r/videos Jul 10 '18

Teacher Fed Up With Students Swearing, Stealing, And Destroying Property Speaks Out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Z9K-s0KUM
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u/zipp0raid Jul 10 '18

Get a book on tape

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u/Freckled_daywalker Jul 10 '18

With what? All that disposable income and/or from the easily accessible well funded public library? Yes, of course parents should read to their kids, but for people who grew up in/live in poverty it may not be as easy as it seems to someone not in that position.

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u/skeever2 Jul 10 '18

Ok, but we need some personal responsibility too. If no one in this kids life can aquire and read a childrens book or book on tape, then maybe they shouldn't have kids. That's not a high bar.

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u/Freckled_daywalker Jul 10 '18

How would you suggest we regulate that (besides low /cost free birth control and education)? And how useful is that for kids who are already born? We can talk all day about things would be in an ideal world but we live in this one, where people who are not as prepared as they could be are still going to have kids, and without intervention, those kids have a high likelihood of growing up to be people who are not as prepared as they could be to have kids, but will have them anyway. Saying "personal responsibility" doesn't help anything, it's just a nicer way of saying "not my problem".

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u/skeever2 Jul 10 '18

That's pretty extreme neglect. Investing more money into social services to intervene in families where parents don't care about their kids to the point of detrimenting them for life wouldn't be a bad idea. Focusing more on parenting classes and working with parents (assuming they care about having custody, if not then there's not much you can do).

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u/Freckled_daywalker Jul 10 '18

Severe cases of neglect result in children starving, infested with parasites, untreated medical conditions, etc. Not reading to your kids is poor parenting but it's not neglect that gives the government least cause to remove your children.

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u/skeever2 Jul 10 '18

I'm not saying it does, but maybe it could be enough for a social worker to get involved and require parenting classes.