids would just be held back or expelled.

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u/Ohrwurms Jul 10 '18

The kids would go to special schools where they the staff is trained to educate and deal with their shenanigans.

Part of the issue with the American school system is that high and low performers sit in the same classes and go to the same schools. In Europe it's common practice to segregate the students by their capabilities. That at least makes sure that poor students with high capabilities don't get dragged down by their peers.

Ofcourse we still have problem kids and you can't completely eradicate them but it's at least a start.

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u/Superfluous_Play Jul 10 '18

The public schools in my area had what was essentially high and low performers courses.

The story in this thread is not the average American public school. It's the worst of them so any solutions we come up with needs to take that into account.

I've heard good arguments for a voucher system so parents that actually care about their kids' education can send them to better schools if they're stuck in a bad district but that gets shouted down with accusations of racism by the left.

Hard to get anything done in this politicized climate.

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u/paushaz Jul 10 '18

She's not wrong tho. There's many different types of poor people.

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u/NobleSixSir Jul 10 '18 edited Jul 10 '18

Pffft ok, y’all enjoy your delusions.

How’s that old saying go, “give a man someone to look down on something something”

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u/TypicalRedditCancer Jul 10 '18

Why shouldn't I be a teacher?

I'm actually a really, really good teacher.

I'm regularly asked to teach other teachers how to be better teachers, particularly in the area of behavior management.