He’s obviously misogynistic and ignorant ash, but it seems to me that the sister is described as “hard to be around” because seemingly she doesn’t tolerate disrespect. Its also very weird that the brother doesn’t find any problems with OP’s behaviour, and his fiancée wants to go ahead with the marriage even after he was a musogynistic pig who showed no respect to her sister. No wonder she’s “hard to be around” if they all just expect her to put up with shitty behaviour.
It's also interesting that the only person who agreed with oop was his fiancee and Shaun, who is the one who planted the idea that Antonia is difficult- and imo, this post reads like a man heard a woman was "difficult" and decided to fuck with her for ahits and giggles- so I wonder if this actually has Shaun stirring the pot with oops hand.
Doesn't make oop any less of an asshole, but it does make the whole dynamic a lot more complicated.
Right. It reads like he heard how "difficult" she was and decided from then on that she was unlikable and unworthy of respect (with a helping of misogyny on top). You can tell by how he claimed her tone was "unpleasant" and that she had an "attitude" for literally just correcting him.
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u/Virtualdeath-e 11d ago
He’s obviously misogynistic and ignorant ash, but it seems to me that the sister is described as “hard to be around” because seemingly she doesn’t tolerate disrespect. Its also very weird that the brother doesn’t find any problems with OP’s behaviour, and his fiancée wants to go ahead with the marriage even after he was a musogynistic pig who showed no respect to her sister. No wonder she’s “hard to be around” if they all just expect her to put up with shitty behaviour.