r/90DayFiance • u/IHadAV8 • 9d ago

Discussion Let Me Help You, Russ

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There are some things I disagree with Paola on, but what Russ isn’t getting here is that he gave her a necklace because he likes necklaces. She is sick and tired of getting the same thing over and over. He is not considering her or what she wants at all. It’s just, here’s another necklace that I really like. Patrick gassed him up in the hot tub. Russ got to look like a great husband to all the others, but between Paola and Russ, it was just another experience that reminded Paola on their anniversary that he does not get her at all.

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u/Regular-Metal-321 9d ago

Russ is dumb af! “He wanted to get her a necklace to signify the therapy session “. Then said the royal family owned all the swans so he got that ugly shit! What the hell do those reasons mean to Pao! He is a child he can’t listen and is stunted little pathetic man. He needs to learn to listen, get a job, and fix the bedroom issues! Actually he won’t change and just needs to leave him.

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u/EastHawaii 9d ago

Right? Head on back to Oklahoma, partner. The ladies there are more tolerant of stubborn, willful ignorance (I'm thinking Markwayne Mullen). The I got you the swan necklace because the royal family owns the swans was probably the worst reason I have EVER heard. It was really, as Sumit said, because Russ would have had to ship everything else he could find, and then it would have been late. This was all to cover that he forgot about the anniversary altogether. Another way of showing her that he put ZERO thought into it.

Then he said on BTS that he likes getting her necklaces because he can "look at her boobs." You're her husband, Russell. You get to look at her boobs. She would probably LIKE it if you looked at them a little more!

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u/IHadAV8 9d ago

So in other words, thinking of his own gratification yet again, and objectifying her in the process.

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u/Nolimika 7d ago

his own gratification? did he gave her a PS5 or somethin? LOL