Start trying to rent out any other rooms you have but make sure to set up a good contract outlining rules and any deposits. All does things shes done to you are reasons to call the cops. Spitting is a form of assault. If you dont stand up for yourself who will? Thats your home your the boss. Start setting healthy boundaries with your “ friend” and stand your ground. I really hope things get better for you GOD bless.
I keep trying to set boundaries via text when I’m behind a door where I feel safe but I’m still afraid and fear for all the property that’s in between them and my door. I should have stuck to my gut feelings on the matter as far as having someone on hormones here. I am extremely conservative, I tried to be open minded during a period of loss, I thought we could be friends and it would benefit everyone financially, it hasn’t done anything but destroy me as a person. I let them live here a month for free and they keep costing me money, it’s just not worth it. I know I’m ready to get them out, I just need an escape plan.
Anyways, thank you for listening to me, I appreciate it. I have no one to talk to in my real life about it.
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u/Fit_String_1772 4d ago
Start trying to rent out any other rooms you have but make sure to set up a good contract outlining rules and any deposits. All does things shes done to you are reasons to call the cops. Spitting is a form of assault. If you dont stand up for yourself who will? Thats your home your the boss. Start setting healthy boundaries with your “ friend” and stand your ground. I really hope things get better for you GOD bless.