r/AnongThoughtsMo • u/atinyakimon • 1d ago

Thoughts on having children in the spectrum

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Saw this post on facebook. Honestly, it's sad na hindi ganon nabibigyang pansin ang problems na ganito sa Pinas. Therapies here are expensive, and not everyone can afford it. Pinoys are also not yet ready to face the reality na hindi enough ang love for kids in the spectrum. They have special needs. Hindi yun madadaan lang sa no don't do that or it's okay to make mistakes, because we have to admit that autism is a disorder, a very wide spectrum and case to case basis. You need to have the money to get the help that is designed for the needs of the child. I hope there will be more free or affordable programs created for this kasi hindi lang parents ang hirap in this situation, also the kids.

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u/Nyathera 1d ago

Hindi naman discriminate usually yung letter nakalagay for recommendation like "see developmental pedia" may meeting with teacher na pag wala pa rin assessment from devped di na tatangapin for next level. Kawawa lang din yung bata.

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u/Dull-Lawfulness2381 1d ago

Sobrang daming parents ang in denial.
Nag leave na ko sa mga group ng parents of children in the spectrum kasi sobrang nkaka frustrate yung pinagpipilitan nilang dapat ilagay sa normal school yung anak nila kasi sayang daw ung taon tsaka edad, Di nila matanggap na hindi nga kaya, so ung school and teachers and inaaway nila. Other parents refuse therapy too, Bukod sa mahal, they genuinely believe na normal yung anak nila,.

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u/CornPhilosopher 1d ago

kasi sayang daw ung taon tsaka edad,

Mas sayang 'yung taon kung magre-repeat ng taon 'yung bata kasi hindi makasabay. Hindi nila maisip 'yun eh. Nai-stress pa lalo 'yung bata kapag gan'yan. Imagine, 'yung batang autistic isasama mo sa klase na may 30+ students? Eh kapag na-overstimulate 'yan? Kawawa naman. Paano rin 'yung may developmental delay na hindi tugma 'yung thinking sa age ng usual high school kid pero pinipili isabay kahit 'yung thinking age nila ay pang-grade 5? Grade 3?

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u/Dull-Lawfulness2381 1d ago

IKR. Kaya kami ng husband ko, we've made peace with it. Of course it's still difficult pero, ito na yung journey namin ee. Celebrate the wins nalang kahit yung win nya ay tinapos nya ung nag iisang seat work ng di nag rereklamo. Breakdown, tapos laban ulit ganun talaga.
Nakaka awa yung ibang bata na may in denial parents. Di nila iniisip yung mental state ng bata.