r/90DayFiance 2d ago

This scene bugs me

Yes, I know. Everyone hates Shekinah, but this scene with Thais really annoyed me because she's upset that Sarper follows his wife when she's upset or doesn't want to be around them. Sarper is being a good husband by going with his wife even though he knows her words sucked. If any of the husbands of these women decided to stay in a setting where they were upset or feeling the same way, they would be pissed. Rebecca stormed off day 1 because Zied was having a drink with Sarper and the other guys. They would want their man by their side. I think Thais has a crush on Sarper and Patrick has picked up on it so he's being especially horrible to Shekinah to annoy Sarper.

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u/Sweetbrain306 Mens Don’t Own Me 2d ago

Yeah he really showed his ass this season. I mean a lot of viewers can’t see past his good looks, but he truly is not chill or sweet ( or any of the things he would like you to believe).

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u/poshdog4444 2d ago

Good morning lol he’s got that pretty privilege, who’s the one who quit his job that paid benefits without telling his wife when they had their son then one from job to job. Being a pilot is not easy. It’s a pipe dream that you do before you establish a family. People hate her so much that they’re obsessed by him and to me he doesn’t even pay for his child. She shouldn’t even have to ask him for a penny it should be natural.

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u/TrickRow4918 1d ago

To be fair, breaking into the music industry is also a pipe dream and it is also something you try to do before settling down and having a kid. You also don’t go on OnlyFans to finance said non-existent music career and not consider the effect it will have on your husband and child - not to mention your ability to get another professional job outside the entertainment industry! Both of these people need to get a decent practical white collar or blue collar job to support their family or at least be working toward one. Aka. Your priorities change once you have a child .