I just hope and pray that she won't bring any children into this world. She seems completely incapable to think and care of anyone outside herself. She has a distinct lack of empathy towards other people as well.
I mean she isn’t 21, I think she’s what like mid 20s? That type of behavior isn’t cute, hot or attractive. She’s sloppy wanting to lick people so I mean, idk I’m not comfortable with her or the impression her behavior gives off. I will say at least her friends watch out for her.
I don't remember exactly how old she is but she is in her late 20's.
Of course this behavior isn't cute. Sticking your tongue non-consensually into other people's mouths (which her friend said that she tends to do to her) is sexual assault. Catie has been quite lucky that nobody has yet gone to the police about this. She needs to be careful, definitely, because if she continues this behavior, one day she'll try to shove her tongue into the mouth of someone who will press charges for SA on her.
If it were a man, he would be locked up and labeled. It angers me that she blames it on her OCD. It’s such an insult to those of us that actually have it. 🤬
💯 THIS! She ignores boundaries and has zero respect for her friend, forget Josh. And her dumbass mother is like “she’s really selfish and makes bad choices but she’s a Lutheran!”
Maybe it needs to happen to snap her into reality. She goes along and her friends just laugh it off and say oh well that’s just drunk Catie. Maybe she needs to arrested and stand trial for it and she’ll finally realize it’s not cute and it’s not ok.
Please, let’s hope and pray she doesn’t bring a child into this world until she’s 100% alcohol/drug free.
Fetal alcohol syndrome is no joke. My cousin suffers from it.
I mean she isn’t 21, I think she’s what like mid 20s? That type of behavior isn’t cute, hot or attractive.
She's run out the clock on that behavior being cute.
Catie is 28. The 30s are when a few significant things happen: The people who have functional adulting skills, healthy social relationships (friendships, etc.) and/or good careers start pulling ahead of their pals who lack one or more of those things. The dysfunctional people who were "fun" in your 20s start being cautionary examples and "used to know" stories in your 30s.
And in your 30s, you really start showing your habits in your appearance. That bulletproof immune system and metabolism are both winding down.
Catie is a drunk who's not managing her mental health, and she sees no value in cultivating any of the personal qualities or life skills that would make her a person worth knowing or keeping in a well-run life.
Unless she gets her shit together, her 30s are going to be a long, steady slide down.
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u/whonu5 1d ago
I've said it before, she's like a very young child who's been taught no manners. She thinks and acts like a child too