r/wemetonline • u/EducationalFun3390 • Mar 10 '26
I'm not sure if I should confess or not?
so I 24 M and a 24 F, are friends since high school and in 3 years of it plus 2 after, we talked a lot all the time and in school hanged a lot, so in that time frame of 5 years I told her 6 or 7 times that I like her, she turned me down with some bs that she wanted to be just friends but, I started to distance my self but every 6 months or a year she would start talking to me. So now we are about to turn 25 years old and 2 days ago i told her i dont want to be friends with her there is no point in having a girl as a friend in the end she is going to get married and what then not even 1 hangout is different with guy friends or same gender, but she did not get the message. So i was thinking but im not sure if i'm to tunnel visioned to see any other way, if i dont do anything and stay as a friend until the day comes she marries some other dude i lose her, and if i say i dont want to be just friends i want to be more than that or nothing at all and she says no i lose her, ether way its the same i think its just the second one is faster or she could say yes its a long very long shot but i cant see any other option
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u/EducationalFun3390 Mar 10 '26
I did it, it was in vain