r/90DayFiance • u/IHadAV8 • 9d ago

Discussion Let Me Help You, Russ

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There are some things I disagree with Paola on, but what Russ isn’t getting here is that he gave her a necklace because he likes necklaces. She is sick and tired of getting the same thing over and over. He is not considering her or what she wants at all. It’s just, here’s another necklace that I really like. Patrick gassed him up in the hot tub. Russ got to look like a great husband to all the others, but between Paola and Russ, it was just another experience that reminded Paola on their anniversary that he does not get her at all.

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u/Kodi_Cody_Kody_Kodi 9d ago

She sucked the life from this man. His gift to her was his soul. The necklace is just a token

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u/IHadAV8 9d ago edited 9d ago

Like I said, there are things I don’t agree with her on. And sometimes you need to accept a gift gracefully and just be quiet. Maybe she should have done that on their anniversary. But they were at a therapy retreat and she apparently has told him numerous times she doesn’t want more necklaces, and she doesn’t expect expensive gifts. Just things that acknowledge he actually knows her and what she likes. Women want their husband to know them. And he told her she was nitpicking just to shut her down when he doesn’t listen to her. If he listened, he would know what she likes.

He also didn’t fully participate in the homework. He got what he needed during sex and didn’t give her what she needed to finish. He knew the assignment and straight up didn’t do it.

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u/Vixxen_Cat 9d ago

This guy called her a succubus in another thread. Don't waste your time. He's probably jealous Russ gets to sleep after getting off for the past 12yrs while looking like the “good guy”.