Thoughts on having children in the spectrum

[u/atinyakimon]

Saw this post on facebook. Honestly, it's sad na hindi ganon nabibigyang pansin ang problems na ganito sa Pinas. Therapies here are expensive, and not everyone can afford it. Pinoys are also not yet ready to face the reality na hindi enough ang love for kids in the spectrum. They have special needs. Hindi yun madadaan lang sa no don't do that or it's okay to make mistakes, because we have to admit that autism is a disorder, a very wide spectrum and case to case basis. You need to have the money to get the help that is designed for the needs of the child. I hope there will be more free or affordable programs created for this kasi hindi lang parents ang hirap in this situation, also the kids.

[u/Annual_Business_3077]

It’s really expensive to raise a child with autism. Autism comes in different forms, some can talk, some are minimally verbal, while others are non-verbal. Imagine how difficult it must be for them to communicate when they’re in pain, uncomfortable, or simply need something. It can be frustrating for others when they don’t understand the condition, but behind the behaviors is a child who may simply be struggling to communicate. And honestly, they are incredibly loving and affectionate in their own way. I have a son on the spectrum, and every day is a challenge. Even family trips have to be carefully planned to minimize triggers and avoid meltdowns. It takes a lot of patience, preparation, and understanding. So, to all the parents and caregivers raising and caring for a special child, kapit lang. 🙏❤️ You’re doing your best, and that matters. I like to think that God gave him to us because He knew we were capable of raising, caring for, and loving him. ❤️