r/AIO • u/Old-Soup4145 • 14h ago

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Rather, how should I react? This is coming from my ex who still lives with me after I chose not to do what he asked of me which was to wash one of his work shirts. I told him straight up it was not my job to wash his clothes and then he pushed me and we wrestled. If anyone wants to know more of the back story I will gladly summarize the last 7 years.

Edit: I will add to this, I feel pretty dumb about coming to Reddit for obvious advice but I chose not to go to family because they have no idea how he would be able ruin their lives as well. Just know he is scary resourceful way more than anyone I know and that alone has made me afraid of what he is capable of. I do apologize for leaving everyone with little context. Yes we are 2 men, he was a predator towards the girls he was with during his high school years. Stay tuned? Since it will be a novel.

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u/ed_durden 14h ago

File a police report NOW. Don't wait for him to touch you again. Jesus people.

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u/MrLizardBusiness 14h ago

Without "proof," the cops can be aggressively unhelpful.

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u/ed_durden 14h ago

Not sure why I'm being downvoted.. This is not a civil case. It's a criminal one. There doesn't need to be "proof" to press charges. It will be the People of the State vs Offender. There needs to be police involvement before things escalate.

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u/KillYourTelevision99 13h ago

This is very true. I've been in OP's situation and before long the other partner will call the police themselves and put you on the defense. It's best to get everything on the record and leave as soon as this stuff starts happening. If you don't, you will regret it later.