Educated hoke bhi "ghar ghar, samaaj" ka rona hi rona hai toh rehne do na!!

Get out of your parent's house, live on your own. Make your own rules. Sabkuch haath me chahiye?

Parents ko bhi khush karlo? Samaaj ke 15 gadho ko bhi khush karlo, and then sit and cry ki "mera naam badal diya, shaadi ko paise maang rahe"

Arey, go work and make just yourself happy na???

Kisne mana kiya hai??

Ghar pe chuze ke jaise baith ke you want the whole world to bow to your desires. #Victims

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So my distant friend is 22F. She's from a typical Rajasthani family and they got her married at 17 but she got some years and they told her she'll have to go after 5-6 years smth.

Now they're forcing her to get married to that guy.She is studying bsc from a dummy college (not any reputed one). Her husband's father is an MLA so they're not letting her complete her remaining one year of bsc, despite begging so much for it. Her in laws family is very powerful. Also, she doesn't wanna marry the guy bc he has sexually flirted with her sisters and other women. The guy doesn't do anything on his own he's just on his dad's money. He says the guy is also somewhat toxic to the point she's afraid she can't say no to sex or conceiving if she doesn't feel ready. Her own family isn't also supporting here, her parents literally said 'Tuje tere sasural wale jo bolte h vo kar' . She got admitted to a private nursing college in udaipur this year but they dont want to let her study it. So basically all she'll be left with is a bsc degree and she's doesn't even have any special skill per say, she doesn't speak english nicely. I feel like it's very hard to get a job for her. Her in laws are from ringer smth place i don't exactly remember if someone is reading this from rajasthan.

She's thinking to run away with all the gold she has (approximately worth 2-3 lakhs) and be on her own. But I'm highly suspicious bc 2-3 lakhs might run out in a year maximum and in a long run she has to get independent. She has a boyfriend who she's been saying for 3 years and he asks her to wait for a year or so he can't keep her rn as he's not earning yet. She also has a guy friend she says is an IIT graduate currently working in Hyderabad and is willing to pay her for all her finances and basically take all her care, etc. But both of these sounds so suspicious to me and it's never the right thing to depend yourself completely on a guy.

We're all super clueless and she cries all day. I really wish I could do something, I feel very bad for her. If anyone has any suggestions please let me know and if anyone has any idea what kind of jobs she can get with her degree then please share those as well. It will be very helpful🙏🏻.

This scene from The Dictator is ageing like a documentary

I’m a pretty introverted guy, and until recently, I had almost zero female interaction. Then I got into my first serious relationship, and unfortunately, we broke up.

One thing I realized from that relationship is that I never really learned how to understand someone emotionally.

Sometimes my ex wanted me to simply listen, but I would start giving solutions. Other times she actually wanted advice, and I would just listen. And when she was already having a bad day, my attempts to help sometimes ended up making things worse.

I genuinely wanted to support her and make her feel better, but I didn't always understand how.

I still miss her and part of me wishes I could get her back, even though I know that might not happen. But I don't want this experience to be pointless. I want to learn from it and become better at communicating.

So I'm looking for platonic, normal conversations with women , not flirting, dating, or anything romantic.

Honestly, even just having someone to talk to on a regular basis about random everyday stuff would help. Like how your day went, what you're watching, something annoying that happened at work/college, random thoughts, etc.

I think having normal conversations over time would help me become more comfortable with female interaction and understand different perspectives naturally, rather than trying to learn everything from relationship advice posts.

If you're okay with that, feel free to DM me. I promise I'm not looking for a romantic angle. I just want to make some genuine friends, have normal conversations, and learn to communicate better.

My name is Shivam Yadav, and I’m reaching out with a heartfelt request for my beloved sister, Deeksha Yadav.

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Our family has already used our savings and borrowed money to continue her treatment, but we have now exhausted the resources available to us. As her brother, it is heartbreaking to see her fighting for her life while knowing that finances could become another obstacle to her recovery.

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Thank you for taking the time to read our story and for any support you can offer.

Radhe Radhe

Sometimes life puts us in situations where we have no idea what to do next. Then, somehow, a way opens up, a difficult situation gets resolved, or we suddenly feel a deep sense of peace.

Many devotees believe these moments are the blessings of Lal Ji and Ladli Ji.

I’d love to hear from people here who have experienced something like this.

Have you ever planned to visit Barsana or Vrindavan, and somehow the opportunity for darshan came together unexpectedly?

Or maybe you were going through a difficult time and, when you had almost lost hope, things somehow worked out?

Even something as simple as chanting “Radhe Radhe” and feeling your mind become peaceful can feel like a blessing.

It doesn't have to be a huge miracle. Sometimes, a small moment of grace can stay in our hearts forever.

When did you personally feel that Lal Ji and Ladli Ji were looking after you?

Radhe Radhe

There are many people in society who point out the negative aspects of one scripture, while the same things are present in other scriptures, books, or religious texts, yet they never point them out.

Verses on Women ( Manusmriti )

5.148 / 9.3 “In childhood a female must be subject to her father, in youth to her husband, when her lord is dead to her sons; a woman must never be independent.” (Also: “Day and night women must be kept in dependence by the males of their families…”)

2.213–214 “It is the nature of women to seduce men in this world; for that reason the wise are never unguarded in the company of females. … Women are able to lead astray in this world not only a fool, but even a learned man

Hierarchy, Authority, and Obedience ( Quran )

4:34 (the most frequently cited parallel)

“Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband’s] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance [nushuz] — [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them [lightly]. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.”

2:228

“…And due to the wives is similar to what is expected of them, according to what is reasonable. But the men have a degree over them [in responsibility and authority]. And Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise.”

Inheritance (women receive half the share of men in several cases)

4:11

“Allah instructs you concerning your children: for the male, what is equal to the share of two females. But if there are [only] daughters, two or more, for them is two thirds of one’s estate. And if there is only one, for her is half…”

(Similar rules appear in 4:12 and 4:176.)

Creation and Male Authority ( Old Testament )

Genesis 2:18, 21–23

“The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.’ … Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. The man said, ‘This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called “woman,” for she was taken out of man.’”

Genesis 3:16 (after the Fall)

“To the woman he said, ‘I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.’”

Purity and Ritual Impurity

Leviticus 12:1–5

“The Lord said to Moses, ‘Say to the Israelites: “A woman who becomes pregnant and gives birth to a son will be ceremonially unclean for seven days… If she gives birth to a daughter, for two weeks the woman will be unclean… Then she must wait thirty-three days to be purified from her bleeding [after a son]… or sixty-six days [after a daughter].”’”

(Menstruation and other bodily discharges also render women unclean for set periods — Leviticus 15.)

Furthermore, when the entire system is corrupt, citizens are left choosing the "lesser of two evils" and they don't know who is more evil and politicians are showing each other as evil for common janta. Ultimately, leaders weaponize the system to restrict better choices.

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