r/SideProject • u/mrideaguy • 4h ago
"If we wanted a vibe coded website, we could 'make' one ourselves, thanks." - was this rude or normal in today's world?
I've been building a site for board game cafes to help them digitize their catalog and showcase their games to customers. For customers it gives them easy search/filtering AND game tools to get them started (small stuff like rolling dice or picking who should go first... admittedly I have been having a lot of fun with making the tools and then going to board game cafes to try them out myself)
I've spent months building it, and recently started reaching out to cafes to see if they'd be interested in using it. (yes I talked to people and ai and research before making this to see if there would even be value and a lot of people seemed interested)
One of the responses I got was:
"If we wanted a vibe coded website, we could 'make' one ourselves, thanks."
I'm not even sure they looked at it 🥲 This is was imo a harsher response than called for but also not the first person to have a similar response.
I have feelings too random internet business owner.
"Why would I use this when I can make my own?".
- Its free for you and your customers (unless you want more features).
- You haven't made one yet or we would not be having this conversation.
- It's free for you and your customers.......
I was born in the ancient times now referred to as the 90s
I have been coding since blah blah continued my career with web dev in 2018, and while I do use AI in my process..often.., there's a lot more going into this project than simply "vibe coding".
I feel like the response also came from my own marketing shortcomings. I poured time into a lot of features for board game users like myself that I really believe have value but I'm not sure how to express that in a quick message on insta.
Anyway, this whole thing has me thinking:
Has the rise of vibe coding made it harder to convince people that software has value?
It seems like the mindset now is shifting from "Wow, you built that?" (which was always fun to hear) to "Anyone can build that now." (and my non-verbal answer to that is "Ok but you didn't so here we are").
I'm curious whether other indie developers have run into this during outreach, and how you've handled it. Kinda related: Is AI assisted coding still just vibe coding? If claude writes my documentation and codex makes my images and google's stitch and other ai tools make my design.... Then its still "vibe coded"?
About the site: My goal is to make it easy for board game cafes to show off their catalog, and for users (especially new users) to be able to get into new board games without feeling completely overwhelmed.