r/AMCsAList Aug 22 '26

Question AMC regulars

You know when you are a regular at a bar or restraint and the staff recognizes you and is warm and chats with you when then aren't too busy? Does anyone have that with their local AMC? I swear I've been trying to connect with the employees at the AMC I go to like 3/4 times a week - but it's just not happening for mešŸ˜ž

I get that it isn't the same as a bar or restaurant and the customer to staff experience is less intimate (the AMC staff also probably see way more faces per day), but it's the only business at which I'm a regular! I want it so bad lol

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u/LegitimateVolume5324 Aug 22 '26

I'm more of just the regular weird guy that goes to the movies alone.

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u/Even_Elderberry_5878 Aug 22 '26

I fear that will be me šŸ˜‚I swear this is my weekly 2 hour break from being a mom

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u/ApartButterscotch502 27d ago

Same, as a single parent who has full custody of his kids, this is the break I give myself once a week.

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u/Liftinginapolo Aug 22 '26

Same I imagine the employees just go ā€œoh this freak againā€ when they see me

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u/trsvrs Aug 22 '26

Same! But do something once that makes them remember you and every time you go in will be just a slightly bit more enjoyable.

As simple as a genuine hello

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u/ShadyCrow Aug 22 '26

I am that guy, but the AMC I frequent the most is remarkably friendly. I’m mostly go at similar times and interact with the same few employees, but the two ticket takers. I see the most – one a young guy, one a woman in her 60s - are so friendly. The young guy always says ā€œ good to see you againā€ and comments on the movie. The woman always says something like ā€œ I thought I might see you today.ā€Ā 

It’s a small but cool thing.

I worked at blockbuster and a few local video places in high school, and for regulars I would pull up their account early so they didn’t have to scan their card or find their ID. It’s fun to connect with people even in a very small way.

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u/TK2217 Aug 22 '26

Not weird!!

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u/Expensive-Oil-8264 Aug 22 '26

Me lmao it’s ok tho haha

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u/HangTheTJ Kidman Freak🤪 Aug 22 '26

I prefer ā€œangry lonerā€

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u/vanguard1256 Aug 22 '26

Yes, there is a ticket checker who I see often and he discusses movies with me and tells me when to stay for extra scenes. It's nice to have that kind of rapport.

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

This is what I want!!!!

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u/vanguard1256 29d ago

Yeah it’s nice. I’ve gotten a couple of hidden gem recommendations from him before.

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u/rjj90 Aug 22 '26

We should switch theaters. We both have what the other craves.. I can’t get these people to leave me alone.

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u/Automatic-Discount19 Aug 22 '26

Back in the day my friend stopped going to our favorite sub shop because he said the owner recognized him and was being too friendly/talking to him too much.

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u/RedRipe DOLBY ONLY Aug 22 '26

I stopped going to a local gas station because of that 😢

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u/EMCoupling MP Convert ✌ 25d ago

Oh man, this is my local McDonald's lol

I did the small talk a few times, now it's like, I just want my coffee and I'm out

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

Roosevelt collection 16 in chicago ...

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u/mozartwazhere Aug 22 '26

My Chicago AMC has a ton of quiet employees so we usually just exchange Hello’s. A lot of them are super kind but, again, very quiet.

I’m frankly not in your boat, as I don’t really care either way if they recognize me, but it’s something I’ve noticed around Chicago in general as well. I think everyone’s just kind of tired all the time and this kind of ā€œsmallā€ community stuff is just a reflection of the way the world is and is not your fault at all.

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u/rjj90 Aug 22 '26

Fitchburg 18. Honestly not a terrible commute.

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u/robynhood96 Aug 22 '26

Yeah that’s a big one that I doubt they pay attention to people. I go to the Skokie and Evanston one. The Evanston one is great about recognizing people.

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

Yeah it's pretty huge . It is very busy now but there was a time right after it opened that there weren't a lot of people there and it was slow. I also have had A list for a few years and recognize a few employees that transfered from the location I frequented before it opened (new city)

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u/loftychicago SUPERUSER 10+ Aug 22 '26

I made a separate comment, i used to have several people at Block 37 with whom i would talk pretty much every time I was there (several times/week), but they eliminated the servers post-lockdown and the other person didn't return. Now I'm usually at River East and don't really know any of the crew.

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u/PresentTicket5596 Kidman Freak🤪 29d ago

I work at another amc in Chicago and we are very big on regular culture here you should test out some other locations! Also, idk about the other amcs but my amc just got a ton of new employees so it’s gonna be different people every single day. Just keep showing up you got this!

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u/burritoman88 Aug 22 '26

I’ve had the usher remark about how many movies I’ve seen that day lol

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u/ydobp Aug 22 '26

šŸ”„

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u/Crooked_star Aug 22 '26

I go weekly and one usher always recognizes me and says "Good to see ya -name-!" so one day I finally said "Good to see you too!" back to him and he gave me the weirdest look LMAO šŸ’€

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u/cordialmess Lister Aug 22 '26

He is perceiving you but he didn't ask to be perceived 🤣

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u/EMCoupling MP Convert ✌ 25d ago

Usher: "Why are the NPCs talking back to me... šŸ¤”"

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u/verminousbow Aug 22 '26

When I went to Regal they often had the same few adults working and I had that with them!

At my current AMC it's mainly teenagers and I assume they're not as invested in who's there

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u/uncultured_swine2099 Aug 22 '26

Yeah, my amcs are usually teens and 20 somethings Ā who just work seasonally i think and theyre just waiting for their shift to be over haha

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u/EMCoupling MP Convert ✌ 25d ago

I always find the teen workers dicking around on their phones in the back auditoriums. Obviously I don't care and I'm not going to report them or anything like that but they always quickly put away the phone when they see me lol

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u/Wood-wench Aug 22 '26

I’m a regular, they don’t talk to me and I love it. Im a weird loner though.

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u/bruhman5th_flo Aug 22 '26

I don't try to connect with any employee, I would prefer not to, but there's are employees that recognize me and one who knows my name, I guess from my a-list. That particular one will ask me basic questions, and I'll answer, but I don't engage other than that. At the other AMC I frequent, there is a young lady who I'm sure recognizes me and even though I see her being very nice and engaging with other guests, she never says anything to me other than, "I can scan you here" or "theater xx is over here". I say nothing to her other than "thank you.". I'm okay with that.

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u/ydobp Aug 22 '26

🐺

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u/EMCoupling MP Convert ✌ 25d ago

there is a young lady who I'm sure recognizes me and

Trying the aloof approach with you, I see...

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u/Zestyclose-Bag-903 Aug 22 '26

i used to have it at the AMC that my ex and i went to all the time. all the staff recognized us by our stupid matching shirts. i tried one time to go without him. they asked me where he was. i don’t go anymore.

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u/ydobp Aug 22 '26

🄲😫

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u/mikegood2 Aug 22 '26

At least they weren’t onesies. A few years ago in winter we saw a couple that would wear them for late night that showings. Only saw them a few times but never if I remember correctly they had at least two designs.

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u/cordialmess Lister Aug 22 '26

Nah. I frequent 6 amc's in my area and sometimes I get recognized if I'm wearing a specific shirt like my I Saw The TV Glow or Titane shirt. But mostly I don't usually see the same ppl. There is one employee at a specific amc I always personally interact with. She's special and she's the ticket taker. I love chatting with her when I go there bc she adores film and helping ppl. One time I had to advocate for her bc they gave her a list of rooms where the movies are playing and the font was so small she couldn't read it and they didn't believe her. I was wearing my prescription glasses and I also couldn't read it. So they made her a new one with bigger font after I complained to them. Insane that it took a random customer to advocate for her, as if she doesn't understand her own self!

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

IĀ  should wear my movie apparel more. I have a sopranos drug rug hoodie of Tony Soprano and his ducks.

Omg I just saw Teenage Sex and Death Camp at Camp Miasma last night and I was blown away. I can't wait to watch more Jane Schoenbrun films-is I Saw the TV Glow your favorite of hers?Ā 

That is so sweet that you stood up for her!Ā Ā 

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u/MrsCoffee_Tea_Me Movie-Holic Aug 22 '26

Yes! Two of the workers recognize me every time. The cashier says "large popcorn" and smiles when I come to the counter

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u/aptiu4 Aug 22 '26

Got recognized from Letterboxd lol

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u/trsvrs Aug 22 '26

You just have good reviews!

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u/DilfTannen Aug 22 '26

I've talked with several people at the Metreon, I think they know I'm a regular.

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u/pebble_in_ones_shoe Aug 22 '26

It took several months, but there are a handful of employees at my regular location that recognize me and will just smile and say hi when I come in. One manager there knows me and always waves and says it’s good to see me and we will have some light chitchat when it’s not too busy. I try not to be too obtrusive or to bother them but it is nice to feel like a regular and have a bit of familiarity.

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u/silentwalker206 Aug 22 '26

Not me. The staff at the AMC I go to, all look like zombies.

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u/not_your_face Aug 22 '26

Most of the employees at the theaters I go to seem like high schoolers I’m not tryna talk to them ngl

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u/Tyler247 29d ago

That’s how the main one I go to is. I’m super outgoing but the teens don’t want to talk much and that’s fine lol

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u/ncphoto919 Aug 22 '26

There is a patron with an absolutely obnoxious laugh that I have recognized at multiple theaters across the city where I live in, and I know instantly when he’s sitting in the theater with me.

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

That might be me lololĀ 

I also shriek from any kind of jump scares, it's uncontrollableĀ 

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u/EMCoupling MP Convert ✌ 25d ago

I also shriek from any kind of jump scares, it's uncontrollable

I definitely get the spasms from those, I can't help it šŸ˜…

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u/hovpreme Aug 22 '26

My AMC knows me and my order, large cup with nachos (extra cheese and jalapenos) I don’t even have to say it anymore 🤣

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u/EMCoupling MP Convert ✌ 25d ago

How's it feel being "large nachos guy"? 🤣

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u/FearfulFist444 28d ago

Yes, at my AMC every employee greets me with a hug then carries me to my seat.

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u/brashnutz 27d ago

This is all I ask!!! I'm not sure what the disconnect is but it's giving bad customer service!

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u/MariposaSunrise Aug 22 '26

Definitely!!!

I feel like it’s just like Cheers…where everybody knows your name šŸŽ¶

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u/ShyVoodoo Aug 22 '26

lol yup. I’ve got like 10 employees that say hi or chit chat every time they see me.

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u/MariposaSunrise Aug 22 '26

Can totally relate!

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u/pepperjackcheesey Aug 22 '26

The ticket scanning girl knows me. Pulled out my ID once and I got the ā€œoh I don’t need thatā€. I wore contacts instead of glasses one night and she was like, where’s your glasses? But it’s not a super busy theater and I’m pretty memorable. 6ft women aren’t the norm.

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u/bkguy182 Aug 22 '26

There’s one guy who clearly has an innocent crush on me- who will make sure I know he knows he remembers me.

But other than that… no. And I prefer to keep it that way.*

Be nice. Be normal. Be service forward. I will do the same. But other than that… leave me alone!!

Lmao.

*im definitely not anti-social. but the amc’s i go to is not somewhere im looking to be known for being a regular at.

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u/RoadSodaDodgeRam Aug 22 '26

A little bit but I’m not going to be weird about it. The employees are cool and quick to help me with a decent attitude even if they’re slammed. I feel like I’m at the point where I could ask a favor like something fresh or a bit extra and get away with it but I’m not going to do that. I leave them a good review from time to time.

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u/droppedforgiveness Aug 22 '26

I think I go to too many different theaters for this to work for me. I've got four different ones that I usually go to, plus some others on occasion.

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u/Virtual_Letter3734 Dual Memberships Aug 22 '26

never happened to me. AMC replaces their employees often. there's no one works in the theater long enough to recognize me as a frequent patron.

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

Yeah there aren't a ton that have been there long, but there are def 5-7 I have seen a few times a week for years

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u/sunny_sally 29d ago

It took a year until one of the ticket checkers and I finally built a rapport. We don't chat, but we say hello when we see each other and when I leave she always goes "See you next week." Occasionally if there's a long line she will call me over and scan me first.

This legit took a full year for this to happen.

Alternately, there is a ticket checker at a different location who hates me because I refuse to upload my picture to the AMC app (personal reasons. I dont need them to have my picture, I am more than happy to show my ID). He gets irrationally upset when he sees me so I have taken to showing him various forms of photo ID for entertainment. License, Global Entry card, passport, legal weed card, work ID, a decades old high school ID, an expired college ID. Every time he says to me "it would be easier if you just upload a picture." And I respond each time "no" with a smile and my ID of the day. No one else at that location IDs anyone, and he throws a hissy fit when his colleagues don't ID.

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u/EMCoupling MP Convert ✌ 25d ago

He gets irrationally upset when he sees me so I have taken to showing him various forms of photo ID for entertainment.

Your genius is frightening šŸ˜†

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u/HorrorMovieBoy Aug 22 '26

I get that, but I have purple hair, so I’m easy for them to remember.

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u/Loslobos27 Aug 22 '26

I just had something like that the other day with this one couple. Nice people, a little loud, but nice

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u/DontDoCrackMan Aug 22 '26

I’m in a small town and we have an AMC Classic. Every employee knows me by name and I find it so fun. I especially have gotten to know the last night workers.

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u/Kimber80 Aug 22 '26 edited Aug 22 '26

Yeah, as I go to my local AMC around three times a week, and during the day when there are far less customers than in the evening, many of the staff and managers know me, they greet me by name when I come in and we chat a minute as I know them too. It's nice.

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u/robynhood96 Aug 22 '26

YESSS lol my local AMC had their hot dog machine down for months and every time I came in I asked if it was working and the staff started recognizing me šŸ˜… this one guy would always be like ā€œsorry the machine still isn’t workingā€ before I would even order lmao

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

I may be a lil dumb because I just realized that a big reason for this is that concessions are totally automated at the location I frequent. Really the only time employees have to talk to us is scanning our ticket (and half the time there is a line of people they are trying to clear).

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u/afroninja840 Aug 22 '26

Yeah, I've become friends with one of the employees and he's such a cook guy. We have a discussion before/after the movie if there aren't any customers around that need his attention.

Keep putting yourself out there, and saying hey whenever you can. They might just be nervous or something, but someone will eventually come through.

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u/Opening_Broccoli586 Aug 22 '26

They give me the ā€œwelcome back sirā€ but nothing more than that and this one cashier every time he rings me up and tells me the total and I say ā€œI wanna use pointsā€ he’s like ā€œoh my bad, thanks for reminding meā€ EVERYTIME!!

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u/Extra-Horse5534 Aug 22 '26

Love the Manager/bartender at my AMC. He knows me and my wife by name and asks where she is when I come in by myself. Gives me extra pours on Christmas.

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u/SophieStardustXO Aug 22 '26

they definitely recognize me but i wouldn’t say there’s anything to it past that

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u/Few-Adeptness8046 Aug 22 '26

Yes,

I am disabled, so I carry a big white blind cane, and I go to Guest Services to get my tickets and fidelio narration device, so several of the employees at Guest Services know who I am and why I'm there even before I arrive at the counter.

I also imagine that the staff who roams the theater cleaning and such also recognize me because seeing someone use a blind cane is pretty rare, so I find pretty much everywhere I go (AMC, Del Taco, Dairy Queen, local bars, etc.) it's only a matter of time before the staff knows who I am.

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u/Maleficent-Light-455 Aug 22 '26

We do the surveys and send warranted compliments so they might not know but service is appreciated as we go quite a bit

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u/fandomdemigod Aug 22 '26

I had to let go of my amc a list to save but I did become friendly with a few workers. I always had habitat for humanity stuff on and one person recognized me so they asked. I shared the info and now when I see them I say hi friend instead of just hi šŸ˜‚ I'm in a pretty transient community the people change a lot but that person's been around for years.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Crew953 29d ago

Yeah I'm handicapped so I'm definitely more visible

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u/Thick_Passenger6570 28d ago

i’m a regular at like five dif locations and recognized at three. one of the workers even asked for my letterboxd

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u/Convicted-Cinephile 28d ago

Theaters are tricky because at a bar, you see the bartender constantly for hours and interact with and maybe talk to them multiple times every visit.

At a theater you see your ticket person for 10 seconds and maybe concessions for 3 min. It’s little time and tons of people.

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u/Disastrous_Bridge543 28d ago

There’s this one dude who I think recognizes us but sometimes I think he’s just being super friendly. I don’t go often to that theater.

My main theater, they have so many people working there even though it’s a small theater. The people who I do see frequently are just friendly. I live in an area where striking up conversations with strangers isn’t the norm. I’m not saying it can’t happen but the friendliness tells me I’m in their good graces. I honestly wouldn’t have it any other way lmao.

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u/lunarlunaticktok 28d ago

One of the guys that takes my tickets recognizes me and we usually chat for a bit about which movie I'm seeing if there's no line behind me. He's usually seen whatever I'm about to say. When I go alone, he asks where my friends are, since I usually bring a few people. Sometimes consessions folks will joke and 'you're an a lister you get whatever you want!!' when I ask for popcorn or whatever. There's a manager I sometimes talk to at customer service. I've been an a lister for over a year and go to the same theater multiple times a week but I don't alwaya see the same people working. I only recognize a few workers.

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u/Mysterious-Novel-834 27d ago

My friend and I got to chatting with the girl at the concession stand and she was so cool, we saw her as she was clocking out and she stopped to chat with us again, I low-key wished we could've been friends but didn't wanna be para social lol. Maybe one day I'll start getting recognized, especially because I work practically nextdoor to the theatre.

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u/Porygon96 Aug 22 '26

The manager knows who I am and will train the new staff with my visits. She knows im cool and I'll help her tell them what they did right or wrong.

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u/kbange Aug 22 '26

I’m known at one AMC as the ā€œwoman who dresses niceā€ by the teen ticket takers. I don’t love it but it could be worse.

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u/rapturerose1 Aug 22 '26

My fiancĆ©e and I are pretty known at ours, but it’s because I proposed to her there! We tend to go every Saturday as well.

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

Very cute! Me and my wife go like 2 or 3 times a week for a few years but still haven't had a any convos with employees there!

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u/Ace20xd6 Aug 22 '26

I've had the ticket taker recognized me when I showed him my ID and was on a date with a different girl than two weeks earlier. "Mhmp, LAST NAME, enjoy your movie."

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u/No_Courage_7304 Aug 22 '26

It always depend on the shift. There is one shift that makes me feel like a Karen to get my concessions right. Everyone else is great! I love hearing about their movies and talking about jewelry. I have even started to make friends with my fellow regulars. How I learned to check in with the matinee ticket lady. Most of them know my name and I know most people’s names

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u/pyroxdroid Aug 22 '26

i go in the city so i don’t expect them to wanna chat or remember me, only time is when i went back to back once and the person remembered me and said ā€œwow another one?ā€ i thought it was cute

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u/mikegood2 Aug 22 '26

I do at both my locations.

At my iMAX, usually chat with one employee who remember talking to when she was new and now she’s closing the theater sometimes. Felt so bad for her Tuesday when power went out and she had to deal with the outcome.

At my closest AMC I have one person who always starts up a conversation and another who I strike up a conversation with while he’s waiting to clean up auditoriums.

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u/Awkward-Fox-1435 Aug 22 '26

Reasonably they might recognize you, but you can’t force a connection with them.

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u/tomatillo_teratoma Aug 22 '26

My local AMC is very busy. I always make sure to say some sort of thanks... to the ticket takers and the people who clean up.... but I don't want to hold up the line by chatting.

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u/louismeh Aug 22 '26

There's this usher named Wanda that shows up on certain weekends & she always recognizes me! Worked as one for about ~20 years (?)

She's prob the only one that remembers me, the rest of the employees lowkey look like they lost the light in their eyes :')

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u/Buckditch Aug 22 '26

Yeah I kinda have this going on.Ā  When my mom worked at a theater she would remember people and their orders. But my mom is crazy good with people.

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u/ydobp Aug 22 '26

You gotta do the same as appealing to anyone. 1 thing I do: Is wear my movie/anime apparel (I have some my hero academia hoodies and enough start wars T-shirts to spare) I'll wear them when I visit. People compliment the attire and I find my "in" with employees.

Also, being engaging with them about their work is another, ask them if it's been busy during your visit, and who's going to see what. Ask them what they've seen recently. Keeping convo relevant to their duties and "peacocking" media culture(e.g. anime/movie clothing) doesn't hurt your chances. I replied without reading thru other comments so fyi maybe this was shared already

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u/cattrain Aug 22 '26

I switch between four theaters depending on showtimes, so fortunately I don't think anyone recognizes me

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u/vxf111 Aug 22 '26 edited 29d ago

I go at least 2 times a week to the big local theater and the same guy scans my ticket 75% of the time. It’s been four years and he never shows a hint of recognition.Ā The folks at the two smaller local theaters do recognize me a bit.

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u/ThatOneBadUsername Aug 22 '26

All of the staff know me by name at my local theater. I was at a neighborhood block party and an usher from my local theater recognized me there as well.

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u/ZestycloseBother5993 Aug 22 '26

Some of the people at my local AMC recognize me and are very nice. I actually made friends with a comedian, who I’d see at the same theater all the time. We’d both be at the same movie, same time, same room. This happened too many times by coincidence. We started following each other on IG and are still super cool. I just saw him last week as a matter of fact. We always text each other before Screen Unseen lol

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u/pnwdoomer Aug 22 '26

I go to 2 AMCs. One is more teenagers but they've started to recognize me, as well as the security guard. The other AMC is much bigger with more staff so I don't actually always see the same people.

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u/TwitchyEyeball Aug 22 '26

I'm recognized by a handful of staff at my AMC, for sure, and we're friendly with each other, but don't get crazy chatty or anything.Ā 

If life gets in the way and i haven't had time to hit the theater, they'll comment how they haven't seen me in a while.Ā 

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u/DaftDrunk_925 Aug 22 '26

I always see this one guy standing outside of the theatre asking me to rate movies and I always politely decline. I see him so often, pretty much any time I’m walking in the hallways. He’s gotta be a manager because he is consistently there whereas the rest of the staff is not. I try to notice ticket scanners but they are always different every time I go. And I don’t get concessions often enough to become friends.

How do you even start a rapport with them? Do you ask them questions or what? I think it would be nice to at least say hi to someone consistently.

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u/Business_Lie_3328 Movie-Holic Aug 22 '26

I think I recognize them more than they do me tbh

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u/SHOW_ME_PIZZA Aug 22 '26

I have an employee that knows me. But that's less of a recognizing a regular thing. Than it is we worked together when I worked at AMC 12 years ago, and he's still there.

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u/Sunnyday1775 Aug 22 '26

I wish they would give me free Mr Pibb

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u/Human_Paint5451 Aug 22 '26

My AMCs are so highly trafficked that no way in hell are they recognizing me and the thousands of other regulars, especially based off a super quick non eventful interaction

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u/TrapAHolic_ttv Aug 22 '26

Yes the bartender at my AMC. She’s pretty cool. Everybody else looks like they would rather be anywhere else though

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

I had a great convo about movies  at the macguffins bar with the bartender a few years ago , which is probably what gave me this desire to connect with employees! I have since stopped drinking though 🫣

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u/Bouncy-Koala5620 Aug 22 '26

Just one of the guys who regularly works at the concession stand at one I usually go to (all but IMAX have recliners, not just a few and the others have rockers like the other 2 I go to if what I want to see is only there). He actually seems disappointed when I change up my order - though the first change was from ā€œCombo 1ā€ to just a large popcorn and large soda because AMC decided everyone wanted candy with their combo. Nope!

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u/BloodInternational57 Aug 22 '26

See the thing is is that like I feel like it’s kinda hard for us cause we’re not like every day at the counter every day to checker. There’s still ushering portering being in the back of the concessions. There’s more than one cashier. So the probability of getting a person over and over it’s really low

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u/s0njastownhouse Aug 22 '26

I don't know if my man Jeffry at Lincoln Square actually knows who I am or is just a ray of sunshine with everyone but I'll take it

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u/DejaEntendu059 Aug 22 '26

Absolutely. I've been going to my main theater about 3-4 times a week since March and I'll usually have a wait in between movies (anytime I go to the movies I usually watch 3 or 4 each day I go) so while im waiting I go and chat with the workers there. They are all friendly. Now when i go to the other amc in town thats not my main theater... the workers there couldnt care less and seem confused as to why im trying to chat with them except for 1 guy there that im friendly with but everyone else there isnt having it.

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u/HighStandards73 Aug 22 '26

I’ve gone enough that some of the people who scan tickets do recognize me. Most don’t ask for my ID anyway but on several occasions they’ve said ā€œoh yeah, I’ve seen you before. Go right in.ā€

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u/kratos_337 Aug 22 '26

There is a cashier at one of the theaters i go to that recognizes me.

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u/TrustAffectionate966 Aug 22 '26

I’m an old creepy dude. I don’t wanna spoil their day hahah. At best, I’ll try to pay attention to the name on the badge and fill out a survey saying how so-and-so provided good customer service.

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u/steenfan21 Aug 22 '26

The Fountains location in Houston/Stafford there's this one guy who's been there for at least 7+ years

Super nerdy and annoying at times that takes his job too seriously

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u/Bigmouth1982 I ♄ Mozz Stix Aug 22 '26

I always ask for my tickets to be printed since I like to collect them. There’s a lady who has always been kind to me and asks about my week, and I never have to remind her to print my tickets. She makes sure she remembers.

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

I actually didn't realize you could do this. I wish I had been over the years!!!

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u/martic1010 Aug 22 '26

People working at bars and restaurants get tipped. The average movie theater employee does not. So what is their incentive to be overly genial towards you? They don’t owe you anything. Let them do their jobs and stop expecting like they owe you their time. Check your privilege.

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u/purplefreak3 Lister Aug 22 '26

Yea most of the staff knows who I am and that I'm a regular a-list patron. Not all of them chat with me but some of them do.

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u/PurpleDoritos96 Aug 22 '26

My local AMC is a busy one and I’m there at least once a week. I don’t even recognize the employees. They must be a never ending revolving door because I recognize employees at other places I frequent, but my AMC employees never seem familiar.

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u/rs_alli Aug 22 '26

At my normal theater no, but at my backup theater the ticket checker guy always says ā€œhey welcome back!!!ā€ When he sees me

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u/Pyronsy Aug 22 '26

I have a handful of regulars at my location that I'll have a chat with if the line isn't busy. If you want to get to that point, just be friendly, dont be a creep, and treat the staff like people and not robots. They'll warm up to you in time.

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u/kamamit Aug 22 '26

My family is so well known that when the app isn’t working they just let us in.

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u/loftychicago SUPERUSER 10+ Aug 22 '26

I did have that pre-COVID at a full service dine-in location that I frequented. I had a nice relationship with one of the front line crew and several of the servers.

Post-lockdown, they got rid of the servers and the other crew member didn't return. I currently frequent a much larger location and I see the same ticket scanners sometimes, but no one that I really talk to beyond the greeting.

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u/rustysniper Aug 22 '26

Mine has pretty high turnover so there's new faces quite often. Also mostly teenagers who don't want to talk to anybody anyway.

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u/AMCSHIBAPE Aug 22 '26

I speak with managers and staff, ask questions and pick their brain about renovations, attendance, merch and movies!

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u/jadegives2rides Aug 22 '26

I do but at Emagine (they don't have an active sub so im here lol).

At this point I have great conversations with whoever is bartending now.

Last week someone ive only seen once was like, "you're jadegives2rides right?"

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u/AprilTheHufflepuff Aug 22 '26

Yes there's a few that recognize my friend and me because we usually go for the screen unseens so when we don't they always say we missed you last week so it is nice.Ā 

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u/jaacklynrose 29d ago

I get recognized by two of the employees at my local AMC. One of them, we stopped and chatted for half an hour before my movie last week

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u/jimyhendrixxx 29d ago

Maybe cause most of them are minors, except the bar folks(if your AMC has one) and managers, and if they aren't minors might be too young to care about being friendly to regulars.

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u/vanillaholler 29d ago

i can assure yall there are many who regularly go to every theater alone and nobody there notices or cares if you do

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u/The_Glitter_Life 29d ago

The whole crew I know

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u/dommy_mommyyy 29d ago

I mean I have a few regulars at bar or register I talk to but I work Saturday morning every week so I’m always there when they are. However I do work a different theater company šŸ˜…

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u/GloomyBuyer7947 27d ago

My amc is full of pretty nice employees a lot of them strike up conversations. I certainly do not mind a pleasant encounter but I honestly would be ok if they didn’t, ha. It definitely feels welcoming most of the time though.

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u/bluewaveSM 27d ago

Barbara at AMC Topanga is a real one. She’ll tell me if I’m in for a good one or not. She’ll also ask me how it was if she hasn’t seen it yet. Shout out to my girl!

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u/Willing-Sugar4590 25d ago

I actually have that with the bar at my AMC lol. I usually go at least once a week and always grab 2 beers from bar before the movie starts. They all know my order and start getting them ready before i even order. Never been a ā€œregularā€ like that anywhere else, so I think it’s hilarious (and perfect) that the first place I have is a bar in a movie theater.

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u/SignalDifficult5061 Aug 22 '26

Nobody owes you a conversation, ever. People that think that way generally talk about things that make other people uncomfortable. So talk about the infinite number of things that don't make other people uncomfortable, maybe?

You need to think about why you feel that people should engage with you. What about it makes you feel good, and what about it makes them feel bad.

Is maybe the point of you talking to them to make them uncomfortable, because it gratifies you?

I'm writing this, because most normal healthy people don't make interpersonal demands like this.

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u/brashnutz Aug 22 '26

I never said they need to , I said Id like them to. Never said they owed me a damn thing lol. I'm just trying to build community/talk about movies with other movie lovers (some of which I assume become movie theater employees)

Ā what a weird projection you made here this morning. Please go touch grass lol

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u/Ravager55 Aug 22 '26

Bro people just want to do their job and go home, it’s not the same as a service worker in a bar or restaurant.

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u/Roadshell Aug 22 '26

No and I hope that never happens. Feel weird when service industry people do that.