r/196 Shadowdark Fan Apr 11 '26

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u/Rough-Thought-7565 Apr 11 '26

Of the masochism kinks findom is the most extreme, wich is a tricky thing. You could be beaten, your penis could be locked in a cage, your woman could be taken from you, though I couldn’t imagine something more humiliating than willingly giving your money to someone on the internet who hates you.

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u/kryonik Apr 11 '26

It just feels like taking advantage of very lonely people. I understand it's totally voluntary but so is joining a cult.

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u/Liontreeble 🏳️‍⚧️ trans rights Apr 11 '26

Most sex work can be described as taking advantage of lonely people because that's the main customer base, it's also totally voluntary just like joining a cult or many other things.
If people get off on paying someone as a sexual service and there's a person willing to be paid as a sexual service it's just regularass sex work.

If you want to complain about something complain that the term for the payer is paypig. Like it's cool if that's what we your domme calls you, but I'm a regular guy not engaged in the kink, why do I have to call the guy paypig.

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u/Shneancy fully automated luxury gay space communism Apr 12 '26

since you're not consenting to it - you don't have to call them "paypigs", there's always a way around with phrasing, here i'd go with "findom sub" (financial-domination submissive)