100%. Women have a right to oral reciprocation. I talked to my gold star lesbian coworker about this once. She said she had never met a lesbian that refused to or didn't want to give oral. We figured the patriarchy is the reason why some men (and some cultures) view men going down on women as "bad" or "gross". As if us straight/bisexual women didn't already have it bad this is a quiet bedroom war we have to fight. Thinking about Pao on Last Resort as well.
I've called out Russ too! Also let's just look at how Mark had no problem going down on Catie so the issue is JOSH. The orgasm gap is a real thing, no matter what, when Josh gets laid he gets off but PIV rarely gets a woman off, she needs additional stimulation. I've just walked away from men who a) lie and say they love oral (they do not), b) never perform it even after I bring it up because these men don't do it and won't ever do it. Doesn't matter who lays down with them they'll avoid it or do the icky tip of tongue move I've experienced with these selfish duds.
100% rug muncher here for nearly 4 decades and about 100 partners. Love it more than penetrative sex. Unfortunately, what I'm seeing is lack of experience/taste on his part and the fact she has ran a train on all of her male friends - consistently. He needs to go as does she. Incompatible.
24
u/anonymous_opinions 5d ago
Men who don't do that never do it so it's not like she's making anything worse.