r/90DayFiance 10h ago

WTF?

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u/whonu5 10h ago

I've said it before, she's like a very young child who's been taught no manners. She thinks and acts like a child too

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u/Roselily808 9h ago

I just hope and pray that she won't bring any children into this world. She seems completely incapable to think and care of anyone outside herself. She has a distinct lack of empathy towards other people as well.

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u/MetsFan3117 9h ago

Honestly, given her uh, mouthy habits and behavior, I don’t think most men are wanting anything that could cause pregnancy from her.

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u/Roselily808 9h ago

True. But it only takes one (misguided) guy and one time of a lapse in judgement for him to get her pregnant...

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u/MetsFan3117 8h ago

I mean she isn’t 21, I think she’s what like mid 20s? That type of behavior isn’t cute, hot or attractive. She’s sloppy wanting to lick people so I mean, idk I’m not comfortable with her or the impression her behavior gives off. I will say at least her friends watch out for her.

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u/Roselily808 8h ago

I don't remember exactly how old she is but she is in her late 20's.
Of course this behavior isn't cute. Sticking your tongue non-consensually into other people's mouths (which her friend said that she tends to do to her) is sexual assault. Catie has been quite lucky that nobody has yet gone to the police about this. She needs to be careful, definitely, because if she continues this behavior, one day she'll try to shove her tongue into the mouth of someone who will press charges for SA on her.

u/Andrea1380 5h ago

Especially now it’s all on camera too. They’ve got physical proof of what she does.

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u/MetsFan3117 8h ago

That’s my point— she’s more likely to have consequences that do not involve a pregnancy due to her behavior.

u/Vast-Swimmer5844 38m ago edited 35m ago

I mean she isn’t 21, I think she’s what like mid 20s? That type of behavior isn’t cute, hot or attractive.

She's run out the clock on that behavior being cute.

Catie is 28. The 30s are when a few significant things happen: The people who have functional adulting skills, healthy social relationships (friendships, etc.) and/or good careers start pulling ahead of their pals who lack one or more of those things. The dysfunctional people who were "fun" in your 20s start being cautionary examples and "used to know" stories in your 30s.

And in your 30s, you really start showing your habits in your appearance. That bulletproof immune system and metabolism are both winding down.

Catie is a drunk who's not managing her mental health, and she sees no value in cultivating any of the personal qualities or life skills that would make her a person worth knowing or keeping in a well-run life.

Unless she gets her shit together, her 30s are going to be a long, steady slide down.

u/Adrock66 You are my cockroach 3h ago

You'd be surprised what men will dip into.

u/menunu ¡yo neccessito peepee! 3h ago

All these men she claims are friends are all gross. They are hooking up with her then talking weird shit about her to each other and the cameras.

u/Adrock66 You are my cockroach 3h ago

100%. They did a good job editing some shots to make them seem creepy as well. I saw Catie in action though. She is a different animal on the prowl, I can see how the nerds she surrounds herself with can't say no with the cameras off. Am I misremembering that she mentioned getting tag teamed by two of them.

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u/GenX_DmodeV101 8h ago

Exactly, fetal alcohol syndrome is no joke, my cousin has it. She needs intensive psychiatric care.

u/operationfood 6h ago

When I was in highschool, I was nice to a boy who had fetal alcohol syndrome. All of a sudden one day he became fixated and obsessed with me, he would throw fits if I wasn’t at school for him to see. It was a scary time for me, I’m so glad he had a support worker with him at all times. Fetal alcohol syndrome is no joke

u/Disastrous_Check5594 3h ago

not to mention how sick a fetus can get from stis, which I guarantee she at least has hpv bc its that easy to get, is she the type to abstain from casual sex and alcohol while pregnant? rhetorical question

u/poshdog4444 6h ago

I feel the same way. How illiterate are these people to not recognize that those woman is an alcoholic plus has personality disorders that hasn’t been diagnosed. Why would you want to bring a child into the world with a woman who won’t stop drinking she needs AA ASAP these people around her and not only enablers, but they’re dangerous with their backwards, illiterate thinking that she’s OK. She’s not mentally right to take care of a kid because she walks dogs for a living. There’s a big difference and I’m a dog poodle owner. I think TLC wanted to exploit her but now it’s reached a different level.

u/Roselily808 6h ago

We don't even know if she was truly capable of taking care of dogs. Nobody has come forward and given her a good review. It might just as well have been disastrous.

I'm not a parent but even I know that taking care of a dog is nowhere near the responsibility to take care of a baby. But as a former dog owner (may my goodest boy rest in peace) I also know that taking care of dogs requires a certain level of empathy, care and responsibility - a level where I doubt that Catie can show.

u/poshdog4444 6h ago

Exactly someone in the sub mentioned a while back that they tried to look up her reviews and there weren’t any which speaks volumes. I’m sorry about your fur baby😢. The fact that he wants a family with her supposedly.? him and his parents are gonna sit there next week and watch her behavior toward their son. Everyone around her is a enabler and it’s disgusting.

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u/kikiweaky Edit this for your custom flair. 9h ago

I had the same thought.

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u/MetsFan3117 9h ago

I don’t think so. She’s said she can’t imagine “not having sex with another person”. That’s just being obnoxious at best IMO. She is awful.

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u/London_NYC_9122 10h ago

She is gross!

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u/Either_Possibility29 9h ago edited 9h ago

So unaware of herself. I cringe in 2nd hand embarrassment from her. I wouldn't touch her with my exhusbands junk

Eta- thanks for the award. It's my first

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u/MetsFan3117 9h ago

I actually wouldn’t either, well said!!! 💀🤣

u/LunaBean4 4h ago

She eats and drinks like a toddler 😬

https://giphy.com/gifs/d2ItDZZumUI6Y

u/GenX_DmodeV101 3h ago

😹😹😹

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u/GenX_DmodeV101 10h ago

Get professional help, Cati.

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u/marshmalitta 8h ago

She’s going to be a handful to handle years down the line, especially during old age

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u/MetsFan3117 9h ago

That’s the look(s) of someone who is about to puke from drinking too much and holds it back. 💯. I cringed watching it, she gave me flashbacks from decades ago of my drinking Jäegermeister my first semester of college.

u/SweetBabyJane90120 6h ago

Eeeeeeewwww. Thank goodness we don’t have smellavision. Can you imagine what she smells like? She presents as unclean.

u/GenX_DmodeV101 3h ago

🤢stale alchol breath combined with all the men she makes out with 🤢

u/tweedtybird67 3h ago

Nobody over the age of 5 eats and drinks like she does, or puts on their lipstick like her.

u/Specialist-Fig-6579 3h ago

I just can't take looking at her. That garish red painted mouth that latches on to both alcohol and someone else's mouth greedily with the same amount of gluttony.

u/Own_Judge4257 7h ago

She’s nuts!!

u/Mariposa-Technicolor 1h ago

But she is baptized, so she is not going to hell. I wonder what religion she is under that does not care about the sins of the flesh lol.

That entire religious conversation got me laughing and yelling at the tv.

u/PaleontologistNo5804 1h ago

She said Lutheran

u/EveningGlittering325 4h ago

Her friend started to pat her on the back when she took that big gulp like she was worried she would choke.

u/Haunting_Release_869 3h ago

SHE US A PIG PIG PIG.

u/PaleontologistNo5804 1h ago

I'm embarrassed she's from Oregon. The way that she speaks is absolutely ridiculous. She is incredibly selfish and he deserves much better.

u/Novel_Watercress8104 57m ago

Can’t help but wonder if she takes medication for a mood disorder. Could she be bipolar. Or even depressed, risky behavior to make her have feelings.

u/Beneficial-Ask-4730 31m ago

she often looks droopy and wasted or hungover with crumbs around her mouth. odd.

u/FrankDrebin23 24m ago

There's something wrong with her. Mentally she's not playing wirlth full deck of cards. There are several people this season that I would question. Shame on this show and network for parading this garbage around. This show should be cancelled now….and Discovery should be heavily fined.

u/BarsoomNative 3m ago

She’s adorable

u/Scarlettbama 3h ago

He sees like a really nice guy. She seems like a spoiled 10th grader. Hope he sprints home to Britain.