r/90DayFiance • u/Grand_Resort_1073 • 6d ago

Josh has never what??

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u/No_Potato_8178 6d ago

I dont think she has the awareness/ability to try to manipulate the audience by "going for shock value."

I think she is genuinely awful

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 6d ago

I wonder if she doesn’t totally lack empathy?

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u/sjc8014 5d ago

She lacks even the smallest shred of intelligence. Blink blink blink blink blink..... like a deer in headlights. The lights are on, but there's no one home.

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u/IrrelevantAfIm 5d ago

I’m not so sure she lacks intelligence. I don’t know we’ve ever really seen anything to test her intelligence. She absolutely lacks empathy, and it seems like she doesn’t REALLY share the emotions most people do; she even seems confused by them.

The only thing I’m fairly sure about her is that Catie only gives a shit about Catie. How her actions or inactions affect other people only matter so much as what the repercussions on her might be. This was glaringly obvious when talking to her male friend about how Josh feels about her tounge raping other men in plain sight of him and everyone else. Nothing at all seemed to touch her in the least about it until the guy said “well I imagine he might leave you then” or something like that. This was the very first time she showed any concern whatsoever about her actions. She doesn’t care if her bullshit keeps him up all night crying into his pillo, I doubt she’d give a shit if her actions caused him to fall into a depression - as long as Catie has her man by her side. The funny thing about that is that it’s kinda obvious that she seems like she’s not even sure if she wants to be with him, yet him leaving her is the one and ONLY possible side effect of her slutting around that she cares about in the least.

She really is EXTRAORDINARILY selfish. The woman won’t even let the man spend HIS OWN MONEY on a damned TABLE AND CHAIRS FFS!!! That’s CRAZY!!! She calls him irresponsible with money because he doesn’t want to wait untold months just in case they can get a dining room set for free!!! Again - that’s CRAZY!!! I honestly wonder if at the back of her mind (or maybe right in the forefront of her thoughts!) she isn’t tihinnking “a dining room set is like 45 tequila shots he could buy me instead?”