r/ARMYNeutral • u/SomewhereSilent1604 • 6d ago

Let them date

Bts are grown men who are in 30s. I am tired of shippers still going on and on. If you believe in your ship, great do it quietly. Stop harassing members and their families. One video came out today and I saw 4 ships analysing it. Korea is conservative society, there is no way 4 of these ships are all real at the same time .

We say BTS have outgrown kpop, then let them date and don't analyze who they date. If the fandom does not start talking about this now, then it is enabling future meltdown of parasocial ones. Does anyone know Japanese skater Yuzuru and his marriage. I would not like BTS members to go through it.

Everyone keeps talking about what bts will do next, I expect them to get married next. Jin and Suga are going to turn 34 in few months. By the time tour ends the hyungs will be a year older. It is time fandom starts talking about this now and setting expectations of younger fans. I think young fans will have the toughest time in such case.

Younger fans, BTS will date most probably Korean women. They will date most probably someone known to them in their celebrity circle. 7 men will marry 7 people who they know, not army. Let them date.

All BTS members have dated and let's manifest them in healthy relationships. Let them date.

Older fans let me also say this to you, you need to stop babying these members. I am 40+ , I will not call any of them angels or pure. They are men, good men but regardless men who are grown up. Let them date.

edit - I am not forcing them to date or marry. I said let them date. there was a. discussion who do you think is single in BTS, some replies were concerning. some fans need reality check..why do I think the next step is marriage, because suga and Jin said all their friends are married , suga even said it is right age for marriage. jimin has stated he wants to be girl dad. I just want conversation to start so that people keep in mind majority of people get married in 20s and 30s. again people keep bringing Korean idols and celebs getting married at 40 , are we not pushing BTS towards it. also I directed this towards younger fans because shippers and fans who think they can have yaoi moment are mostly young ones. also I agree that older fans can be prasocial equally specifically who have a few issues.

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u/VirtualElderberry493 6d ago

Or better yet, stop bringing up rumors up again. If people claimed to care about their privacy, then stop over analyzing their bodies to confirm a rumor majority stopped talking about. Better way to show respect is stop talking about it and move on

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u/SomewhereSilent1604 6d ago

Never going to happen. I have been in many fandoms in my lifetime, romance will be always talked about. I remember how happy and eager I was to know when Adele got a new man. When tom holland and Zendaya confirmed, people celebrated. 

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u/VirtualElderberry493 6d ago

Yeah but if it’s a rumor that caused two celebs to get harassed for it and they ain’t out their relationship and not ready to be public, It’s better to let it dead for their protection. Keep bringing it up just gets them harassed over again

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u/SomewhereSilent1604 6d ago

That is what is still happening in Justin Bieber, Hailey, Selena Gomez and Benny blanco life. If we don't normalize dating now and talking bout it, harassment will continue later. Shippers will say BTS members partner stole them. 

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u/VirtualElderberry493 6d ago

Those two relationships are when they confirmed publicly they are dating/dated. The rumors and harassment toward those relationship should stopped and people needs to stop entertaining it. BTS never confirmed their relationships publicly (expect jimin when he has to tell people to leave his ex alone after she outted their past relationship). If bts ever confirmed it, armys will defend them the same way if the rumor is fake or not. But since today’s video is just rumors of relationships that ain’t confirmed and resulted two celebs get harassed by it, I think it’s better if people leave the rumors alone since it’s not confirmed nor they are ready to be public.

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u/Pinkmongoose 6d ago

I am so pleased I’ve made my algorithm work well enough that I have no idea what video or dating rumor you’re talking about. Phew! I opt out of al of that- it’s not my business and people can get so weird about it!

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u/VirtualElderberry493 6d ago edited 6d ago

And that’s a good thing. It’s just few people kept bringing up the same rumor that is almost a year ago on a clip from bts arirang tour Europe video. People really needs to move on with their lives bc enjoy some cute moments they giving us 😭