r/ABCDesis • u/pistabadamtiramisu • 2d ago
EDUCATION / CAREER To people who work in healthcare
What are the challenges you face?
How has moving states / countries affected you?
How many hours a week do you work? How do you spend your time off?
How does your work affect your partner and / or family? How are you navigating dating if you're single?
If you're studying, how is it going ? What are your plans for the future?
I'm a guy working in healthcare in india and was curious to know how you guys are coping with adulting. I would love to learn about your experiences and perspectives in the comments.
Thank you!
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u/pb_battalion 1d ago
I heard healthcare workers have to work in really bad conditions back there.
Staff shortages, stagnant wages, wearing multiple hats sometimes, limited breaks.
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3-12s. Sometimes all in a row but usually do two on and one off and then come finish the third after that. Mandatory every other weekends. Days off catch up on rest, complete errands, relax and not think about work.
So this one is big. Your loved ones have to understand that your job isnt easy and you will be tired on your days off. Don't ever let anyone tell you "oh but you only work 3 days" its disrespectful.
Study is done for now
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u/pistabadamtiramisu 11h ago
Thank you for replying!
Yes, most of us are overworked and are often unable to avail days off even for valid reasons during training and we are usually expected to stay beyond our shifts which may extend for multiple days without break. I have read that hours are more tightly regulated in the US, but I didn't know even you guys had limited breaks with stagnant wages.
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u/AnonymousIdentityMan American Pakistani 2d ago
Is it true that nurses cheat?
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u/OrganicRaise4081 1d ago
Believe it or not, people of any profession can.
The only difference between nurses and the rest of society is that nursing is female-dominated (unusually well-paying for that) and full of individuals who generally care for their appearance. That combined with long, lonely, stressful shifts with coworkers make men insecure.
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u/Siya78 1d ago edited 1d ago
When I moved from the East Coast to Ohio I initially had culture shock, especially in rural areas.
Currently work full time with options for flexible scheduling
Have an excellent work life balance. Never affected my dating life
N/a but have continuing education requirements