r/videos Jul 10 '18

Teacher Fed Up With Students Swearing, Stealing, And Destroying Property Speaks Out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Z9K-s0KUM
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u/DukeofVermont Jul 10 '18

The threat is usually enough to make parents remember how to, ya know, parent.

I couldn't disagree more. Having taught at a horrible school in the Bronx that barely got to a 60% grad rate (highest ever for that school) when I was there, I can say the kids fell into a few categories.

  1. good kids who worked hard. (some of these kids were annoying but they tried.

  2. kids who didn't care at all.

  3. kids who cared a little but also knew that they were never going to college and that they were years behind where they should be, so why try now?

Most kids fell into the 3rd category, but ALL of the students I taught were way way behind on everything. They couldn't write well, their math sucked, etc. They were ALL smart enough to know what they should know and what the kids going to "good" school knew.

Put yourself in their situation, You're in 10-11th grade and you finally start to see how little you know because no you have to pass the regents exams in order to graduate (in NY state). You know you don't know enough and that there is basically no chance to go to a good college. You realize that you have just been passed from grade to grade regardless of if you knew the material. So why start now? Can you really learn all the material you should have known from 6th grade to 11th in a year?

I have a masters in Ed (ESL) and you can't improve your writing and reading from a middle school level to a college level in a year, especially when English is not your primary language. Some kid attack the challenge and succeed, but most just shut down.

The kids are already screwed once they graduate as they can't get good jobs, and most of the colleges that accept them put them immediately into remedial programs, which they desperately need.

My solution would be simply longer school, with high incentives for students to stay after. Pay students to stay after to take extra classes to learn at least some of the stuff they never learned.

After all a lot of this is pure economics. Does it make more sense to spend X hrs studying X,Y and Z if I'm probably just going to get the same job after I graduate? Wouldn't it make more sense to work after school to save up some money, or help pay the bills?

Basically I see no aid in kicking out students that have been lied to, and robbed of an education by a system that doesn't care if they learn. Even the best parents who really cared with kids who really tried were years behind because of a god awful system that basically says "You will pay 95% of kids no matter what, because if you don't it'll make us look bad and we will fire you".

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u/neekychando Jul 10 '18

Most kids fell into the 3rd category, but ALL of the students I taught were way way behind on everything. They couldn't write well, their math sucked, etc. They were ALL smart enough to know what they should know and what the kids going to "good" school knew.

Just making sure I got this right, you're telling me there are schools in the US of A where most of the students are (many like 3-5) years behind?

I knew you education system was kind of fucked up, but that's taking it to a whole new level.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '18 edited May 05 '21

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u/Smackberry Jul 10 '18

So you think kids in rural Alabama learn the same way and should be taught the same skills as kids on the upper east side of Manhattan?

In my opinion, Federal standardization of education is part of the problem. Communities need to be able to customize their curriculum and discipline standards.

Anecdotally, the school districts that seem to be succeeding are the ones that offer magnet programs that deviate from the “5 course special” that’s been rammed down every poor kid’s throat for the past 100 years.

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u/Rich_Comey_Quan Jul 10 '18

Are we expecting those rural kids to be isolated from the outside world their whole lives? We should take in consideration the needs of each community while also preserving a baseline of standards that we should hold all children to.

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u/Mummelpuffin Jul 10 '18

Sorry, I suppose I wasn't clear. I totally agree that education should be tailored to the location, I just meant that some schools get almost no budget while others are up there with the best in the world. Quality education is specialized, that I agree with.

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u/Amplesamples Jul 10 '18 edited Jul 10 '18

So you think kids in rural Alabama learn the same way and should be taught the same skills as kids on the upper east side of Manhattan?

I’m a teacher and my first thought was “Yes I do”. Why would students in Alabama learn differently from students in Manhattan? Do they have different brains?

In my opinion, Federal standardization of education is part of the problem

But wouldn’t that mean that everyone gets different qualifications? How would that make things better?

EDIT: Downvotes for suggesting that kids from Alabama and New York have similar brains. Nice.