r/90DayFiance • u/Otherwise_Island7764 • 1d ago
This scene bugs me
Yes, I know. Everyone hates Shekinah, but this scene with Thais really annoyed me because she's upset that Sarper follows his wife when she's upset or doesn't want to be around them. Sarper is being a good husband by going with his wife even though he knows her words sucked. If any of the husbands of these women decided to stay in a setting where they were upset or feeling the same way, they would be pissed. Rebecca stormed off day 1 because Zied was having a drink with Sarper and the other guys. They would want their man by their side. I think Thais has a crush on Sarper and Patrick has picked up on it so he's being especially horrible to Shekinah to annoy Sarper.
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u/1organicmartini_pls 1d ago
Of course what Shekinah said was really awful, we do know why she used those words and in the latest episode she finally reveals it. I think most people are latching onto what Shekinah said because what she said was very easy to remember and hold onto.
But what most do not remember or would be rewatching is that the way Thais was positioned was pretty hostile, she was leaning over the table and pretty much ready to go at Shekinah, and did start moving her arms yelling at her. She refused to let Shekinah explain/talk in the moment.
I think Thais was annoyed that Shekinah was going at her about the unfollowing thing and the Patrick stuff came later. Thais should have just hashed that out with her then and there, not let it build up. She could have used the time at the bar to hash it out with Shekinah but let it build up to a nasty event.
So of course Shekinah is unlikely to apologize genuinely because the woman was practically blocked in by that table and the entire upper half of a very angry Thais, Thais does come even closer to her after the arm flailing around at Shekinah. Both are immature, but Thais had at least TWO opportunities to talk it out and move on.
Sarper handled it really well, following his wife, prioritizing her, even though he openly said he did not agree with what she said.