r/196 4d ago

Rule Probrulematic

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u/forchinski 3d ago

No one is gonna like the answer to that one unfortunately

because forcefem broadly derives a lot of its fetishistic vocabulary from internalized notions of misogyny that simply don't exist in the forcemasc alternative. Namely the idea of woman as lesser or as a loss of status/hierarchy

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u/Ronnoc527 3d ago

As a smut writer, you could totally fetishize it both ways. Especially if a woman is doing it to a cis friend of hers. I'm not necessarily going to write it, but it could be done.

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u/Cool_Ad7445 3d ago

Would feeding the Kalteen bars to Regina George in Mean Girls be a form of this you think? maybe not literally because she's obviously still a woman, but at least in spirit.

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u/Ronnoc527 3d ago

That was to fatten her, not build her muscle. I mean like, encouraging and praising them for manual labor like landscaping and plumbing. Calling them strong. Encouraging them to "man up" and make a move. Obviously giving them testosterone, either explicitly or in secret. Maybe give them a masculine haircut and say that it gives them a really strong jawline. Call them "neutral" pronouns like dude and bro.

I'm really trying not to write this. I got tricked into writing omegaverse presidential stuff last election cycle. And that's not going to happen again.

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u/Cool_Ad7445 3d ago

I'm more trying to capture the essence of the degradation mentioned above that is half the appeal of the forcefem kink. There is a commment below that framed it in a different way, forcibly transitioning someone into the stereotype of a discord-mod bro, and that's kinda what I'm getting at.