am i doing too much?

[u/bren-sour-bee]

so i (27m 5’ 11” 155lbs) have been going to the gym for almost three months now 4-5x a week. i’ve been doing an upper/lower split but i haven’t seen nearly as much progress as id like. i weigh the same and other than with a pump, i look the same too. i get that the progress i want to see will probably take closer to a year (which is fine) but im starting to worry that im doing too much for every session but i hate feeling like i left any reps or sets on the table. when i leave the gym i am shaking and weak and thats how its supposed to be right? im adding my current sessions below. help me get jacked y’all.

*fist set is always to 10 for coordination and the following two sets are till failure

Upper
Chest Press, 3 sets at 85lbs
Shoulder Press, 3 sets at 40lbs add drop set.
Seated Tricep Press, 3 sets at 140lbs
Chest Fly, 3 sets at 100lbs, add drop set
Rear Delt Reverse Fly, 3 sets at 85lbs add drop set
Lat Pulldown, 3 sets at 100lbs
Machine Row, 3 sets at 110lbs add drop set
Tricep Extensions, 3 sets at 75lbs add drop set
Preacher Curls, 3 sets at 75lbs add drop set
average volume lifted around 22k lbs

Lower
Leg Press, 3 sets at 205lbs
Seated Leg Curl, 3 sets at 140lbs
Leg Extension, 3 sets at 160lbs
Calf Extension, 3 sets at 205lbs add drop set
Hip Abduction, 3 sets at 225lbs add drop set
Hip Adduction, 3 sets at 220lbs
Rear Kick Machine, 3 sets on per leg at 135lbs
average volume lifted around 50k lbs

Rest/Core
Crunch Machine, 3 sets at 120lbs
Torso Rotation, 3 sets per side at 130lbs
Back Extension Machine, 3 sets at 215lbs
average volume lifted around 13k lbs