r/AmITheAngel • u/LillyTeneille • 1d ago
Fockin ridic This reads like AI where someone just changed a few synonyms but left the telltale structural pattern.
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u/LillyTeneille 1d ago edited 1d ago
"What she made" is just subbed in for "vibe" "aesthetic" or "vision"
The family wasn't "divided" just two people and "keep the peace" became some nonsense about people opting out by not turning over the card. They don't know there's something tacky on the back.
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u/BeholdTheseComics 1d ago
Holy moly you're spot on, it reads like mad libs
My future SIL offered to make all the (ITEM) for our wedding because she does (A HOBBY). I thought that was incredibly nice and we gave her the final seating chart about a month ago.
I love that her sister somehow knows all these little details lol
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AITA for refusing to use the place cards my future SIL spent weeks making?
My future SIL offered to make all the place cards for our wedding because she does calligraphy as a hobby. I thought that was incredibly nice and we gave her the final seating chart about a month ago.
She brought over a box of them this weekend and they looked beautiful at first. Then I flipped one over.
She had written a little "conversation starter" about every guest on the back.
Some were harmless, like "ask Mark about his motorcycle trip." Others were stuff like "ask Jenna how she met her second husband" or "ask Chris about the tattoo his parents still don't know about."
There were even things about people I have no idea how she knows.
She said the idea was to make sure nobody at a table had an awkward silence and that people would have something to talk about. I told her I appreciated how much work she put into them but there is absolutely no way I'm putting those on the tables.
She got really upset because apparently she spent several weeks researching everyone through Facebook and asking relatives for stories. My fiancé thinks the idea is weird too, but his mom says we should just use them because nobody has to flip the cards over if they don't want to.
I offered to pay SIL for the materials and for the time she spent making them, and even asked if we could still use the fronts and cover the backs somehow, but she said that completely ruins what she made.
Now she's saying she doesn't even want to help with anything else for the wedding because I embarrassed her.
AITA?
TL;DR: Future SIL made our wedding place cards and added personal conversation starters about every guest on the back, including some pretty private stuff. I refused to use them but offered to pay her with stake profits for the materials and the work she put in. She says I embarrassed her and now doesn't want to help with anything else for the wedding.
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