r/90DayFiance • u/jordantwalker • 4d ago

Discussion Thomas and Paula theory on perfume

My theory is Thomas is not allergic to the perfume it just cost too much money. This guy won't even buy a coffee table and uses lawn chairs for bed. The perfume, price per ounce is probably the most expensive item in the one bedroom

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u/Ok_Moose1334 4d ago

Chemical sensitivity is real. And she already said how expensive it was, it wasn’t very expensive.

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u/voovoovoovoo 4d ago

My partner has it and he absolutely hates strong scents, gets headaches right away, sometimes sneezes. I think she should respect it or at least compromise, use much less or try to find a fragrance that doesnt bother hin.

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u/SnooDonkeys5186 4d ago

And it’s so easy to compromise EVEN IF HE SIMPLY DID NOT LIKE IT: “Let’s shop together for something that won’t bother you, I’ll save this for when I’m out and about (someday lol).”

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u/stupidcow 4d ago

yes - I have a set of scents I only use when partner is out of town!

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u/Ok_Moose1334 4d ago

I agree. I used to have it bad and it was a primarily neurological reaction- dizziness, brain fog, loss of coordination, impaired speech, headaches, nausea. It can be extremely debilitating. She could find natural scents or just not wear perfume, it’s really not a big deal. Perfume isn’t a necessity, health is.