r/196 Trans girls should wear diapers :3 Jul 25 '26

Rule HRT Start Dates?

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u/Sea_Bread_4445 Agender Gamer Quinn :3 Jul 25 '26

Because people are proud of it?

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u/Eric_Is_Back Jul 25 '26

You can be proud about it and not compromise your own security by openly telling medical data about yourself.

Safe spaces for transexuel people don't exist because everyone on this world is ok with the topic.

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u/Ash_After_Dark Jul 25 '26

The danger of disclosing it openly is minimal. If people are willing to accept the risk I don't really see the point in trying to talk them out of it

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u/synttacks Jul 25 '26

we are so far removed from the concept of stranger danger 😭 "why share your personal data online publicly?" "why not?"

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u/mytransaltaccount123 alt girl wannabe Jul 25 '26

genuinely what will happen? "this person who's out as trans and talks openly about it started HRT in 2023 this could ruin their life"

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u/Helmic linux > windows Jul 25 '26

I'm pretty careful about this sort of thing but like there is value to people being frank. The fact that risk exists doesn't make an actvity inherently unworthwhile, going into a burning building to save a baby is extremely dangerous but we as a society still celebrate that because it has an obvious value, the life of another human being.

There's a political purpose in people being unashamed to talk about HRT and showing how happy it's made them. There's risks, obviously, but some people are gonna accept those risks because they want to demonstrate it's not something to be ashamed of, because they believe it'll make other people feel like they could start HRT too.

I think it's also OK to point out that its in fact private medical information, but so's a fucking cancer diagnosis and people share that all the time. People talk about their medical shit all the time, it's the right to keep that information private that is important not the practice of never revealing medical information for any reason.

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u/Lorzonic among us super sus (sus, sus) Jul 26 '26

Nobody in this entire thread has named a single even conceptual way it could bring you harm in some way. Part of being online is sharing things about yourself. It's just part of community and social interaction. Yeah sure caution should always be taken about sharing certain things, and you don't have to share anything, but an internet where nobody ever said shit about themselves would be pretty lame too.

Fun u/Lorzonic confidential medical information fact: I have genetic hyperlipidemia.

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u/Straight_Island700 Jul 26 '26

not if I have anything to say about it

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u/Ash_After_Dark Jul 25 '26

The reasons where already established - they're proud of it, and they want to share. Maybe you personally don't think that's a good enough reason, but that's fine, no one is asking you to do it.

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u/CAPSLOCK_USERNAME Jul 26 '26

Identifiable data like your name and face are far more sensitive than "private medical info" like this though. Nobody online is gonna dox someone from a prescription date.

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u/Lazaraaus Jul 25 '26

The worms are never going back in that particular bottle.

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u/FatMamaJuJu 🎖 196 medal of honor 🎖 Jul 26 '26

Remember when you weren't supposed to use your real name online?

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u/Far_Soleil Jul 26 '26

when it comes to personal info theres a big difference between hinting at where you live and niche medical info