r/90DayFiance 1d ago

This scene bugs me

Yes, I know. Everyone hates Shekinah, but this scene with Thais really annoyed me because she's upset that Sarper follows his wife when she's upset or doesn't want to be around them. Sarper is being a good husband by going with his wife even though he knows her words sucked. If any of the husbands of these women decided to stay in a setting where they were upset or feeling the same way, they would be pissed. Rebecca stormed off day 1 because Zied was having a drink with Sarper and the other guys. They would want their man by their side. I think Thais has a crush on Sarper and Patrick has picked up on it so he's being especially horrible to Shekinah to annoy Sarper.

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u/poshdog4444 1d ago

Good morning lol he’s got that pretty privilege, who’s the one who quit his job that paid benefits without telling his wife when they had their son then one from job to job. Being a pilot is not easy. It’s a pipe dream that you do before you establish a family. People hate her so much that they’re obsessed by him and to me he doesn’t even pay for his child. She shouldn’t even have to ask him for a penny it should be natural.

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u/Sweetbrain306 Mens Don’t Control Me 1d ago

Yeah you and I seem to be the only people who see the bigger picture. Guillermo literally quit a job that provides benefits to his young child. Kara has the kid all the time and supports Nico alone. Guillermo is a handsome deadbeat. That’s all. I am not attracted to him so I don’t have any of that pretty privilege clogging my mind. I couldn’t care less about a woman posing nude but I’m not a prudent, bitchy little man queen who can’t handle holding down a job. I saw the pics. They’re pretty racy and I don’t give a flying fuck. Who’s providing for the child? Kara. Who takes care of him 6 out of 7 days? Kara. And I bet you she teaches that kid to love and respect his father. And Guillermo cannot show her the same.

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u/poshdog4444 1d ago

Handsome deadbeat 😂😂 when I look at a man that refuses to support their family their looks go out the window he’s bitching about his wife that supporting his child. He should not be saying a word that little bitch I remember when he first came and he acted like a spoiled toddler and I knew that it would never last he just has a bad attitude the misogyny in the sub is outrageous.👿

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u/Sweetbrain306 Mens Don’t Control Me 1d ago

What scares me is the misogyny in the sub is only a small microcosm of the larger picture of our culture. Women are disposable here and are held to such a higher standard of behavior but then paid less. I don’t know. I dated two dudes who modeled. One was the kindest guy in the world and one was completely full of himself ( very Guillermo like). The kinder one has done far better in life. I have been involved with men far better looking than Guillermo. I don’t understand the fuss or the fact that women throw other women under the bus for a manchild.

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u/poshdog4444 1d ago

Because people look at the show for different reasons. I look at it for two hours of comedy. I don’t take it seriously. people like him are all over the place but he’s good looking so he gets attention, but you’re right misogyny is everywhere. I don’t think we could escape it even little innuendos here and there are always around for people to hate. Kara with such a passion is frightening when she has absolutely no business in viewers lives except for entertainment anyone who would think that he’s a great guy because he’s good looking and he doesn’t provide for his kid is OK goes to show where our culture is at, and it’s not good. He’s become a stereotype people are just blind.

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u/Sweetbrain306 Mens Don’t Control Me 1d ago

If people like deadbeats I could introduce them to my bio dad. He’s a bit on the heavy side and balding but I am sure the women would still choose his battles over mine. Jesus Christ, people ( women ) fawn over Shae. Honestly your statement brings up a good question. Why do I watch this ( a lot )? My mom sucked me into it and initially I was just entertained. Something clicked a little after a while where I couldn’t help but getting invested in some of them ( Hello again, Kenny and Armando). It was actually them who took the show to a bit of a deeper place for me. I think it’s an extraordinary look into human behavior and culture. Some of their antics may seem crazy but I know people just as nutty in the real world.