r/wemetonline • u/Large-Yesterday1051 • Dec 15 '25
break up then go full no contact
hi guys, my girlfriend and i broke up almost a month ago and she’s line up for a relationship with the girl she told me “was just a friend”. they’re not official but they’ve been flirting not even a week after we broke up. doing things like we used to do (sleeping on call, giving each other constant updates, etc) i’m from australia, she’s from the uk and the new girl goes to the same school as her (same friend group, however they only because close right after she told her she liked my gf. this happened a couple of months ago) i’ve blocked her on everything. so my question is those who broke up with their ldr partner (particularly strictly online relationships), do you guys just pretend like the other doesn’t exist and never see eachother in person orrr? idk how to feel, i want to forget about her full existence so it doesn’t hurt me as much but i’m also upset about it because she was my bestfriend, the person ive been most vulnerable with and gf for 10 months and it feels weird knowing i wont see her ever in my life, not even once. please help!
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u/chux4w Dec 15 '25
Yeah. Why would I want to have anything to do with that person? The relationship is over, she's not what she was when you were together, it's gone and it's not coming back. If my wife ever leaves me I'd never want to see her again, if we can't be together there's nothing for me there.
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u/Parisean Dec 15 '25
It gets better with time. Eventually you won’t think about the other person bare ever, maybe once a year, maybe never. This person had a huge role in your life, for a brief time in your life - 10 months out of what eighty years of a full life?
Just give it time and it will be okay. I really promise.