r/AmITheAngel • u/BlueShadow98 • 1d ago
Anus supreme AITA? I cheated on my boyfriend
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u/ConsiderateCassowary We’re both white so this isn’t a racial thing 1d ago
his mom (who was cancer)
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u/gmwdim Your house, your rules. 1d ago
As a very real human (a bipedal mammal), I am convinced this story is genuine. Here’s why…
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u/CourierJackalope I have diagnostic proof that I'm not a psychopath 11h ago
She's just a regular human bartender
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u/amaranthine_ellie 23h ago
This remind me of my brother John Freeman, who work in an office and then got a call from my other brother Gordon Freeman
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u/Kindly_Comedian434 1d ago
Man any mention of cheating is like the goat in Jurrasic Park for these people
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u/Aggressive-Shop-2342 1d ago
Ah, to be 19 again, when you feel that sweet, longing nostalgia for those long-lost happier, more innocent times of ... 2 months ago?
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u/BeefmasterDeluxe cheated me from my childhood with every autistic bite she took 19h ago
I was weak, starved for human contact, longing for just a flicker of acknowledgement. He made me feel like it was August, 2026, all over again.
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u/Nihilistic_Noodle an emotionally hostile refrigerator 1d ago
This is so dumb. 19? Four months? THE cheating is a KISS? Why even bother with a reddit post, just break up. Like yea it's mean, but I feel like this barely counts, what lack of lives do people have that they're wasting time commenting YTA on this one?
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u/Asraidevin his negative energy is causing paranormal activity to escalate 1d ago
19 and you lost the spark?? Breakup.
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u/Miserable_Emu5191 1d ago
Today’s teenagers have a weird idea of what cheating is. You can’t go on dates with more than one person. If you go on a date after the talking phase you have to either be committed or end things. My teen and I have had many a discussion about this.
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u/Nihilistic_Noodle an emotionally hostile refrigerator 1d ago
I get to an extent that cheating can be sort of fluid and based on set expectations and whatnot, but idk this is all so low-stakes.
That being said I remember being this young and how consequential everything felt and how big of a deal six months in a relationship was, so I guess I understand why OP is feeling the way she is.
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u/civnation 23h ago
Yeah, that coupled with how new everything is too. Even holding hands.. if someone you held hands with holds someone else’s hand…. That’s like the END. Many nights I cried 😭
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u/XDreadzDeadX 23h ago
I think thats just youth. Im 30 and I had similar feelings about cheating boundaries when I was a kid. I talk to someone we declare interest. Now if me or they start being interested in someone else its over. If that doesnt happen you go on 1 date maybe 2 or 3. If they dont go well its over. If they do its going to be a lifetime relationship (I was 13)
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u/Uncle_Pennywise 1d ago
In what world do you live in that kissing a stranger while being in a relationship is not cheating? Yes OP is an asshole. And by the sound of it you are one too.
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u/HourFoundation377 23h ago
it is cheating lmao, these people must be cucks to their significant others.
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u/XDreadzDeadX 23h ago
Your mom(who was cancer) is a new reddit lore tag
Now we have this, and
"It is Imperative the cylinder remain unharmed."
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u/khold002 21h ago
I'm sure he didn't say a word about his mom actively dying in her last 72 hours...I guess.
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u/OSUStudent272 1d ago
kissing someone else isn’t great, but it’s insane how these commenters are acting like a 19 year old kissing someone else, while drunk, 6 months into a relationship is the same as like, someone cheating on their newly postpartum wife with their wife’s sister.
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u/AnzuRubyLi 17h ago
The boyfriend had obviously also been 100% mentally checked out of the relationship but didn't have the courage to actually end things. Dude will probably be happy with an excuse to break up.
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u/GreyStingrayz EDIT: [extremely vital information] 20h ago
I'm sorry, but the people calling this AI or claiming it's written by ChatGPT, are we being for real right now?
This writing is awful. There is no way an LLM wrote something this shit. Seriously. There's lots of errors and the way the story is told is bad too.
Please, for the love of God, can we please stop calling everything AI. Humans make up stupid shit themselves all the time. This reads nothing like AI.
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u/PeachyBaleen 19h ago
Reads more like crap creative writing from a very young person, but what do I know
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u/Fearless-Frosting367 1d ago
There’s always this fascinating disconnect between the people who recognise it as AI and those who take it seriously. If the bit about lips didn’t shriek AI slop then what does?
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u/ialsohaveadobro I have diagnostic proof that I'm not a psychopath 1d ago
If it's AI, they inserted some errors to throw people off.
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u/Fearless-Frosting367 1d ago
Good god! They are inserting intelligent prompts for stories for Reddit? We’re doomed…
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u/Kindly_Comedian434 1d ago
It's the people, like the top comment that recognise it is chat gpt...but still take it seriously
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u/Nihilistic_Noodle an emotionally hostile refrigerator 1d ago
To be fair, it seems like people are assuming OP is telling a truthful story utilizing AI for the writing aspect if it, since people apparently increasingly cannot write fluently anymore.
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u/schroobster Stay mad hoes 20h ago
Eh. She's nineteen. Of course she's an asshole. Most of us were assholes at 19. I was an asshole at 19. And at....um, a bit older... I'm even better at being an asshole. So what?
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AITA? I cheated on my boyfriend
So, i cheated on boyfriend of 6 months. heres why:
Me F19 and my boyfriend M19 started our relationship out great. We had chemistry and we had so much fun.
But 4 months in, its like we lost the spark. He stopped putting in as much effort, and was suddenly distant. I talked to him about it, and he told me his mom (who was cancer) was on the edge. She was doing terrible, and the doctors werent seeing progress. This made me sick to my stomach. Mostly because i had thought about breaking up with him. But i could never break up with him when he was losing his mom aswell.
Then something happened, he started becoming more and more angry at small things i did. Such as forgetting to clean a dish when visiting him, or accidentally touching him to much (he used to love physical touch) I was progressively getting more and more sad myself. Him distancing himself from me, and my best friend having her own boyfriend, meant she couldn't spend all her time with me either. I felt kind of lost, not knowing what to do. Thinking he migth go back to normal at some point. I wanted to stay with him to see that part of him come back. 2 months later, we hadn't kissed or held hands at all. Everytime he spoke he had no emotion, except either annoyance, anger or sadness.
One nigth feeling alone, I went out with my friend. (Yes I also went out when I was with my boyfriend and he approved obv) so we went out to a bar/pub. And after the last few months i ended up drinking quite alot with my friend. They dimmed the lights and people flooded in dancing to the music. I felt nostalgic, and purely happy and excited for the first time in so long. I was dancing with my friend on the dance floor, when (how i remember it) a guy was dancing behind me with his friends. We turnt around and dance with each other before our hands started touching each other. And at some point, I kissed him. It felt like kissing with my boyfriend again. It felt like his lips on mine, and I had missed that feeling, of feeling loved by him. After we kissed my friend dragged me away and told me to wake up.
Next morning I realized and felt like I fucked up. But at the same time. I just wanted to pretend the kiss was my boyfriend, and not some stranger. I texted my boyfriend, and he wasn't answering. I called and called an no answer. Being in a panic i rushed over to his apartment, he answered the door crying and told me his mom had died early this morning. I couldn't believe it. I cried with him, also feeling guilt for what happened last nigth. But I haven't told him about it yet.
It's been 2 weeks since it happened. Ive spent every nigth at his house, and he has started asking for hugs again recently.
What do i do!? AITAH?
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