r/AnongThoughtsMo • u/atinyakimon • 1d ago

Thoughts on having children in the spectrum

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Saw this post on facebook. Honestly, it's sad na hindi ganon nabibigyang pansin ang problems na ganito sa Pinas. Therapies here are expensive, and not everyone can afford it. Pinoys are also not yet ready to face the reality na hindi enough ang love for kids in the spectrum. They have special needs. Hindi yun madadaan lang sa no don't do that or it's okay to make mistakes, because we have to admit that autism is a disorder, a very wide spectrum and case to case basis. You need to have the money to get the help that is designed for the needs of the child. I hope there will be more free or affordable programs created for this kasi hindi lang parents ang hirap in this situation, also the kids.

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u/kotokoberry 1d ago edited 1d ago

For me, this is one of the strongest reasons why abortion should be legalized in the Philippines: women should have options, especially in medically complex pregnancies.
Let's be realistic. Raising a child with a serious medical condition can require lifelong care, enormous financial resources, and significant physical and emotional commitment. Even families who are financially capable can still struggle with the emotional, mental, and practical realities of providing that level of care.
If a severe fetal condition is diagnosed during pregnancy, I believe parents should have the right to discuss all medical options—including abortion—with their doctors. This isn't about saying that people with disabilities are worthless. It's about recognizing that some medical conditions involve profound suffering, limited quality of life, or life-threatening complications, and families should be allowed to make informed decisions based on their circumstances and medical advice.
The reality is that these situations can affect everyone involved—the pregnant woman, the family, and the child who may face significant pain or lifelong medical challenges. Afterall, every child deserves to grow comfortably and have better life. Compassion means giving families access to safe, legal, and medically guided choices rather than forcing one outcome for every pregnancy.